What is the true nature of a woman? When some men have feminine characteristics, or even some women are "characteristic" masculine, chromosome elements apparently do not only determine a person's physical appearance. After all, gender is built on a variety of beliefs, characteristics, and behaviors. Being a woman is not always about getting dressed, wearing makeup or stockings (thin socks up to the groin). More than that, there is a character set that needs to be understood. For people who are born as men, it can be challenging, even scary, when trying to become a woman. It doesn't matter if you're transgender or you just want to have fun, this article will help you achieve true femininity.
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Part 1 of 3: Dress like a Woman
Step 1. Consider all aspects of the decision
Take some time to decide, what kind of woman do you want to be "seen" by others? This is important, as it can affect your next steps. Consider and imagine your “female self-image”. The easy way, can be through some basic questions such as: how old are you? What is your body type? What style of display do you want? Here, of course, you are free to choose, whether you want to look classy, provocative, trendy, or even pious. Remember, whatever it is, the look you want will continue to change over time, along with a variety of clothing choices.
- Dress according to the conditions. Consider what you will wear with your daily activity needs. If you're going to be dealing with a daily routine and working in a professional environment, provocative or flashy clothes won't work. On the other hand, provocative clothing will be considered "just okay", if worn when going to a nightclub.
- Be totally dressed. Choose the best clothes, when you are going to a party or special event.
- Take the look of your close female friends as inspiration. Pay attention to which aspects of their outfits you like.
Step 2. Take a shower
Bathing is the first step that must be done so that you look like a woman. Take your time, because there are many things you can do while showering, such as shaving, washing your hair, and making sure all parts of your body are clean. Remember, women are known for their smooth skin, clean, fragrant bodies, and clean, shiny hair. You may also need to spend money to complete this step.
- Buy a quality razor. Besides being irritating to the skin, using a cheap razor will only allow the hair to grow back quickly.
- Use shampoo and conditioner that smell good. Women's products generally have a different scent than men's products.
- Complete the use of bath soap with a loofah (body sponge). The combination of the two can help exfoliate dead skin and dirt, leaving skin cleaner and smoother.
Step 3. Shave the beard
After you shower, shampoo and clean yourself, shaving your beard is an important thing to do to be a woman. Take some time and use a new razor. Do it slowly and carefully, so that the razor does not irritate the skin. For best results, you can also apply shaving cream and use a razor with three or more blades. Meanwhile, if you want your beard to disappear completely, you can try waxing, electrolysis, or permanent laser hair removal, of course, by consulting with experts first.
- Also shave all the hair on your body. If you've never done it before, be prepared to spend a lot of time in the bathroom. You may be able to use many different types of razors, so be prepared.
- For many sensitive areas, such as the stomach or armpits, avoid using razors with multiple blades. Instead, add a little more time to shave slowly, until the hair is trimmed perfectly.
- Use a moisturizer after shaving. The use of moisturizer can make the skin feel smooth, also gives a cool and soothing effect on the skin. Choose a scent you like.
Step 4. Pull out some of your eyebrows
In general, women have thinner eyebrows than men. Remove the stray hairs around the eyebrows by plucking them down to the roots. Indeed, you can ask for help from experts, to get a more perfect eyebrow shape. However, plucking your own eyebrows can be easily done at home.
- The base of your eyebrows should be about 2.5 cm above the inner corner of your eye. Remove any hair that deviates from that size, especially the wild hair between your eye and eyebrow area.
- The tip of your eyebrow should be about 2.5 cm above the outer corner of your eye. Remove any part of the wild hair that grows beyond this size..
- Pull out the stray hairs at the bottom of the eyebrows to create a natural “arch” pattern. The vertex of this "curvature" should be above the outer edge of your eye. Remove any stray hairs along the bottom of your brow arch. Do this step slowly, and make sure the eyebrows will be parallel and equal in thickness.
- It is normal, if the skin becomes red or even swollen, after the eyebrow extraction process. Don't worry, because the scars can quickly disappear.
Step 5. Do a manicure
Make sure that your nails are clean and tidy. Usually, cleaning the nails can be done at the time of the shower. But you can also use a nail cleaner to remove dirt and grime. Use a nail polishing board to smooth out any uneven edges of the nail.
- You can paint the yoke if you want. While the look of clean and shiny nails always looks classy, there are still a variety of options to try. You can use a bright red or neon color for a bold look, or a nail-tone color like cream or shiny silver, if you want to give it a more subtle feel.
