Moving out of your parents' home is a big step that marks your transition to independence. It is important that you are prepared to take care of yourself. You should create a budget for moving costs, as well as a monthly spending plan. You also need to think about the emotional changes you will face. Living alone is great, but it is also a big change. Make sure you are fully prepared.
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Method 1 of 3: Managing Money
Step 1. Know how much your living costs will be
When living alone, you will receive a lot of bills. It can't be helped. Before moving, you need to know the costs of many things, including rent, utilities, food, and transportation. Make a list of all the things you use in your daily life (water, heating, internet), then find out how much they cost per month in the city where you live.
Step 2. Determine the budget
You should write down a reasonable budget on paper. In addition to calculating costs for essential needs (rent, electricity, etc.), make sure you also budget for non-essential needs. For example, the cost for entertainment every month. Do you like going to the cinema? Include it in the budget.
- Make sure you know how much you earn. If the money you make varies from month to month, use the lowest number to create a budget. Do not let mistakes in the calculation make you short.
- You also need to budget for transportation costs. Try calculating how much you spend on gas and public transportation.
- Make sure there is "fun money" in your budget each month. Don't forget flexible fees. Everyone wants to pamper themselves once in a while.
- Don't be afraid to change your budget over time. Prices will fluctuate, so will your income and priorities.
Step 3. Have a credit history
Credit scores are an important part of financial independence. Before living alone, make sure you already have a credit history with a good score. To have a credit history, you need to consider a credit card. Learn about the different types of credit cards and choose the one that suits you best. Make sure you pay your bills on time each month.
You can ask your parents to include your name on one of the household bills. For example, you can get a credit history if your parents use your name to subscribe to cable TV broadcasts
Step 4. Have an emergency fund
What if your car breaks down? What will happen if your boss reduces your working hours so your income will decrease? Unfortunately, all of these things can happen. Therefore, you must prepare an emergency fund. When preparing to move, you should have at least five to eight million rupiah for an emergency fund.
Step 5. Do a test run first
Before moving, try practicing financial responsibility for a month or two. Set a budget and stick to it. If necessary, you can pay rent to your parents in preparation for paying the cost of renting a house or boarding house. Most likely parents will not refuse.
Method 2 of 3: Managing Logistics
Step 1. Find a place
This should be the biggest priority when planning a move. When looking for a new home, there are many factors to consider. First, choose a location. Would you like to live close to work? Near a place to socialize? Determine what is important to you. Next, choose the most suitable type of residence. Are you the type of person who likes apartments? Do you need a house?
- At this point, you need to decide whether you want to live alone or with friends or other people. This is a great option to consider if your budget is tight. If you have friends who are also looking for a place to stay, this is an ideal choice. If the choice is someone you don't know, make sure you consider compatibility and security.
- One way to find housemates is to ask acquaintances and use connections. Post it on your social media sites and email coworkers to ask if they know anyone who might be interested.
- You can also use the internet to find housemates. Use a reputable site, and describe what kind of friend you're looking for. Make sure you meet the candidate in private, in a public place. Invite a trusted friend who can provide feedback.
Step 2. Purchase equipment
At the parents' house, all things are already available. When preparing to move, you should think about the daily equipment needed. Yes, you need furniture. However, don't forget soap, drinking glasses, and cleaning tools. Make a shopping list and buy your new home needs.
- Take note of the important items in your parents' house. Don't forget to bring or buy small things like light bulbs, a toilet vacuum, and a can opener.
- Make a list of all the items you need in each room in the new place. This is to help so that nothing is forgotten.
- You can save a lot of money if you can make the most of what you have. Ask if your friends and family have unused furniture, plates, etc. Secondhand goods will be of great help when you are learning to live on your own.
- Buy second hand. Thrift and consignment stores are one option for buying essentials for a new home. Kitchen utensils at thrift stores are usually pretty cheap.
Step 3. Install the services you need
Once you've found a place to live, ask the landlady about what utilities you have to deal with. Contact the service provider in your area. Have water, electricity and heating ready before you enter. Maybe you need to prepare a deposit as a new customer, and don't forget to include it in your budget.
- Another service you will need is haulage and transportation to move. If you have a lot of strong friends and can borrow a truck, make sure you ask them for help and schedule the move according to their schedule.
- Hire carriers. Power is expensive, but it will make the moving process much easier. Call several carrier services in your area and ask for their prices. You also need to consider reviews from other customers.
Step 4. Explore your new area
Take time to walk around in a new environment. Make sure you know the location of the nearest convenience store, pharmacy, and gas bomb. See if there is a park nearby and a restaurant or place to eat. Invite friends for more fun.
Step 5. Change your address
This step is especially important when you are preparing to move. There are many parties you should be told where you live now. Think about who needs to know your new address. Make a list, including:
- Bank
- Workplace
- Doctor's Clinic
- School
- Insurance company
Step 6. Create a new ID card
You will need an ID card and driving license that match the new address. Take care of this after you officially move to the new address.
Method 3 of 3: Prepare Emotionally
Step 1. Think about your comfort level
If this is your first time living alone, you may be a little nervous. That's normal. Before moving, think about what you need to feel safe. Would it help if you knew your neighbors? Have you read the criminal report in the new environment? Do whatever helps you to feel safe. If necessary, consider changing the lock.
Step 2. Plan family time
Getting out of the parent's house is certainly very hard emotionally. Talk about how often you will see them. Will you come every Sunday? Or, will you only meet them during Eid or Christmas? Decide on a plan that works for everyone. If you have a plan in place, you will feel more at ease when the day of the move comes.
Step 3. Communicate everything
You should also talk to your parents about their new role in your life. Will they help you financially? Would you still come to their house to wash clothes, for example? Set certain boundaries and make sure you and they understand those boundaries.
Step 4. Have a backer
At first, living alone can sometimes feel lonely. Before going out, make sure you have a backer. Invite some friends over to your new place to unpack and eat. Or, tell your mother that you will call her in the evening. Do whatever will make you comfortable and avoid loneliness.
Step 5. Celebrate your independence
Do not forget to be happy. Even though living alone is a bit scary at first, try to think of all the advantages. You can listen to your favorite album over and over again, and no one will protest (except maybe the neighbors, watch the volume). Lazy to take a shower on Saturday? Don't worry, no one will know.
Tips
- Read reviews of service providers in your new location (telephone, internet, cable TV) so you can make the most suitable choice.
- Ask the landlord a lot about the environment and regulations.
