Author Albert Camus once said, "I rebelled, therefore I exist." Rebelling is more than just being different from your surroundings; rebelling is establishing who you are and making others aware of you. If you're sick of following people around and feeling normal, follow these steps to become a known rebel.
Step
Method 1 of 3: Think Like a Rebel
Step 1. Maintain unpopular views on politics and social issues
A central part of being rebellious is developing views that run counter to popular, traditional views.
- Musical rebels like Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur based much of their work and philosophy on resisting the ready, going against the expectations of their peers, and acting against the expectations of others. They do what they feel, say what they believe, and don't care what people think.
- The United States and other free nations were founded on unpopular beliefs. In the 1960s during the civil rights movement, interracial marriage was considered illegal in certain states. Ethnic marriage was once a popular belief and is now considered wrong. Those who fought against him are now hailed as enforcers of freedom and advanced thinkers of their time.
- Remember "popular" is relative. People at your school may believe parties and drugs are popular social norms. Defy the norm by being clean and proud to proclaim it to others.
Step 2. Question common and popular beliefs
Part of holding unpopular views is questioning what most people believe for granted.
- French scientist Georges Cuvier used to try to convince people that African Americans were not as intelligent as Caucasians because of the shape and size of their skulls. His student, Friedrich Tiedemann, questioned this theory and pointed out that there was no scientific evidence to support this commonly held "truth".
- Questioning your beliefs and those of others is hard, but the payoff is worth it. Remember that it is natural for people to take things for granted, because that is the easiest course of action. When you question something, you will naturally be different from the crowd, because questioning tends to be rare.
- Questioning things is not only a way to be different, it is also a way to arrive at the truth. When you question something that is eventually discovered to be the truth, you will be held in high regard by your peers. Most people in the 16th century believed that the earth was flat. Pythagoras, the man who proved otherwise, is now revered in science and mathematics.
Step 3. Know that multiple matches are normal
You don't have to be totally different from everyone to be a rebel. Following trends is part of being human, and actually helps us guide our daily lives.
- Musicians such as Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur are hailed as some of the most rebellious artists in their respective genres. Still, they tend to dress and behave in a similar way to their peers.
- Most people are not aware when they match themselves. Following others is a natural process, but that doesn't mean you can't consciously do the opposite.
- You may find that on the path to being a rebel, you will find that there are others who share your beliefs. This is not strange, and this is often how movements and revolutions begin.
Step 4. Think of rebellion as a movement, not just an attitude
Being a rebel involves physical action, not just defending and believing in unpopular views.
- Even if you decide to be an unconditional rebel, you will need to show that you are who you are.
- You don't have to hurt other people's feelings or say weird things to be a rebel. Being a rebel is as simple as displaying unusual or unpopular behavior.
- For example, it may be popular and common for your peers to play soccer and wear letterman jackets on campus. Do the opposite by wearing ripped jeans and a band t-shirt.
Method 2 of 3: Act Like a Rebel
Step 1. Establish your own understanding of a general rule or belief
You don't have to break the rules to be a rebel. All you have to do is act in a way that stands out from the crowd.
- For example, if you play a sport and have a letterman jacket, stand out from your fellow athletes by removing the sleeves and wearing them like a vest.
- If you are required to pronounce the teacher's name correctly such as "Pak. Tulus" or "Bu Nabillah," twist it by calling it "Pak. Pamrih" or "Bu Naudzubillah".
- If your school requires uniforms, wear neat pants/skirts and shirts, but add personality by not tucking shirts into pants/skirts.
- If your friends are walking slowly while playing on their cellphones, steal your attention by walking briskly down the campus hallway. Walk proudly, while humming, swinging your arms like a gorilla. People tend to remember things that are unusual or difficult to understand.
Step 2. Speak your mind, especially when the other person is afraid to speak up
Speaking your mind doesn't mean just blurting out what you're thinking at the time. This means supporting your opinions and beliefs, especially on issues that you feel strongly about.
- Maybe you feel in the school canteen there is no good food like burgers and indomie. Advise the school that they add foods that teenagers like.
- If you can't get others to share their opinion, do it yourself. Hanging out may be a great way to show you're serious, but that's not the only way. As long as you have solid evidence for your beliefs, you'll be fine (for example, good food aids learning because it increases serotonin, and high serotonin is important for memory).
- If the school gives you writing assignments, write about how bad the food in the cafeteria is. Paint a picture of the food you want and paste it on the wall. Sing a song about it during recess. Art is a great way to get people to see the value of your point of view and express yourself in a creative way.
Step 3. Do what you want to do, not what other people expect
Perhaps the very essence of being a rebel is doing what is in your heart.
- If you feel an irresistible urge to dance, join a dance team or dance vigorously on the court during recess. If you enjoy arguing with other people about their beliefs, join a team of people debating and criticizing people in a structured way. Rebelling isn't just about using your voice, it's about using your body.
- Find something you really like and match your actions with that passion. If you hate animal cruelty, be a vegetarian. Rebellion for specific reasons tends to be most conspicuous and memorable.
Step 4. Overdress
Making yourself a spectacle is a great way to blow people away. Dare to attract attention in everyday life, ordinary routine.
