Whether you're trying to change your self-image, attract someone special, or impress your parents and teachers, this article will show you how to look and act really innocent. You can even learn how to completely change your mindset! Just start from Step 1 below.
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Part 1 of 3: Acting Innocent
Step 1. Be careful how you talk
Never use inappropriate language (swearing, harsh words). Avoid harsh topics, such as discussing bodily functions. You should also replace your vocabulary with innocent alternatives (god to gosh, dog to woof, shit to love, etc.).
Step 2. Avoid adult habits
Never smoke, drink, go out at night, or choose inappropriate media (television shows or books with adult themes, such as violence or sex). Love yourself sexually until you get married and behave appropriately around the opposite sex. If you're having trouble with this, enlist the help of an adult or a friend to act as a chaperone.
Step 3. Don't fight with other people
Innocent people don't like to fight with other people, so never get into an argument if you can avoid it. If you have a problem with someone, seek help from an adult or superior, such as a parent, teacher, or boss. Of course, avoid serious ridicule of someone, but using childish, harmless insults can make you look even more innocent (think of teasing like bed-wetting, etc.).
Step 4. Be a nice and sweet person
Innocent people are usually very kind and sweet, so do your best to act that way. Ask people about their day and the things that are important to them. Praise often honestly. Help whatever you can. And most importantly: always polite!
Step 5. Put all the effort into school, work, or charity
A good work ethic is also associated with innocent people, so prioritize school, work, or charity work. Try to be the best, always get an A or make your boss always happy. Give a helping hand to your local church or religious institution, or choose another charity to help out, such as Boy Scouts or Amnesty International.
Step 6. Launch the seduction very smoothly
If you're old enough to be interested in a relationship with someone, try to be chaste in how you interact with them. Compliment him politely. Never try to be sexy. Let him be romantic. Just be aware that this will take a lot longer to get his attention!
Step 7. React innocently
If someone says something bad or does something bad, react with surprise. Innocent people don't realize that humans can do bad things, so you should react more surprised than angry. You can even look a little annoyed. Averting your eyes or covering your ears can also add naivety to your demeanor.
But having a strong opinion on a complex issue is not so innocent! Avoid lecturing others
Part 2 of 3: Acquiring an Innocent Mindset
Step 1. Spend time with the kids
The little boy was very innocent. Spend time with them and interact with them to see how they behave. Try to be more like them. You can babysit or volunteer at your church's daycare. If you have small family members, you can also try spending time with them. If you are academically savvy, you can volunteer as a tutor at your local elementary school.
Step 2. Take control of your thoughts
Try not to think about adult subjects. If you start to think about someone physically, shift your focus to something else. If you start to think evil or cruel thoughts, shift your focus to something else.
There are many ways to shift focus, but you can try praying or reciting verses in your head. You can also sing your favorite Disney song in your head. If necessary, just leave the place or activity you're doing to help your brain refocus
Step 3. Enjoy children's activities
Enjoy the things that innocent people enjoy. Children's media and activities are a great start. You can watch kids' TV shows like My Little Pony, movies like VeggieTales or Disney movies, or activities like board games or crafts.
Step 4. Have innocent friends
You tend to follow the behavior of those around you, so surround yourself with good people. Get rid of friends who are rude and inappropriate, keep friends who are also innocent or at least kind and polite.
Step 5. Be optimistic and positive
These two traits seem to be the personality traits of innocent people, so try to stay optimistic and positive. Don't whine or complain when things aren't going your way, and if you see someone else going through a difficult time, try to help them see the bright side. Make Charlie Chaplin's "Smile" your theme song!
Part 3 of 3: Looks Innocent
Step 1. Wear clothes that seem youthful
Dress in a manner appropriate for the "innocent" age. Wear clothes that are conservative and look cute. Knees and shoulders should be covered and the neckline should not be too low. You can also opt for a lighter hairstyle, like two braids for girls, or a slick back for boys.
Step 2. Dress formally
Try the "best Sunday" look, or a look that's perfect for going to church or visiting your grandma. Men can wear neatly ironed pants and polo shirts, while women can wear knee-length dresses or skirts and blouses. Mary Jane (shoes) for women or any formal shoes for men can also convey an innocent look.
Step 3. Choose the right color
You need to avoid "trendy" colors, gemstone colors, and "sexy" colors like red and black. Instead, choose colors that are common in children's clothing, such as pastels and some bright colors like yellow, pink, and blue. Pure white clothes can also look very innocent.
Step 4. Avoid makeup
Makeup quickly makes you look very mature or sexy, so girls should avoid it. If you do need to wear makeup, opt for "natural" makeup, with just a little pink lipstick, foundation foundation, and minimal eye makeup (perhaps a layer of mascara and a little more makeup).
Step 5. Avoid cologne or perfume
Strong scents create a very mature feel, so avoid colognes and perfumes. If you really need to use fragrance, try imitating the smell of laundry or baby powder. Girls may be able to wear a light floral scent.
Step 6. Keep your hair neatly trimmed
To help get that look like coming home from church, make sure your hair is neatly styled. Get regular haircuts and style your hair in a neat style, such as a braid or a slick back. Avoid popular hairstyles.
Step 7. Use your eyes
You can get the impression of innocence by being careful with how you use your eyes. As the saying goes, the eyes are the windows to the heart. Avert your eyes if you see or hear something inappropriate. Look at the other person through your eyelashes. You should also look away when people you don't know make eye contact, or when someone you like looks at you.
Tips
- Dress simply.
- Avoid alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes. If you are addicted, get rid of the addiction first.
- If you are religious, use this to get closer to religion and follow its rules. Otherwise, it is enough to be tolerant.
- Obedient to parents.
- Don't have sex.
- Never yell or scream when someone insults you.
- Remember, being innocent doesn't mean being a doormat. Defend yourself and others!
