As the saying goes, "There is rain there is heat, there is a day you can reply." If someone does something so annoying, difficult, and mean that you have no choice but to retaliate, finding a way to get started may be difficult. There are many choices of things you can do: passive retaliation, active retaliation, and violent retaliation. How to choose it? wikiHow can help you. See Step 1 for further information.
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Part 1 of 3: Passive Revenge
Step 1. Ignore the person
Sometimes being silent and doing nothing is the best way to get back at a bully or tormentor who wants to get your response. By continuing to fight back, verbally abuse, and get angry, you will continue to be under their control and prove that you deserve what you receive. By ignoring and disconnecting that person from your life, their influence on you will be lost. So you can end them all, and forget them.
Being ignored can also be very annoying, if not more annoying than being taken advantage of. This technique works especially well for people who want to embarrass you in front of others, such as siblings, bullies at school, or coworkers who make fun of you
Step 2. Get on with your life
"The best revenge is a happy life." Act as if what made you seek revenge means nothing to you. Protect yourself and carry on with your daily life as usual. Even if you are trapped by someone's actions, hold your head high and don't let them see that this has hurt you. The best revenge is being able to move on and live better than the person who hurt you.
If you have to see the person on a regular basis, come up with a great story to describe how good your life is. If someone embarrass you at school or work, tell them about your fun weekend, or your bike ride from home
Step 3. Disconnect your relationship with that person on social media
If someone is bullying you on Facebook, or constantly posting annoying tweets or photos on Twitter and Instagram, don't let this remain a part of your life. Cut off your relationship with them (unfriend, unfollow and block.) Don't let small mistakes become the source of big problems. Before long, the memory of his arrogance and his photo with your ex will disappear from your mind.
You may be tempted to retaliate by posting something and arguing publicly online. Try to avoid this as much as possible. This kind of thing doesn't just go away, and there's no point in getting into an embarrassing public argument with someone you don't deserve
Step 4. Don't help the person when they need it
This you can do especially in a work environment, or any situation where you are constantly criticized for wanting to help, or do your job. Let them fix anything without you. They will understand what you are trying to convey.
- If you're doing schoolwork in a group, and everyone is making fun of your efforts, get out of the group and do your own work. During assignment time, let your teacher know that your group won't help you.
- If a sibling, roommate, or partner criticizes your efforts at home, stop doing the laundry or dishes altogether, and let them know that you can let them do everything on their own.
Part 2 of 3: Doing Something
Step 1. If the situation is urgent, consider filing a lawsuit
Let the authorities deal with cases that make you physically and mentally tortured. Make a chronology of events that you experienced and consider filing a lawsuit.
- If someone borrows your car and it breaks down, or borrows money but never returns it, record everything in detail. Keep proof of payment, written appointments, emails, etc., and write down your conversations with them honestly. Then see a lawyer or the police, and ask about the probability of arresting the person based on your lawsuit, or reporting the person for theft, embezzlement, vandalism, snooping, swapping, or defamation.
- Always take legal revenge. If you want to take revenge on someone, don't overdo it. If you do something against the law, you could end up in jail, other than that hurting other people won't solve anything. Do everything within the limits of applicable law, and your awareness too. Stealing someone's mail may be daunting for you at first, but it's also against the law. Is this worth it? Certainly not.
Step 2. Fight the person
If they hurt you, tell them what you think. Use smart words about their behavior. Make them feel insulted.
Be careful. Doing evil means you have entered into the same level as him. It can also be exhausting having to keep an eye on them and figure out how to bring them down all the time. Maybe they will do the same thing again, so you will get their revenge, and this cycle of revenge will not end
Step 3. Beat the guy
If someone tries to humiliate you by spreading gossip so that you fail to get a promotion, try harder than ever to get a promotion in your next assessment. Work hard and stay away from that person until your company realizes it's just gossip and you're a real hard worker. Be a hard worker in all situations
Step 4. Disrupt their efforts
Create a situation where those who hurt you appear sloppy, disorganized, and untidy. Without making him realize that you want to reciprocate, stay calm, observing the goal, until you get to a certain weak point or pattern. Put it to your advantage, this can be anything: work, jokes, chairs, cars, notebooks, rooms, doors, and even the people around them. When the time is right, do:
- If your enemy is constantly bragging about their accomplishments over lunch, or during certain lessons, take over the conversation first. Don't let him talk at all.
