He is the man everyone aspires to be: a successful and influential business leader, a movie star, a leader who controls people, a group leader. He is the dominant man. Men want to be him. The women wanted to be with him. Do you want to be seen as a dominant male with high power and popularity in the community, who is often called the "alpha male"? Here are some tips to become such a man.
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Step 1. Have confidence
This should not be exaggerated. If you feel great and have complete confidence in yourself, men and women will respond to you. Don't mistake confidence for arrogance. Self-confidence indicates a calm, sure, and reliable personal strength. While arrogance is just a feeling of inferiority that comes out, and other people will view it as an empty soul and feel insecure, something that is the very opposite of dominant men.
Step 2. Take your place
When you step into the room as the dominant man, you know that the other person will listen and respect what you have to say. If you doubt it yourself, so will everyone else in the room.
Step 3. Use a sense of humor to your advantage
This doesn't mean being the clown in the room, but you have to be able to smile happily without making it up, laugh at yourself, and even laugh at others without being rude or resentful.
Step 4. Let your body "talk"
The way you act shows a lot more to the people around you, without even needing to speak. Posture, hand movements, the way you stand, all of these give clues to those around you about you. Of course you want the clues to be strong and confident, not self-protective and petty.
- Practice being what you want to be. Look for situations where a lot of people are gathered and walk into the room confidently. If you haven't experienced it yet, remember something you did well in the past that made you feel proud, and let that feeling lead you into the room.
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Learn the art of body language. There are certain signs that leaders use, and which followers respond to.
- Clasping the fingers (touching the five fingertips of the left hand with the right, the palms of the hands are not touching, the formation is in the form of a tower) shows great self-confidence. Close the fingers by pressing the fingertips of both hands together, with the palms apart. The higher the finger valve, the greater the confidence that is emitted, but not too high. If your fingertips touch your mouth, you're actually showing a lack of confidence. In a two-way conversation, the higher finger valve is usually made by the person with more authority in the conversation.
- Hands behind back. Because this is an opening gesture, you show courage, power, and confidence. By placing your hands behind your back, you radiate an attitude of openness to listening.
- Use eye influence. Looking people straight in the eye has a very powerful effect, and can be very difficult to do if you're not used to it.
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Look at the person you are talking to, from eye to eye and then down to his mouth. This keeps your eyes moving, but still focusing on the conversation with the other person.
Thumbs up! If you put your hands in your pockets, hold your thumbs up, which is a sign of confidence and a bit of snobbery
Step 5. Don't be afraid to dominate the room with your presence
Stand with a straight posture, use free movement, and appear relaxed and comfortable with your surroundings. Look for articles on how to look relaxed or comfortable at a party or social event for tips on looking calm in various situations.
Step 6. Listen to the other person
The dominant man, the true leader, spends more time listening than talking. Listen actively and attentively, and people will respond. The more you listen non-judgmentally, the more people will open up, and maybe even tell you things they've never told anyone else. This is because they believe in your natural qualities – an important trait of dominant men.
Step 7. Pay attention to other dominant men
An important way to learn how to be a dominant man is to imitate another dominant man.
- Watch how they speak, stand, and act. Dominant men tend to have a sturdy body, walk calmly and confidently.
- Pay attention to their appearance. Pay attention to their hair and clothes. Dominant men are attracted to men's fashions and they know how to use them to appear more attractive.
Step 8. Join a fitness center and be healthy
Having a good physical condition will not make you a dominant man, because it does not come from outward appearance, but will help your health and fitness. Good physical condition also emits a hint: people who are able to take care of themselves will also be able to care for others.
Step 9. Be honest
Some feel that dominant men will lie and cheat to get what they want, but this only applies to non-dominant men. If you feel like you have to trick someone into thinking you're worthy of them, it really is proof that you are not worthy. Be sure to get whatever you get in a completely honest way. Be yourself all the time. Everyone can accept or reject you.
Step 10. Dress neatly
Try to be better than the people around you to stand out. For example, wear a patterned, collared shirt, nice pants, and maybe a tie. Don't wear a shirt that shows the name of your favorite brand or band, because you want to advertise yourself. Check out the article on how to dress neatly for men if you want more advice on this subject.
Dressing neatly doesn't always mean wearing nice clothes. Your clothes should be appropriate, comfortable, and appropriate for the situation. Remember, clothes are used to make your appearance look better. If you exude confidence and strength, and inspire respect with your presence, your clothes will be the next thing to notice
Step 11. Learn how to flirt with the opposite sex
Knowing how to be in a romantic relationship is very important in order to be seen as a dominant man. Being confident, smart, and attractive doesn't necessarily mean you have what it takes to interact with a potential partner, but it will be a huge advantage for you.
If you want to prove that you're ready to date someone who sees you as just a "friend," find an article on how to break out of the friend zone
Step 12. Develop new skills
By learning new skills and developing new abilities, you keep your mind and body sharp and in good shape. It helps you develop an even skill set that will make you a place to ask when someone has a question. Being a dominant man isn't just about being stylish, it's also understanding by learning the things that interest you, being knowledgeable and being trained. Learn how to box, build a barn, walk with two hands, do spinning kicks, survive in the jungle or win street fights. Develop your mind by studying architecture, art and music.
Step 13. And most of all, be a leader
This doesn't mean just taking responsibility for the situation, but doing it well. Start in your immediate environment by becoming a leader at work, helping a team work, or even establishing yourself as a dog pack leader. Practice being the kind of leader people want to follow, and not being the first to voluntarily accept the task.
Tips
- Don't have deep feelings for women. If you take the time to develop yourself, admirers will flock to you.
- Stay focused. No one is born a leader, but they earn respect for their position. Becoming a dominant man takes time, which is time to develop self-confidence, calm, and knowledge. Be confident that you will achieve your goals, and your goals will be visible right away!
- Practice being your own leader. Practice your posture at home, even when no one is looking. Sit up straight in a chair, act decisively, and read books about interesting things instead of watching television.
