If you want to do a sexy dance on your partner's lap, or a lap dance, you need to be flexible, sexy and confident in moving your body. To provide an unforgettable lap dance, you need to create a fun atmosphere and dance gracefully up and down the chair. If you want to know how to do a lap dance that can drive your partner crazy, follow these steps:
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Method 1 of 4: Creating a Fun Atmosphere
Step 1. Wear sexy clothes
You don't have to look like an exotic dancer to do a lap dance. Wear clothes that not only show your curves but also let you move freely. You can wear leggings and a sports top over sexy underwear, a dress, or anything else that makes you feel sexy.
If you want to combine your lap dance with nude dancing, underwear and mini dresses are perfect for this purpose. If you are wearing stocking hooks, your underwear should be on the outer layer. Wear high heels to make your legs look sexier
Step 2. Put on some sexy music
Choose music that is sexy enough to set the mood, but also beats enough to get you dancing. Use the music in your dance practice first to make sure the music is appropriate for a lap dance, not for making love. Lap dance usually lasts no more than a minute or two–if you do it right, your partner will want you even before the first song ends. However, it's better if you stick to practice with a few songs so you don't run out of songs while you're dancing. Here are some sexy songs that are suitable to accompany the lap dance:
- "So Alive" by Love and Rockets
- "Skin Trade" by Duran Duran
- "Cream" by Prince
- "Cradle of Love" by Billy Idol
- "Not Enough Time" by INXS
- "Let Me Put My Love Into You" by AC/DC
Step 3. Dim the lights
Lap dancing will be sexier if you don't do it under bright lights. Cover the lights in your home with your scarf or clothes, or even light some candles. It should be bright enough for your partner to see your body dancing, but not so bright that your partner can see the tiny freckles on your face.
Step 4. Use a firm chair
If you want to do your lap dance properly, the chair you use is just as important as the person sitting on it. Choose a thick chair with strong legs and a high and sturdy backrest. The chair you use must also be able to withstand the weight of you and your partner. If you choose a fragile chair, and then fall or even break the chair, it will be very difficult to recover the atmosphere afterwards.
Step 5. Have your partner sit on a chair
Command your partner to sit on a chair. They don't have to sit up straight like in class. Instead, they have to sit comfortably, slightly bent over with their legs slightly apart. Their bodies should be like, "Hey, dance with me."
Method 2 of 4: Taking a Sexy Approach
Step 1. Walk with confidence
Step into your room like a professional sexy dancer who has performed lap dances thousands of times with great skill. Walk with one foot in front of the other, straightening your back and raising your shoulders. Start moving your hips up and down, then slowly lower your arms around your body so your partner can feel the sensation he or she is about to experience.
Step 2. Maintain a proper facial expression
Make sexy eye contact; look at your partner and lower your gaze to your body alternately. You have to keep your mouth slightly open and smile a little so your partner can see how sexy you are.
Step 3. Walk around the chair
As you casually walk around the chair, keep rocking your hips up and down to the beat of the music. You can stroke your partner's shoulder and even lower your body to touch the floor when you are behind them to create a pleasant mood for your partner
Step 4. Take a sitting position
Lap dance cannot start until you are on your partner's lap. Stand in front of your partner with your chest outstretched towards their face, buttocks protruding back and slowly descend into your partner's lap.
Step 5. Hook your feet behind the back of the chair so you don't fall off the chair
Step 6. Wrap your arms around your partner's neck
To start, wrap your arms around your partner's neck while continuing to move your body up and down.
Step 7. Flirt with your partner
When your bodies are close to each other, begin to move your body apart, then bring your face close to your partner's, and kiss your partner–but nothing more than a brief kiss can make your partner want more. Don't bring out all your sexiness before showing your hot moves.
Method 3 of 4: Show Your Shake
Step 1. Bow down like a goddess of love
Slowly remove your legs from the back of the chair and then stand between your partner's open legs. Place your hands on your partner's knees and bring your face close to his, then lower your body slowly until your face is near your partner's stomach. Place your hands on his body, then slowly raise your body again.
Step 2. Shape your body like a figure eight
The key to doing this is on your hips, stand in front of your partner, then move your hips like a figure eight. Keep doing it until your partner can't seem to take it anymore. Touch your breasts and then move your hands down while touching your waist. You can even spin while you're at it.
Step 3. Touch your body
Push your partner toward the chair, then stand in front of him. Don't let your bodies touch each other. Move your hands up and down your body as if you were rubbing soap all over your body. Move sensually and close your eyes. Start imagining you're in the shower if that helps your mood. If your partner tries to touch you, push your partner's hand away.
Step 4. Shake your buttocks
Turn around while you're standing between your partner's legs, then lower slowly until your hands are near the floor, and rock your body closer to his groin, stomach, and up until your partner's face. Move seductively as you do this, then slowly return to your standing position.
- If you're confident, you can even turn to your partner and smile a little while doing this.
- You can put your hands on your partner's knees as a variation on this.
Step 5. Bend back
Sit on your partner's lap with one arm around your partner's shoulder. Move your free hand downward until it's close to the floor, and puff your breasts forward and center. Move your arms up and down like you're riding a bull, but in slow motion.
Step 6. Arch your back further
If you think you're good at lap dancing and you have a flexible back, move your hands so they touch the floor and your pelvis is against your partner's. Now, remove your other hand from your partner's shoulder, then move it toward the floor. Move up and down with one hand still resting on the floor. Keep your hips and body swaying as you do this.
Step 7. Dance behind your partner
If you're feeling particularly excited, stand behind a chair, facing the back of your partner's head. Then, press your breasts on your partner's head slowly. Move down while stroking your partner's lower body all the way up to the face. Don't do this for more than 15 seconds, otherwise your partner may go crazy.
Method 4 of 4: Finishing it Gracefully
Step 1. Lower your legs one at a time
Lean on your partner to make it easier for you to get your feet off the back of the chair.
Step 2. Place your hands on your partner's shoulders
Lean firmly but don't be too rough.
Step 3. Keep your buttocks up
Push your breasts closer to your partner as you push up your buttocks for balance.
Step 4. Use your partner's body to stand up
Gently press your partner's shoulders so that both your feet are in a balanced standing position.
Step 5. Stay sexy
Don't leave your chair like you're walking out of an office meeting. Keep your hips moving and keep your hands on your body as you get up from the chair. Once you're done – keep flirting and get ready for whatever comes next.
Tips
- Make sure that you wear comfortable shoes. You definitely don't want to stumble or fall embarrassingly.
- Stay confident, or at least look confident. If you think you did a bad lap dance, don't show your feelings. Keep moving your hips as if no one is looking..
- Remember that this is intended as fun or entertainment for you and your partner. If you don't want to or aren't ready to do it, don't do it.
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Have fun!