- Go for a manicure, if you have a large number of nail problems, such as long, irregular nails, hard-to-clean dirt, or unsightly finger vessels. A manicurist can generally solve this problem.
Step 6. Determine the hairstyle
Actually, a head with clean hair is enough for a woman. However, the perfect appearance is often hampered by the condition of curly, coarse, and long hair, so it requires extra effort to tidy it up. In general, make sure you're washing your hair properly. Furthermore, you can use styling products to treat various problems, such as hair that is too curly, coarse, or unruly.
- Going to the salon can be a very helpful alternative. A good hair stylist is generally able to tell you, not only about what styles are trending, but also what suits you. They can even recommend products that suit your hair type. Make sure you know what you want, and are open to receiving feedback.
- Keep the hairstyle simple and simple, unless you are experienced in styling. You can see hundreds of articles and Youtube tutorials related to hair styling techniques that are simple and easy to do.
- Practice different hairstyles, as an advanced step that can be used in many events. There's nothing worse when you have to apply the latest hairstyle in a limited time.
- If being a woman is a long-term goal, you can grow your hair as long as you want.
- Buying a wig or wig is also a good idea. There are many cuts, colors, textures, and lengths of wigs. So you can find a wig that fits your style.
Step 7. Apply foundation
Although the nature varies and depends on each person, this step is important for being a woman. The foundation will cover any blemishes and dark “sides” of the skin. You can look for another type of facial foundation, or liquid foundation, which is a color similar to your skin. Also apply powder to complete the makeup so that the face looks more feminine naturally.
- Visit a beauty shop that provides help from makeup experts to guide you on the right choice. This is very important, especially if you have never used foundation. They will tell you which brand is the best fit for your skin and pocket.
- If you shop online, read product reviews before buying foundation. Look again, which products or brands provide detailed information.
- Use moisturizer and face mat before applying foundation. The rest of your makeup will come off more easily and your face will look better. Use your fingers or the applicator to blend the foundation, so there's no clear "line" between makeup and real skin.
Step 8. Apply Makeup
Whatever you choose, whether it's full makeup or natural look, it's best not to overdo it. After all, you don't want to look like a clown, do you? Lipstick, blusher, eye shadow (eye color), eyeliner (eye line maker), and mascara, are some of the facial makeup options that you can use.
- If you want a more natural look, a little mascara and eyeliner will suffice.
- Apply eyeliner, eye color, blusher, and lipstick to create a full look.
- It is undeniable, there is always a temptation to apply makeup excessively. Moreover, for beginners. Remember to adjust your make-up according to the type of activity you will be doing. Keep looking elegant and classy, so you can "graduate" as a woman.
- Applying makeup is not an easy thing. Be patient and ask a friend for help. As time goes by, you will surely get the hang of it.
- You can search various tutorials on Youtube for complex types of makeup such as smokey glance (eye makeup technique, which emphasizes sharp eye features, with a dominance of dark eyeshadow), and cat eyes (eye makeup technique, resembling a cat's eye).
Part 2 of 3: Dress like a Woman
Step 1. Choose the appropriate clothes
Dressing like a woman includes all planning the look, from head to toe, which can be started by choosing a top or dress. Color selection will vary depending on your personal style. Here, it is important to adjust the type of clothing to the needs of your activity. Choose a more neutral color for activities related to the business world. Meanwhile, you can look for bright colors and patterns, if you want to go out for a night or go to the club. Also remember to keep choosing a top or dress that supports your body shape.
- Choose a top or dress that matches your body shape. Plunging necklines (clothing with a low-cut collar) are often considered the right choice because they can "grab" attention by disguising your broad shoulders. Get to know your body shape, then “negotiate” by finding the right choice that can cover up your weaknesses and support your excess body shape.
- Avoid wearing shirts that “show off” your tummy, especially if you have a large midsection. Elastic fabrics such as polyester can be very comfortable clothing materials.
- If your arms are large, you might consider using a scarf as a cover when you have to wear sleeveless clothes.
- There are many special “body contouring” available, such as corsets, gaffs (underwear to create a feminine feel), and breast volume fillers.
Step 2. Choose the appropriate subordinates
Those who are skinny tend to be able to easily find suitable jeans. Meanwhile, there are also long skirts that can highlight the curves of the body well. A visit to several clothing stores may be necessary to determine the right type of bottom. However, remember to be careful when buying pants or skirts online, as sizes are very difficult to predict.
- You can use an empire waist skirt as a good starting point. This is perfect for small hips and flat buttocks.
