Have you ever felt trampled, used, made a joke or suffered because of other people? Then it's time to put an end to all that and learn how to be a bitch. Note, however, bitches are cool. You just have to be bitchy.
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Method 1 of 2: Judes like Regina George
Step 1. Adjust appearance to the situation
Regina has power. She is ready to be given responsibility at any time because she is beautiful and always ready. Even though it is rotten but the world will see and judge you from what you see on the outside. So, if you want to be a bitch, you have to look good. You have to be intimidating. And what can intimidate girls? Beautiful girl.
- Wear fashionable clothes. This means that you can follow current trends or, if you can, create your own style. Choose clothes carefully and make sure your clothes fit well. Maintain a certain style to be your identity.
- Bring a wallet. Keep a little makeup kit in there. Even though she was in gym class, Regina George still looked beautiful. He was successful because he mastered the details. Lip gloss, accessories–he's always ready.
Step 2. Be super nice
..to some people only. If you're mean to everyone, you're just going to be a bitch no one likes. You have to act like it's hard to beg for your approval – few people deserve credit, yes, you are picky. When people understand that they don't live up to your standards, they will be motivated to try to do better.
Be nice to some people overtly. Others should know that you can be really sweet when someone deserves it. Choose those that you deserve to treat well and then do it consistently. These people will later become your closest friends
Step 3. Grab something
When someone wants something, you buy it. Well, why not? Someone will buy it too and it's not impossible that person is you. If that something turns out to be “someone”, great. If that's the smart girl's homework, that's great.
- Okay, don't really take the PR. What this means is that if you "forget" to do your homework and know the girl next to you will definitely get an A, tell her that your pet was sick last night and you didn't have time to do it – can I borrow your homework?
- If people don't offer, ask. Take the opportunity to make them feel close to you. Ask one of the girls about the polish she likes to wear. He will be happy when he knows you want to look like him. If you forgot to bring money for lunch, try bringing it up with one of the guys–he'll want to come down and save you. Basically, take advantage of the little moments.
Step 4. Reply to what people say
Regina was always up for a subtle but biting reproach. If someone is bothering you, respond by making it difficult for you too. But respond with subtle cynicism–they'll wonder what your words really mean as they think.
If someone accuses you of being mean, simply reply, “I'm not being mean–I'm just defending myself. nothing wrong with that. You should also try it once in a while–you must be tired of being obedient all the time. After all, no one likes submissive people.” Use insults to help you in situations like this
Step 5. Flirt
If you've been dealing with guys, your personality needs to be tweaked a bit. You should still expect (and take) something, but it should be done simply and with a smile. They will appreciate your attention, so only give it at certain times. After all, which guy is good enough for you?
Smile. Bitches and bad guys wouldn't smile, would they? Be a happy person when you meet and chat with them–they will ignore your bitchy attitude because they never see them in person
Step 6. Pretend to be nice the first time you meet
Remember how Regina George called a girl in a vintage skirt down the hall and told her she liked the skirt? Then he turned around and mumbled “huh”? The girl left, feeling herself at the top and thinking that Regina was very sweet. Now, Regina had the power.
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Say you do the same thing. Suddenly, a girl in a vintage skirt walks up to you and asks if you want to go to the gym together, because she knows you're in her class. You can say, “Are we really in the same class? I've never seen you but, sorry, I have to meet someone."
The magic words “I'm sorry” keep the girl from getting mad at you. And again, you're wrapping reproaches into questions. It might sound better, but it really isn't if your intention is not to be kind
Step 7. Lie to adults
If you get too caught up in this bitchy role, pretty soon everyone will be against you. When those at the top don't agree with you, you could get in trouble. So make sure the grown-ups don't see this bitchy side.
Be a good student. When you're a good student, it's hard for teachers to believe you're being mean, especially if you're being nice to them
Step 8. Respond to people's behavior appropriately
Sometimes when you expect a lot from people, they will desire to fulfill it. So when these people don't live up to expectations, make them understand that. So the plan here is, no one wants to let you down–in fact, they just have to get better and better. There is no “if”, “and”, or “but” about it.
Say, you are having an English assignment with some people who are not friends. Someone said he would bring his poster on Monday but he forgot that day. Can you come after school to finish it? No. You already have an event. He should have remembered–his negligence slowed the group's progress. He had to work on it tonight and regroup the next day
Step 9. Never take the blame
To compensate for your bitchy attitude, your other side has to be truly angelic. The side of a girl who never goes wrong–but when it does, she has her reasons. Never want to be blamed for anything; always have excuses or scapegoats.
