Having a mysterious aura can make other people curious and want to know more about you. There are many ways to customize your speech and actions so that you can become a more mysterious person. However, the main thing is to reduce the frequency or intensity of your speech and try to listen more. Also, show confidence, be proud of your uniqueness, and reduce your presence to others.
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Method 1 of 3: Communicating with Others
Step 1. Don't talk too much about yourself
If you are outgoing and friendly, you may be tempted to share your life story with everyone. However, a mysterious figure will not open his life story just like that. Try to reduce the things about yourself that can be told. If there are questions about personal matters, answer them, but in words whose meaning is still "fuzzy".
For example, if someone asks you about your recent break-up, you might say, "Yeah, we just didn't get along." This can be an appropriate (and acceptable) response, but not to the point of revealing personal things about you
Step 2. Think before you speak
This is in line with the previous step-reducing the frequency or intensity of speech. Instead of saying every single thing that comes to your mind, think about why you want to say what's on your mind, and then speak your mind only when it's necessary. Things like this can evoke a mysterious aura.
Step 3. Try to listen more to other people
Mysterious figures are usually more often observing others than being the center of attention. Focus on paying attention to your surroundings, listening to what other people have to say, and withdrawing a little from the limelight. Things like this not only make you seem more mysterious, but also make someone who is better at communicating.
Step 4. Edit posts on social media
When you're feeling overjoyed or upset, think twice before venting your emotions on social media. To be mysterious, limit how much or often you express your emotions, both in real life and online. Make sure your activity on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat remains limited.
For example, you can “like” other people's posts and occasionally upload photos with short captions to social media accounts
Method 2 of 3: Be Mysterious
Step 1. Show confidence
To display a mysterious aura, you have to be calm and relaxed. Reflected self-confidence can attract the attention of others and significantly build a mysterious “image” because it proves that you know who you really are (even though other people may not know you). Maintain good posture and don't look down so others can immediately see your confidence.
Confidence and pride are different things. Don't be rude and brag about your success or greatness to others
Step 2. Embrace your uniqueness
A mysterious figure usually follows the rhythm of his own heart. This means, he does not immediately follow the trend that most people follow. Instead of wearing trendy clothes and keeping up with what's trending, get your own style and go things differently. This can make you seem complex and even difficult for others to understand.
Step 3. Do the unexpected
Occasionally do things that other people don't expect. This will make other people doubt their perception of you. Actions that don't reflect you can arouse curiosity in others and make them imagine who and what kind of person you really are.
For example, if you usually don't talk much in class, answer the teacher's question at a time with intelligent and meaningful answers
Step 4. Hide your emotions
A mysterious figure is a figure that is difficult to read. If you're a very expressive person, other people will know how you feel even if you don't say it. Pay attention to your facial expressions and try to appear neutral so people aren't so sure or knowing what you're thinking or feeling.
- For example, if in the morning you have a big fight with your sibling or friend, act as if you were having a normal, ordinary day. Don't put on a sour face or cry in front of the people you interact with throughout the day.
- Try to be calm at all times.
Method 3 of 3: Making Lifestyle Changes
Step 1. Reduce your attendance
The key to being a mysterious figure is to be as secretive as possible and unknown to many people. The easiest way to get people to know less about you is to spend less time with them, and interact less. Enjoy your free time alone or with people who already know you so that you seem less familiar with other people.
Step 2. Let only a few trustworthy people get to know the real you
Carefully choose trustworthy people to open up to. Everyone needs at least a few close friends. Make sure you only express your fears, desires, and regrets to those closest to you. When the other person realizes that you only open up to a few people, he may want to know who you really are and hope that he can be a special person you can come to share your story with.
For example, you can open up to your mother and your best friend who has been friends for only five years
Step 3. Focus on your hobbies
The existence of several hobbies that you live makes you look more attractive and "all-round" in the eyes of others. You'll also seem more mysterious if you take your time to do these hobbies instead of socializing. In addition, hobby activities also help you gain a sense of pride and purpose in life which can later develop self-confidence (to become a mysterious figure, of course).
Tips
Don't force yourself to be a mysterious figure if in the end it doesn't look natural. Others should see your mysterious side as part of your basic character (your deepest nature), not the role you want to play
Warning
- Being mysterious is not the same as being rude and indifferent to other people. While it's okay to indicate that you don't want to discuss certain topics, don't simply (and blatantly) ignore the other person or ignore the question.
- While your mysterious side can be attractive, being nonchalant or cold can be annoying and dissuade other people from you. Therefore, make sure you recognize the difference.
