Even though it sounds simple, you may have a hard time knowing when it's time to kiss the other person. To avoid embarrassment, read a few simple signs before you start kissing. Most guys will tell you, both in looks and in words, when he's about to kiss you. Then, once you've "coded" it, there are a few things you can do to let him know that you want to be kissed.
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Method 1 of 3: Reading Signs from Him
Step 1. Pay attention to the look in his eyes
One way to tell when he wants to kiss you is to pay attention to the look in his eyes. If he looks into your lips or eyes, he may be thinking about kissing you.
- He may comment on your lips when you look at him. If he compliments your lips or eyes when he looks at you, he may be ready to give you a kiss.
- Eyes and facial expressions are signs that he wants to kiss you. Pay attention to the facial expressions he makes when he's with you.
Step 2. Pay attention to your partner's body language
If he starts to get careless, he may feel tense because he wants to kiss you. Do not take the carelessness of him as a sign that he is getting bored with you. He may just be waiting for the right time to kiss you.
- When feeling tense, he may play with his hair, play with his face, or bite the bottom of his lip.
- You can also read the distance he creates as "code". If he's constantly trying to get closer to you, be prepared to kiss him.
Step 3. Listen to what he's saying and how he talks, and don't just pay attention to the compliments he gives you
If his voice gets warmer, and he starts whispering to you, he probably wants a kiss.
- To whisper, he certainly needs to get closer to you. As you get closer, you'll be able to kiss more easily.
- If you are outside, pay attention to the tone of the voice. Talking softly outside the house is a sign that he wants to be kissed. He is trying to get your attention so that you feel the room you are in is only the two of you.
Step 4. Pay attention to the pause in his speech
If he starts to fall silent, or if you feel the gap between his words widening, don't take his silence as a sign that he has lost interest in talking to you. If he still maintains eye contact, he may be trying to tell you something.
Step 5. Know when he is flirting with you
How to seduce each guy is different, but in general, they will try to touch and joke with you when flirting. If he strokes your arm or back, it means he likes you. The jokes he makes, or the laugh he makes when he hears your jokes, can also be a sign.
It may also blink at you. The wink is a clear sign that he wants to kiss you
Method 2 of 3: Start Kissing Him
Step 1. Get closer to him when he is ready to kiss you
Touch his arm or face to let him know that you are ready to be kissed.
- Don't cross your arms. Crossing your arms can mean that you are not ready to be kissed. Keep the body language open, and face the him.
- Smile at him to let him know that you are comfortable. If you feel comfortable, the fear he felt before kissing you will disappear.
Step 2. Find a place that is safe for you
When you kiss, your body releases oxytocin, a chemical that makes you feel relaxed and calm. If you're afraid of getting caught or being bullied, try moving to a new place.
Once you start kissing, you may want to maintain the position. Therefore, kiss in a place that is comfortable for you
Step 3. Make eye contact before kissing, and try to keep your eyes open while kissing
Eye contact is a good way to build closeness, especially when kissing.
- You may feel awkward the first time you make eye contact. To avoid this awkward feeling, avoid looking into his eyes too long while kissing. Look into her eyes for a few seconds, then close your eyes.
- Wait a few moments to kiss again so you can make eye contact with him.
Step 4. Open your mouth
Do not force your tongue into his mouth, and do not fill his mouth with saliva. Open your eyes just enough for your tongues to touch, then continue kissing.
- Be calm, and cooperate with the him. Clear your mind, and focus on the kiss. If you're feeling tense, the kiss won't feel good.
- Do not exhale from your mouth into his mouth. Breathe in through your nose as you kiss.
Step 5. Touch him
Place your arms around her back or neck, and hug her as you kiss her.
Enjoy the moment of your first kiss. Don't touch it too much; touch it with care
Method 3 of 3: Get Him to Kiss You
Step 1. Calm yourself
By calming down, he will feel sure to kiss you. If you can make him comfortable, he may be more willing to kiss you.
Laugh when you hear a joke he makes, and try to calm him down. Seducing him is a risky thing, no matter how many times you do it. Men don't always like to face their ego and self-confidence. Therefore, try to get him to kiss you, at any cost
Step 2. Keep yourself fresh
Brush your teeth, and keep your body clean. Do not forget to invite him to keep the freshness if you want to kiss him. He may think your cleanliness is a "code" that you want to be kissed.
If your lips are chapped, use a lip balm. Make your lips attractive so he wants to kiss you
Step 3. Find a way to get closer to him
For example, say that you feel cold, and need to borrow a jacket. Make him need you. Generally, men are weak with direct requests. If you can get him to come closer and hug you, he may be moved to kiss you.
Step 4. If you have tried all the steps above without success, look him in the eye and say that you want to kiss him
He would probably accept the kiss.