So, person A hears you tell B that his ass is getting bigger. Oh no! That's out of context. Person B told you that person A was getting fatter. He won't stop! So to keep him quiet, you just say yes that maybe it's true that A is getting fatter, but other than the butt everything looks the same. In fact, you also want to be fatter. Then you suggest going out with person A because you want him to feel better
Step 10. Be a forgetful person
Even if you've met someone 50 times, forget the name. Or pretend to forget. You know they were classmates in Math class and the same school for 6 years, but they don't need to know that you remember them.
This really pissed people off. When they're really upset ("Are you serious? You just borrowed my homework last week. What's your problem?"), then you may come to your senses. Just ignore it as if it's your forgetfulness that doesn't matter. Your ignorance will make them think twice about whether their reaction just now was overkill
Method 2 of 2: Exploring Judes' Attitude from the Inside
Step 1. Be confident
You are talented and beautiful, don't be fooled by what other people say. You may not be perfect, and no human is perfect. Learn to be confident, look confident, and feel confident. You will be amazed at how powerful it is to pretend to be confident.
Think of it this way: when a child sneaks into the cinema, who gets caught? The whiny child, looked here and there, and moved awkwardly. Calm children will not get into trouble, will not be questioned – because they seem to blend in with the environment. When you are confident, simply put, you will get more out of it
Step 2. Emphasize your independence
Learn to do things yourself and only ask for help when you really need it. You don't need anyone. Depending on others makes you need other people–something you should avoid.
Being independent, alone, will strengthen yourself not to depend on the judgment of others. When you don't really care what people say, there are more doors open to doing what you want
Step 3. Say what you want to say and express your thoughts anywhere
People may not like it, but they will appreciate your honesty. As long as you stick to the truth, it will be hard to argue with you.
Prepare yourself to receive similar treatment. When you don't follow common ethics or social values in general, others will see that and feel more comfortable attacking you in the same way you attack them. If you say, "You obviously didn't pass the exam because you're below average in intelligence" (though that's likely true), the other person will feel hurt and respond with anything to get back at you, even something silly, like "It's still better not to." pass the exam instead of having a face that only mama can love, like you.” Be prepared to get rough treatment too from people
Step 4. Be friends with other bitchy girls who are confident
They will boost your self-esteem and your way of defending yourself, as opposed to shy girls who tend to accept any kind of treatment. You need support because keeping these changes consistent on a daily basis is difficult.
These girls will be the hardest people to make friends with. You want them to know they have your approval, but only for now. Because when they turn nasty on you, they also need to be removed. Be strong against them, but also keep them as your friends. “He called you fat? Okay, you do have to lose weight, I want to too. Let's do it together."
Step 5. Don't be afraid to face bad girls
We know who they are and how destructive they are. NEVER be nice to them – better yet, just ignore them. Make sure he's aware that you don't like him, and aren't afraid of him either.
You shouldn't just be rude to him, unless you understand the consequences and are ready to accept them. But if you miss, it's you who will fall and he will look better. If you can, just ignore him. Ignoring the person is worse than hating – at least that hate means you still have the care to talk about it. If you ignore it, it means you don't care about its existence. That's what hurts
Step 6. Be unpredictable
If you go along with your mood, people will get worried. They can get tired of dealing with you, so do this at the right time and place. This means when you have to be really bitchy and really sweet.
Swap the bitch once in a while for a good moment–it will blow people away. It's nice to see their reaction. Call the girl in the corridor and tell her you enjoyed reading her book report. Tell the others they were great at volleyball last Thursday. It sounds like a small, meaningless comment, but if your comments other than that are all negative, your comment will have more power
Step 7. Don't be a childish girl
Giggling, wearing pink knick-knacks, and acting like a kindergartner is not an option. Be as you wish, but also make people aware of your shock. Your surprise is for certain purposes, not because you are moody like a child.
Being bitchy will work if you act mature. Revealing the secret is not bitchy, but stupid; people will not tolerate it. If you are mature, assertive, honest, and don't suffer from stupid illnesses, that's just someone others find hard to blame. Be smart in using your new weapon
Tips
- Don't let your defenses fall. Be strong all the time, or people will know that your curtness is fake.
- Try making friends with the boys. They can be friends when needed.
- Defend your friends as well as yourself. They will respect and like you more.
- "Girl bitch" may not be the right term. What you want is to be strong and stand out. Understand the difference.
Warning
- Don't confuse "bitty" with "moody". Smile, laugh, and appreciate something.
- Judes is NOT a bully! Don't be mean to other people all the time; try to be more confident. Do it when people hurt you; defend yourself and don't be half-hearted.
- Even though you will become popular, there will be many who will resent your attitude. Try not to take advantage of this popularity, because if you do then you can turn into a bully--not a popular girl!
- Regina George is not a nice person. He manipulates people and has no real friends. Be prepared to feel very, very lonely.