- If your enemy likes to pretend he's better than everyone else, take note of all his mistakes and failures, and then gently talk about it in public. When an environmentalist who refuses to eat gluten drinks from a plastic cup, say: "It just seems too hard to think about the fate of the Earth all the time."
Step 5. Fight them with kindness
The opposite of interfering with their efforts is to help them too much, ignore the past and force your help on them over and over again. Disturb them. Whenever they want to be alone, be with them. Whenever they want to make a decision, give them advice. Every time they make a decision, make them hesitate, and enter negative thoughts about the bad decision they made. This psychological torment can lead to confusion and feelings of defeat.
Part 3 of 3: Doing Evil
Step 1. Make a decision to do the same with them
This isn't always the best decision, but sometimes this opportunity is too sweet to ignore. Make sure whatever you're planning will only upset them, and don't do anything illegal or potentially dangerous. Think about it maturely, even when you feel angry.
Remember that getting drawn into an argument with someone will eventually be more exhausting than moving on with your life and forgetting it. Avenging their crimes by doing the same puts you at risk of getting vengeance back. Remember this carefully
Step 2. Send anonymous letters, phone calls, or dark sms
If he keeps getting wrong calls for the Fire Department for example (or something more annoying), they'll get so upset that they have to change their phone number and email address.
Write down his phone number or email address in a public place, or even make an embarrassing poster for you to put in a public restroom, bar, or other bad location. They will get calls from strange people
Step 3. Give a disgusting gift
Shrimp or other marine animals will smell like "Devil's Fart" when they rot. Hiding some frozen shrimp on his counter, cupboard, or desk drawer will become a stinking ticking ticking time bomb in a few days. They will be confused, nauseous and even attract other animals looking for food.
Step 4. Humiliate them in public
Order embarrassing items and have them delivered to him at the right time. Order the latest video perverts, or the Human Reproduction DVD series and have them delivered to his office, making sure these items are delivered during business hours during important meetings or presentations. Leave the workspace, so the delivery man has to search the entire office before finding the person to address.
Step 5. Frighten them
Send flowers that are beautiful and beautiful, but from a strange and obscure person. Be sure to order them anonymously and pay with cash, so that when they receive the flowers it says. "Your backyard at 123 Smith Street is perfect for a nap" or some other horrible thing, they'd be terrified.
- Doing annoying things is fine, but don't overdo it. Don't actually sleep in his yard or do anything illegal.
- Also write "Satan has risen" on their car window with lipstick, or pile up gothic-style stones on their porch. Make a creepy vodoo doll with her face and put it in her mailbox. Notice they will look tired the next morning from having a bad dream last night.
Step 6. Know the line between threats and jokes
Remain calm when you are about to prank someone to get revenge. Threats include writing, swearing, and intimidation in other forms that are not desirable and violate the law. Don't overdo it.
A person can be charged with an objectionable act if he intentionally and repeatedly threatens someone by following him in a public place or doing something that makes a person feel physically threatened
Tips
- Defend yourself, and don't be afraid to try.
- If you want revenge in a series, and not just once, set a trap, and go as far as possible, don't show up at "that" place again or people will suspect you.
- Keep your head up, don't look at them and act like you're better than them.
- Enemies of your enemies can become friends. Invite some people you trust to join.
- If you're going to do more than one thing, give it a break. Maybe one small thing every two weeks, or one big thing every month. That way, they wouldn't expect it.
- Befriend your enemy's friends so they'll be drawn to join you.
- Mock them!
- When you're trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, set it up for your trap of shaming and destroying the relationship, and don't hurt her physically, as this will only earn her sympathy. You certainly don't expect this.
- If you could read the future, revenge would be a very easy thing to do.
- Don't hurt your enemies. Just ignore them.
- Revenge should always be the last resort. Try to mend your relationship before trying to get revenge!
- Join what they don't like.
- If you want to get revenge for what they did so badly and destroy your friendship, try to get their friends to help you. Don't overdo it as this is likely to make him want to kill himself, if anyone finds out that you are involved in something that makes him depressed, people will assume you killed him. This will not end well, and your friends can become suspects and witnesses.
- Tell your friends or family what people have done to you. They might be angry with him.