- Go shopping. Don't forget to invite your female friend as a “second rater”.
- Hide any bumps in the groin area. This is the ultimate way to be a woman.
Step 3. Select accessories
There are various beautiful accessories that you can find in the market, such as rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and hair ornaments. Try to match the accessories with the clothes you are wearing.
- Mixing and matching accessories is a good idea. For example, if you're wearing a green skirt and white top, you could add a white floral accessory to your hair or wear a green bracelet.
- Avoid excessive use of accessories. Using three types of accessories at the same time is more than enough.
- Generally, jewelry can be very expensive. You can replace it by buying other types of accessories at a more affordable price.
Step 4. Choose shoes
Not only comfortable, the shoes you wear must also be stylish. No need to torture your feet by wearing heels, because women don't always use them. On the other hand, the use of high heels will also make you appear taller than the others. On the other hand, the use of flat shoes (flat-soled shoes) can look much better, because men are generally taller than women. Again, consider the needs of daily activities. If you are going to be walking more throughout the day, wearing high heels will certainly not feel comfortable.
- Heeled shoes can make the leg muscles become tense. Furthermore, this can have an impact on the appearance of the legs, especially the larger calves. This is especially true if the size of your feet is already quite large.
- Ballet flats are very affordable, create a feminine feel, and are available in a variety of colors and patterns.
- If you must or have heels, try practicing wearing them around the house to get used to them.
Step 5. Look in the mirror and pay attention to your appearance
Stand in front of a long or body-high mirror, then turn around so that you can see your reflection from various angles. Looking back, is there any part of the outfit that looks out of date or unattractive? If there is, change it immediately. Being a woman does require extra time to prepare. Add about half an hour to get ready, just in case you need something to do or change at the last minute.
Part 3 of 3: Act like a Woman
Step 1. Be sensitive
Behaving like a woman is closely related to feminine traits, such as empathy, honesty, compassion, and “nurturing” traits. You can watch movies or read books with lead roles or focus on female characters to understand these traits better. Remember, in general, women are known for their tenderness and care.
- One of the easiest ways to understand femininity is to spend time with other women. Invite your female friends to set up a book club, organize a wine night (one night for a snack), or a light gathering each week.
- Be empathetic and be more sensitive to those around you.
- Women are not known to be aggressive. You can try to "accept" without compromising firmness, in a gentle manner.
Step 2. Be graceful
Improve your posture, and realize that even small, feminine gestures or gestures, are very important. Women are known to often add certain gestures or body language when they speak. This is what adds to the "feel" as a woman when a conversation takes place. Pay attention to the body movements and facial expressions of the women around you and try to imitate how they act.
- Smiling while playing small movements in the hair are two common feminine gestures performed by a woman. Practice this on a mirror, until it really looks natural.
- Try small, feminine movements, such as walking with small, graceful steps. Avoid footsteps that are too wide or large and seem "heavy". In addition to creating a more feminine impression, this method will help you move easily.
- Standing straight will also provide comfort and make your body look more feminine.
Step 3. Practice how you speak
Being a woman isn't just about appearance, it's also about how other people feel about you, which can be formed when you talk. Not only high-pitched, generally, women's voices also sound more melodious. Women tend to imitate the vocal patterns of the people they spend time with, so find a woman to imitate them.
- Be active! The best practice is to talk directly to people in public situations. This can help your development. So, don't be shy or embarrassed.
- There are many tapes, articles, and guides available on various sites. Spend a few hours on the internet looking for an exercise method that works for you.
- Consider seeking the help of a speech therapist, if you are not satisfied with your speech development.
Tips
- Ask for help, if you know and think there is a woman who can provide support. Many women are happy to share advice and are willing to honestly judge how worthy/convincing you are.
- No one is able to pass 100% in a short time. Handle potentially embarrassing situations with a sense of humor, and you won't have much trouble.
- If becoming a woman is an absolute decision, consider the hormonal situation and the choice of surgery, because it can permanently shape the body's femininity. Consult a doctor or specialist for more information.
- Confidence is the key.
- Get lots of ideas by buying fashion magazines, like Vogue. You can also visit various sites such as Omiru, Style Bakery, and StreetPepper to add inspiration about the style of looking according to trends.
- Use a padded bra, with or without padding-to fill in the shape of your body and clothes.
- As you walk, walk with one foot in front of the other, then move your hips to the right and to the left. Do it as normal as possible, so as not to look too much.