- Exaggeration is subjective. If your school has a lot of support for mohawks and ripped jeans, dress in rock/preppy fashion. Wear a long-sleeved collared t-shirt with the sleeves ripped. Wear a dress with holes. Wear a tie that is loose and very bright in color.
- Rebellion is all about contradiction. If you can create contradictions out of your clothes, people will notice you more. For example, hair can be mohawk but also wear thick-rimmed glasses. Wear sneakers with business skirts. Gorgeous blazer with black cross t-shir and jeans.
- A quirky sporty accessory that is relevant to your personality. If you like teddy bears, have a teddy bear keychain but color the fur in your favorite color. Dye your hair blue to match your outfit. Don't be afraid to clash and be seen as "weird" by others.
Step 5. Ignore people's negative opinions about you
Focus on “doing your thing” instead of pleasing other people.
- It's common for people to insult and mock you because you choose to be different. While you shouldn't give in and accept their cruelty, you shouldn't take anything they say to heart either. People tend to be afraid of the strange or different.
- If you are insulted and ridiculed for being unusual, flaunt what makes you different and be proud of it. Write “weird” or “odd” on a t-shirt and put it on. When people see their ridicule doesn't affect you, they know they have no power over you and it's useless to make fun of you with derogatory names.
- If someone makes fun of you in a very hurtful or offensive way, report it to the school. The reason people mock you is for you to “be like them”, and this may be a vestige of evolutionary behavior to organize groups. Still, you don't deserve to be in pain because you want to be different.
Step 6. Fight for your beliefs and those of others who believe in them
Ignoring ridicule is a great trait to have, but knowing when to stand up for yourself and others is also very important.
- Don't let other people make fun of you. You don't have to fight them physically or verbally. It's as simple as "Don't bother me, I'm not hurting anyone." It's enough.
- The teacher may tell you to act, dress, or behave in a certain way because it's "the rule." If it's really a rule, you better stick to it. If your teacher tells you it's the norm, tell him you haven't broken any rules.
- When you see someone who looks, acts, and believes in the things you do, fellowship with them. Rebels don't have to be wolves alone. Having friends with similar beliefs and attitudes is a great way to expand on your rebellious reasons and express yourself in a rebellious way.
Method 3 of 3: Rebelling Responsibly
Step 1. Choose your fight wisely
You don't "should" fight with the school over canteen issues. Perhaps freedom of expression, such as wearing a certain shirt or playing certain music, is a more valued issue.
- If taking certain actions – such as defying a teacher when he or she orders you to put on your uniform – results in being called into the principal's office and at risk of expulsion, decide whether you are confident enough in your actions to bear the consequences.
- Fight for the issues that are most important to you. Maybe you're a Led Zeppelin fan, but being a vegetarian is probably more important. Set aside your cravings for “lunch time rock” in favor of “more meat alternatives”.
Step 2. Recognize the difference between rebellion and recklessness
If your actions are likely to hurt yourself or others, then avoid them. Rebellion is about being different; You don't have to do anything destructive for it.
- It's normal for teens to be curious and experiment. If you're really curious and want to dabble in alcohol, drugs, or sex, do so safely and with caution. Know you don't have to do these things to be considered a rebel.
- Remember to be a rebel means not to go along with it. In your rebel group, you may still be under pressure to dabble in alcohol or drugs. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it. Tell your friends that you will “become a bigger rebel” by not following them.
- Some people think that being a rebel means destroying or destroying property. You don't have to be evil to be a rebel. If you want to express yourself visually, decorate your own property with spray paint, stickers, and permanent marker.
Step 3. Remember your actions always have consequences
If being a rebel to you means constantly breaking the rules and fighting with other students, know that there are other consequences to being "known" as a rebel.
- You don't have to be rude and disobedient to be a rebel. Sure, you can say it loud and walk with your chin up, but you don't have to hurt people to be seen. Being a rebel is all about being genuine, and putting down other people to gain popularity is all too common.
- Determine if getting kicked out of school and missing out on educational opportunities is really worth being a rebel. Many political rebels such as Tupac, Malcolm X, and Gandhi focused on "getting" education as a form of rebellion. As the old saying goes, “knowledge is power,” and being a rebel is all about demonstrating personal power.
Tips
- Remember regardless of what people say, the key to being a rebel is your attitude and not how you dress. You can be as rebellious in a Disney princess costume as you can when you wear an outfit that looks like it was taken from a Metallica personnel closet. The fact that what you wear is just part of the rebellion, and rebellious doesn't mean you have to be an asshole. Many rebels (including goths and punks) hang out with normal good people.
- Remember, being caught by the police can ruin your life. BE SMART. Stealing something as small as a candy bar or purse can cause you BIG trouble. Chances are, you won't want to be a rebel anymore; You will grow up, look back and regret your decisions in the past.
Warning
- You don't have to prove yourself to everyone. Don't do stupid things just because your friends do them.
- Don't push yourself to be a rebel because you think it's cool. If you don't enjoy going against things and feel you'd be better off living with the flow, do so. If you push yourself, things can go wrong, and you'll soon be branded a problem.
- Always be ready for the consequences of this lifestyle. People will try to stereotype you because of this.
- Don't get too out of hand, unless you really want to.
- Don't try too hard to be a rebel. If you're trying so hard that it's unnatural, then you have to stop.
