Admit it, actually teenagers who are still in elementary or junior high school can feel the love interest for the opposite sex. You also feel it even though you are still sitting in 6th grade? If so, try reading this article to find out the characteristics of a guy who also likes and reciprocates your feelings!
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Step 1. Observe if he keeps looking at you or coughs when caught watching you
Alternatively, he suddenly looked at the clock to steal glances at you. Don't worry, guys your age will do it if they like someone.
When talking to him, observe if he's used to taking his eyes off you and smiling and/or blushing (this is usually the case with shy guys). If he's not shy, he usually won't hesitate to look you in the eye
Step 2. Observe if he is stalking you
Stalking actually has a negative meaning; but at least, observe if he keeps following you wherever you go. Oh, you have to throw something away? He also thought, maybe this is the right time to throw away the contents of his binder or buy a drink to the canteen. Oh, you had to go back to the computer lab because you lost your binder? He also thought, it seems the binder is also missing so he should also check the computer lab.
Step 3. Show your sympathy
If he is a shy person, he will most likely avoid interacting with you or your gaze. For example, he will suddenly appear near you; however, if you actually approached him, he'd just be standing still, looking down, and/or starting to ramble on about his favorite video game. In fact, some forms of hormonal expression in teenage boys are blushing cheeks, trembling voice, or being shy when dealing with the girl he likes. Someone who likes you may be so awkward around you that they will:
- Avoid eye contact with you.
- Says things that are not relevant to you and makes them sound smart (for example, about the latest game or computer program he created).
- Don't be shy (but only when you're around) or try hard to get your attention.
- Laugh out loud when I hear your jokes.
- Start singing when you are nearby. Why? Because he wants to look cool in front of you.
- Behaving very awkwardly in front of you. After all, there's really nothing he can do about it because the awkwardness is controlled by his hormones.
Step 4. Be prepared for a "not" shy guy:
If you're one of the most popular students at your school, you're more likely to be liked by guys who look confident and like to flirt. For example, he will not hesitate to text you or email you, and try to be "cool" in your presence (for example, he will come up to you and say, "I was riding a motorbike with my friends yesterday, and then I fell and almost broke my arm. It hurts. It hurts. very!"). It's also possible that he'll try to impress you by sharing some of the heroic things he does, or telling you how bad he is in certain subjects.
- One of the things he might say is, "Man, I suck at math!" hoping that you'll say, "Want to study with me?"
- He may also touch you (for example, he will put his arm around you, pound his body against yours, or even hug you to get your attention).
Step 5. Never tolerate annoying behavior, even if he does it because he likes you
If he suddenly flicks the pencil you put on the table, don't say anything and straighten your pencil back. If he does it again, immediately grab your pencil and put it in a pencil case or binder. If he then pushes your binder or pencil case, take a deep breath. Even though he might do it because he likes you, that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. Therefore, you have full rights to stop his actions.
Watch out, some guys do it because they're annoying, not because they like you
Step 6. Observe how he looks at you to see if he needs to laugh or not
For example, if someone makes a joke in front of you both, he suddenly laughs really hard because he sees you laughing so hard. But if your laughter stops, the laughter will stop. He will also be the one who laughs the loudest when you are being funny.
Step 7. Enlist the help of a trusted friend to observe their reactions when you are absent from school
Does he immediately ask, “Uh, where is (your name)?”; If so, chances are he really likes you.
Step 8. Observe his reaction when he sees you enter the classroom
Does he look happy? For example, he might just say straight away, "Oh thank goodness, you're here!"
Step 9. Don't be afraid to talk to him, tease him, and take him out with your other friends to see a movie at the cinema or play miniature golf
Step 10. If she is a shy person, try to help her adjust
For example, try talking to him more often. However, don't force him if he doesn't want to.
Tips
- If he smiles at you and tells his friends or family about you, chances are he really likes you.
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Be sympathetic, especially to guys who are awkward and shy. Remember, they don't even know what to do to change that attitude.
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Do a stalker test:
Try saying to your friends (and make sure they hear it), “Ouch! I forgot to bring my backpack! Wait a minute, you guys don't have to come. If he keeps following you, chances are he really does like you.
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Do your test vs. they:
Have your friend sit in a chair (make sure the seat next to your friend is empty!); after that, sit in another chair and make sure the seat next to you is also empty. Where will he sit? If he's really shy, he might choose to sit next to your friend, but still pay attention to you and listen to what you have to say.
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Take a class participation test:
: Every time you talk, observe if he looks at you (if he usually doesn't really like paying attention to other people); especially, notice if he even deliberately turns to look at you.
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- If he laughs at your words that aren't actually funny, he probably has a low sense of humor or actually likes you!
- If he's always around you, chances are he really likes you. For example, you are playing chase with some other friends but he just chooses to chase you.
- You can be happy when he looks like he's trying to get your attention or show you his strengths!
- If the two of you are chatting, pay close attention to his body language. If he stares at you throughout the conversation, chances are he really likes you.
- If he suddenly interrupts your conversation with another guy, chances are he really likes you. In other words, he doesn't want to hand you over to his competitors!
