You like someone but are not sure how they feel for you? Don't give up right away! Basically, the guy's body language, eye contact, and attention are the main indicators of his attraction to you. If you dare, of course you can directly ask her feelings. But if you can't be as straightforward as that, there's no harm in trying to confirm his feelings first. Want to know more detailed information? Read on for this article!
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Method 1 of 4: Reading Her Body Language
Step 1. Interact with him
Interact with him and pay attention to how he communicates with you. If he's an extrovert and really likes you, he's more likely to offer light physical touches like rubbing your shoulder or holding your hand while you're talking. Remember, this kind of body language is usually difficult for a shy guy to show. Instead of providing physical touch, shy guys will usually look you in the eye when they're talking; when teased, usually his cheeks will be flushed red.
Step 2. Observe her smile
A genuine smile generally extends wider than the width of a person's normal mouth. If he smiles very broadly, it's a sign that you have had a positive influence on him. If his teeth aren't showing, he's most likely forcing a smile and isn't really interested in you.
Step 3. Observe the posture
If he's trying to impress you, he's more than likely going to be torturing all his muscles to bring out the best version of himself. Chances are, he will stand with his hands on his hips to show his confidence. If he is attracted to you, he will generally also stand right in front of you to show his interest; in addition, he can also more easily approach himself in that position. If he's not attracted to you, chances are that his shoulders will be positioned away from you.
Method 2 of 4: Watching How It Looks at You
Step 1. Observe his eye contact
Try looking at his pupils! If he's always looking you in the eye when you're talking, it's a sign he appreciates and has an interest in you. The situation is even better if the pupils of his eyes appear to widen as he stares at you! Dilation of the pupil of the eye is a brain response that automatically appears when someone feels attracted to something. On the other hand, if his eyes look out of focus, he's more likely to want to run away from you.
Excessive blinking is also a strong indicator of someone's attraction. For some people, the frequency of their blinking will increase significantly if they are being emotionally attracted to something
Step 2. Look at the eyebrows
If his eyebrows rise a little when he sees you, it means he thinks you are an attractive person; this is a subconscious expression that appears when a man is attracted to what he sees.
Step 3. Observe if his gaze passes over you
Don't be in a hurry to get your heart broken if he doesn't look you in the eye when he talks. If his gaze seems unfocused, try to follow him. If occasionally he is caught watching you, that means you can be relieved! But if his gaze crosses you (or if he keeps staring off into the distance), he's more likely to want to run away from you immediately.
Method 3 of 4: Observing His Attention
Step 1. Introduce yourself to his friends
After doing so, sit down with his friends to watch his behavior. If he seems to be trying hard to be funny or self-effacing, he's likely trying to get your attention; That means it's possible that he really likes you. But if he seems awkward or uncomfortable, he probably doesn't like you (and doesn't like the fact that you're hanging out with his friends).
Step 2. Talk to him on the phone
Observe how often he contacts you by phone or text message (see why too). If he's calling you just to ask for something, chances are he only sees you as a friend. On the other hand, if he calls you to chat with you or just to ask how you're doing, chances are he does have a deeper interest in you.
Step 3. Observe how it communicates
Is he always busy playing on his cell phone when you're talking to him? Does he seem unfocused and ready to leave the conversation whenever possible? If you answered "yes" to one or both of these questions, chances are he's not really interested in you. Remember, he will give his full attention if he really likes you.
Method 4 of 4: Be Straightforward
Step 1. Find out the things he likes
Ask directly what he is really looking for in a woman; by doing so, you will find out more clearly about the things he likes and doesn't like (also identify whether the qualities he likes are in you). You can try to dig a little deeper, but keep asking questions as casually as possible.
Step 2. Ask what he thinks of you
You should be wary if he admits "still not sure". Most likely, he already knows the answer but doesn't want to hurt you. If he feels you have a positive personality, ask again if he feels attracted to you.
Step 3. Have a private talk with him
Invite them to discuss the meaning of each other's existence, but make sure you don't do it in front of your friends; trust me, doing so can make her feel uncomfortable and have a hard time giving an honest answer as it avoids the awkwardness that will follow.
Tips
- Don't focus too much on the "type" of his ideal woman. If you hear that he likes a certain type of woman, don't be discouraged! A person's type can always change and that means, you still have a chance to win her heart.
- If he doesn't seem interested in you, try to forget about him; you can't force someone's feelings anyway, right?
