Meeting beautiful girls was a common occurrence. Sometimes, you may see a girl and be compelled to say that she is beautiful. This can be a good attitude. Everyone loves to be complimented, and when you tell a girl she's beautiful, you're supporting her pride. However, most importantly this compliment is done in the right style. Make sure you do it appropriately and don't displease him.
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Method 1 of 3: Complimenting the Girl You Have a crush on
Step 1. Choose the right place
Your compliment will not be accepted if the place is wrong. In the office, during office meetings, in class, and even when eating out with colleagues are inappropriate situations to tell a girl that she is beautiful. Giving compliments in a situation like this will put the girl in the spotlight and embarrass her. Better not do that.
- Compliments can be considered inappropriate if your relationship is only a working relationship, either in the eyes of him or his co-workers and friends. This is also considered a violation of the policy regarding sexual harassment in the workplace.
- Complimenting a stranger on the street by saying that she is beautiful can be considered harassment and may not be accepted. Don't tease and whistle.
- Maybe the compliment is already on the tip of your tongue, but think about it first. Make sure the time and place are right.
Step 2. Try to get to know the girl
Interact with the complimented girl, even if it's just a smile. This way he will feel comfortable with you before you tell him that he is beautiful.
- Your compliment may not be considered appropriate if you don't know the girl well. He may find the compliment unplanned and "scary."
- If you can, get to know him. Have a quick chat or joke with him before class or during recess. If you're brave and working together, try sitting at the table with him at lunch so you can introduce yourself. Then have small talk.
- Take advantage of social situations to get to know him. It's easier to tell a girl that she's beautiful after you've spent time together and in a close relationship. For example, you might have a conversation while waiting for the bus or after school, at an office party, or during a group project.
Step 3. Plan ahead what you want to convey
If you don't plan what you're going to say when you approach a pretty girl, you can stammer, look confused, and usually seem awkward. Don't let you make that impression. By planning what you're going to say and how you're going to say it, you'll be able to handle the situation, appear confident, and everything will run smoothly.
- Think about how you would approach the girl and start a conversation.
- Think about what makes a girl beautiful in your eyes, and plan to convey that to her politely.
- Avoid long and boring talks. Keep conversations short, sweet, and straight to the point.
Step 4. Do something
A light "hello" can start a conversation. This greeting can be followed by a conversation about him, his day, and his plans. Starting with small talk can help you feel more confident with the girl, and she will become more confident with you.
- Stay calm and be yourself. Don't pretend or you may end up being insincere. What's worse, the girl may think you're joking.
- Pay attention to body language when speaking. Make sure you look him in the eye, not anywhere. This shows him that your focus is really on him and that you are interested in having a conversation with him. Don't lean toward him aggressively, but stand up straight and relaxed.
- Try reading his body language too. If he's facing you or leaning slightly, it means he's engaged in the conversation and may be interested.
- Overcome the fear of rejection. Tell yourself that you have little to lose if he's not interested. Besides, fear will only weaken you.
Step 5. Tell her she looks beautiful
There are many ways to do this after you have had the initial conversation. Most importantly, don't pass your compliments in the middle of a conversation. Instead, wait for the conversation to pause.
- Try saying something like "You look really beautiful tonight" or "I just wanted to say you looked beautiful tonight." Make simple compliments.
- You can also try making your own words. “I always thought your eyes were good” or convey an indirect compliment “There's something new with your hair, huh? It's great framing your face."
Step 6. Build your first compliment
If the girl responds well to your compliment, consider continuing the compliment with a little flirting. Draw attention to the little things that you find interesting about him. Maybe his eyes, his eyebrows, or something else.
- Don't make sexual compliments. That not only makes him an object, but also violates common sense and propriety.
- Give sincere compliments, and don't overdo it.
- Also avoid clichéd compliments.
Method 2 of 3: Complimenting Girlfriends
Step 1. Pay attention to the situation
Complimenting a girlfriend, coworker, or peer about her dress or appearance may be okay in a work situation. However, you again need to be careful with context and shared comfort levels.
- It's a good idea to be good friends with the girl before you compliment her appearance, so as not to cause misunderstandings or complications.
- Schools and workplaces are now careful to maintain a safe environment and don't take sexual harassment lightly. Sexual harassment is “attempts to establish a sexual relationship, requests for sexual favors, and verbal or physical sexual harassment.”
- You may offer a warm, well-intentioned compliment, but the other person may not accept it or find it aggressive. Make sure your friend is comfortable with you.
Step 2. Deliver the compliment in a relaxed and polite manner
As much as possible avoid misunderstandings. Make sure your friends know that you're only giving friendly, friendly, and fraternal compliments and don't think you're any further interested. Tone and body language are key.
- Make sure your tone of voice is relaxed and polite when giving compliments.
- Consider complimenting her indirectly–that is, by saying that she is beautiful without referring to her appearance directly.
- The important thing is that your body language is not aggressive. Don't lean too much towards him and respect his personal space. In other words, don't move too close to him.
Step 3. Compliment him
Give compliments in a reasonable manner while conversing. Say, “I love your new sweater. You look so beautiful in it” or “You look so charming and energetic today!”
- After complimenting him, resume your usual activities and keep working.
- A compliment that doesn't focus directly on appearance might be something like, "Your smile brightens up the room."
Method 3 of 3: Complimenting Your Dating Friend
Step 1. Keep on complimenting
If you're already in a relationship with the girl, make sure you keep the compliments flowing. Don't underestimate the fact that he knows you find him beautiful. He'd love to hear the occasional compliment-and the more often, the better.
- “You are so pretty/cute/cute/attractive” always pleases him. Or, you can also call her a goddess or say something like, "You're both beautiful and smart."
- Also focus on the various outfits. If your boyfriend wears a new shirt, tell him that he looks great in it.
Step 2. Stay creative
Think of different ways to compliment your boyfriend once a day. When you're dating, saying that your boyfriend is pretty can be boring. Fortunately, there are many ways to express compliments.
- Compliment her appearance as well as her personality, clothes, scent, and make-up. During the next conversation, say, “You're right! You are so smart!”
- Try more general compliments that reflect how happy you are with him, for example, "I'm so lucky to have a beautiful girlfriend like you" or "You make me so happy."
- Praise him in various ways and in different ways. Try giving a playlist of songs that are meaningful to both of you, for example.
Step 3. Accompany the words with actions
Words are more meaningful when accompanied by action. Every now and then, for example, give your boyfriend a gift to complete all the compliments you give him. He will remember your attention.
You can also leave a small note, text and/or post a comment on Facebook or Instagram, or surprise him by calling him. Use your imagination
Tips
- Don't overdo it. Compliments "You are the most beautiful girl in the world" are clearly exaggerated and can be taken as insincere.
- Do not be too lead to the problem of sex.
- Don't tell a girl she's pretty when you're drunk. It is scary.
- Adjust your compliments for the girl. If you get to know the girl, you will immediately know what she likes. When you compliment him, tell him that you think he'd be happy to hear the compliment.
