Have you ever felt like you've done everything to get a woman's attention but she seems to be ignoring you? The endless sending of flowers and love poems still doesn't help you? You might want to try making some small changes for yourself! With the right steps, you'll be attracting a girl's attention without having to do anything! The girls will fight over you! Read this article to find out how.
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Method 1 of 3: Get a Sexy Body
Step 1. Keep your body clean
Girls don't want to smell you for not showering for a week. YOU don't even want to kiss him yourself, do you? Shower regularly and use deodorant. You'll be surprised at the changes you'll get if you haven't already.
Step 2. Wear nice clothes
You don't have to wear branded clothes, just wear clothes that feel right, fit you, don't rip or stain, and don't look like 1986 fashions. Don't worry about brands: a girl you should get is a girl who doesn't care about the brand. you wear. Just make sure you don't wear clothes that embarrass him when he's with you.
Step 3. Have a fragrant body
Just as you like a girl who smells like a perfect princess and just came from heaven, girls also like a guy who smells good. You can do this by keeping your body clean, then adding a little fragrance. You can use a scented deodorant. If you want to go a step further, you can try a cologne or body spray. Just make sure your scent isn't too strong and that you're spraying it properly. He doesn't want you to smell like you've just bathed in Ax's ocean.
Step 4. Maintain an ideal body weight
Just like men who like slim girls, girls usually prefer men who are quite fit. You don't have to look like Ade Rai because he won't care if you have six pack abs or not. You just have to keep your body healthy and comfortable when walking up a big hill, for example. This will make you more confident and help attract women's attention.
- It's not that the girls are arrogant or trapped in the ideas that exist in society about the ideal body. Not exercising shows that you don't care about yourself in order to stay healthy (even if you don't).
- If you've both gained a few pounds, you should be prepared to lose your own weight before asking him to lose weight.
Method 2 of 3: Showing Your Good Personality
Step 1. Find your talent
Everyone is attracted to people who can do cool things. Now, you may already have a talent or have the potential to have a talent that you didn't know about. You have to find those talents and develop them. Even if your talent isn't as "attractive" as playing a musical instrument, developing your talent and spending time with people who do the same will give you the opportunity to meet girls you have a lot in common with.
You can always learn new talents. Drawing is a great talent because it can be learned and is not something that requires inherited talent
Step 2. Be passionate
Don't be the guy who just sits at home on the weekends eating chips and playing video games. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert, but you still have to spend time doing fun things. If you're an introvert, start writing a book or study art. If you are more comfortable talking to other people and being outside, do these things. Join a club, hike a mountain, volunteer, or whatever. Make your life meaningful. You want to have a topic to talk about with the girls, don't you?
If you still want to play video games, you should plan to be a competitive gamer and always be a champion because the point of playing games is to be a winner
Step 3. Be a good person and respect others
Even if you don't charm all girls, but have a bad temper and treat other people badly, you'll have a hard time attracting girls. Even if you are nice to a woman you have a crush on but rude to others, she will know it. Be a kind and sincere person, and respect others. That way, the girl will be sure that she can expect the same from you.
Step 4. Be a stable person
Being stable means having a good job, doing the things you promise, and generally being someone in charge. Don't feel that women want you to have a good job so they can be taken care of; they just want to know that you won't be a burden! Just as you wouldn't want a girl doing nothing, she wouldn't want a guy just sitting around all day eating Cheetos. If you show him that you can pay your bills and have a steady job, he'll want to be your girlfriend.
Step 5. Be the hero
Being his hero doesn't mean treating him like he can't do anything alone. You have to be able to provide help when he needs it. Support him emotionally when he's having a bad day. Get him to talk about the problem so he can find a solution. When he asks for help or advice, give it to him without any negative thoughts or criticism. Look for ways that you can make his life easier and help him achieve the things he wants in life.
Step 6. Don't be a jerk
You can be Jon Hamm, it doesn't matter: women are not obligated to date you. Keep that in mind. Just think about it, if a girl you thought was unattractive and boring started telling you that you were a loser, how would you feel? Sometimes people just don't connect with each other. It's not your fault or his. Keep trying and you will find the girl of your dreams.
Method 3 of 3: Be Independent
Step 1. Do the things you usually do yourself
If you don't want to go out and hook up a lot of women, you have to make sure that you go out to do things on your own. Don't wait for the girl you have a crush on or send her flowers every week. Just do what you normally do and wait for him to come to you. Some things that can be done are:
- Hang out with friends. In the end, you do have to continue with the video game.
- Hang out alone. Finally! Peace and tranquility! Now it's time to relax in only underwear!
- Do the things you love. This is a great time to develop talents that women find attractive.
Step 2. Give him some freedom
Girls don't want to date someone who clings to her too much or controls her too much. If you have a girlfriend that you have a crush on, show that you're totally okay doing things without her. Don't piss her off by constantly asking her out, don't ask her to be with her (or follow her without asking!), don't try to corner her when you want to talk, and don't try to make her feel guilty or manipulate her into going out with you. Show him that he's free to go anywhere and do whatever he wants, and that if he wants a friend, you're willing to be with him any time.
Step 3. Don't be a follower
Start a trend and don't follow an existing trend. Girls like guys who look cool in their eyes. Try to be an independent man and show your personality, rather than copying what other men do.
Step 4. Don't be a scary person
This is very important so that the girls want to date you. Stay away from weird comments or jokes. Look at his face. Don't stalk the girls. If some girls think you're a scary guy, they'll warn other girls about you and you won't have another chance.
The basic rule is if you don't want to say something to your mom, don't say it to a girl you're not dating
Step 5. Okay, don't be too independent
You can't make girls think you're not interested in dating. Flirt with him every now and then or find other ways to show that you're interested in him.
Tips
- If a guy walked up to you at the mall and tried to befriend you, what would you do? Blushing and stuttering and doing awkward things? Probably not. If a girl walks up to you, even though she's really pretty, treat her the same way. It will make him want you more.
- Basically, you shouldn't have the urge to date every girl. It's harder to do than it sounds. You should hold your feelings in until you feel comfortable with the girl, and it will be easier for both of you to move on.
- A sense of humor plays an important role in love and friendship. However, if you find someone attractive, approach them in a kind way because there are plenty of opportunities to seduce them once they are already attracted to you. Do it slowly and simply. Be a calm man.
Warning
- Basically, what this article describes is how you can change yourself to be a better bachelor. Follow the advice in this article and you might just get more attention. BUT DON'T BE TOO EXCITED. Keep your composure, remember who you are, the way you behave, and you will surely succeed.
- Don't get stuck on your self-confidence or on things you can't change. Many men know that he is a good man but are not confident in his physique. It is very important that you avoid this as it can ruin your business.
- Be brave, defend yourself and be careful.
- If you've just started chatting with a girl and you're feeling nervous, and things are starting to get awkward or you're starting to run out of things to talk about, walk away. But don't do it impolitely. Avoid awkward moments no matter what. Therefore, if that happens, make an excuse to leave. Then you can master yourself again and try again next time.
- Remember, keep the mindset as Alpha. Be a leader and a great figure. But that doesn't mean you have to order other people. You have to act like a natural leader.
