Carrying a lover can be a pleasant seduction. Just make sure he's ready first. You can simply lift your lover like a bride or carry her on the shoulder (Fireman's Carry) for fun. However, if you haven't been professionally trained, don't carry someone else in an emergency.
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Method 1 of 3: Carrying Girls
Step 1. Extend your arms around the woman to be carried
You can put one arm around his back, and the other behind his knee. Ask him to wrap his arms around your shoulders so that he is easier to lift.
Step 2. Lift with both feet
When lifting heavy weights, it's best to use your legs instead of your back to prevent back strain. Squat down and place your arms around him. Then, step up to lift your torso using your legs instead of your back.
- You can maintain balance by spreading your legs apart before lifting so that your stance is wider.
- If you feel like you're about to lose your balance, it's a good idea to lower the girl you're carrying and try again, just in case.
Step 3. Bring her body close to your body while carrying
When lifting heavy objects, it is best to hold them close to your body. This also applies to the human body. In addition, if you bring his body closer to you while holding it, this moment will feel more intimate and romantic.
- Pull his body closer to you, until you can embrace him.
- You can slightly squeeze his legs and back as you bring him closer to you.
Step 4. Keep your back, shoulders, and neck straight
When carrying heavy loads, your back, shoulders and neck should be straight. Try to pull your shoulders back and straighten your back as you carry. You may find it a little difficult to carry, but try to keep your body straight. Assume there is a vertical line between your ankles and the crown of your head.
Step 5. Ask him to hold you
Do not let you drop it because it can hurt. For safety's sake, ask him to hold you. He can wrap his arms around you for extra support.
Step 6. Lower the body if you feel tired
Since most people weigh more than 40 kg, carrying can be quite tiring. You should only carry it as long as it is still comfortable. When your muscles start to feel tense, lower them slowly.
- Squat slightly, lower yourself using your legs instead of your back.
- Lower the arm holding his leg so he can put his foot on the floor safely.
- Help him stand up straight if he seems to have difficulty descending.
Method 2 of 3: Doing the Fireman's Carry
Step 1. Ask him to stand up
Fireman's carry is usually used to carry someone who is injured to a safe place. However, if you are not professionally trained, you should not use this method on an injured person. You can use this sling for fun. First, ask him to stand facing you.
Step 2. Adjust your body position to lift it
To start fireman's carry, shift your weight onto your right foot. Then place the right leg between the legs. Next, ask him to hang his arm around your right shoulder. Bring your head under his armpit, and wrap your arm around his right knee.
Step 3. Squat down and have him lean on your shoulder
Squat down when your position is ready. Ask him to lean over your right shoulder, and shift his weight to the right side of your body. Then, grab his right hand with your right hand to pull his torso up to his neck.
Step 4. Lift the body
From here, you can stand. His torso will hang around his neck, and his legs on the right side of your body. Hold his right leg and hand with your right hand. His head should rest on your left shoulder.
- Again, make sure you lift with your feet instead of your back.
- You should be able to carry it long enough because the weight distribution of this sling is quite effective. However, his position may feel awkward and uncomfortable for him so he may ask to be lowered if he does not like this sling.
Method 3 of 3: Taking Precautions
Step 1. Go slowly to prevent injury or cramping
If you never or rarely lift weights, carrying should be done slowly. Lifting with your legs reduces the risk of back injury, but doesn't eliminate it one hundred percent. Pay attention to your body, and stop when you feel tense.
Step 2. Try not to carry someone in an emergency unless you have professional training
Fireman's carry is primarily used to transport injured victims during emergencies and accidents. You should not use it unless you have received professional training as it has the potential to make the injury worse. This sling should only be used for fun.
Step 3. Make sure the girl really wants to be carried
Not everyone likes to be picked up. Even if you've been dating for a long time, maybe he doesn't think a sling is anything romantic. Make sure you ask beforehand, especially if you've never held one before. Pay attention to his body language. If he folds his arms and steps back, you may be intruding on his personal space.
Step 4. Be careful when lifting someone in a crowd
Some people feel uncomfortable with the attention they receive. Also, if she's wearing a short skirt, you could accidentally expose her panties when you lift them up. So, ask her opinion first before you carry a woman in public.
