A caretaker can make your professional and personal life unpleasant. Before, or even if you've fallen "under" someone like this, learn how to uphold a relationship of mutual respect and learn how to refuse requests from others. You can deal with an orderly person in a tolerant way or against or refusing his orders or requests.
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Method 1 of 2: Tolerance
Step 1. Calm down
Don't respond to other people with anger. Everyone wants to control other people because everyone must have felt insecure or helpless when doing things on their own.
Step 2. Don't be passive-aggressive
Complaining gestures such as rolling your eyes up will make the situation more stressful, not less painful. When you act like that, but still let the person tell you, it means that you are no different from a child.
If you find yourself responding in a childlike or teen-like fashion, rethink your actions. Such actions will not improve your relationship with the person or make you happier or happier
Step 3. Move on
When you know the person is under stress or facing a lot of difficult things, go with him. But it's a good option if you don't feel like you're going to encourage the person to constantly tell you and disrespect you.
Step 4. Don't go easy on him when he insists
Avoid immediately following his wishes when he asks you to do something.
If you have a pet, you must have experienced the negative sensation of being rejected or your orders being obeyed but reluctantly. People will also remember when a coworker or family member disobeyed an order or did so reluctantly
Step 5. When someone tries to tell you, try to reply with humor
When you are asked to do something, you can say, "You just got promoted, didn't you?" But only do this if you make it sound light and friendly.
Responses accompanied by humor can serve as a warning that the behavior is not simply forgotten
Step 6. Ask your boss to make the instructions he issues clear when you are asked to work on a new project
If you have trouble understanding someone else's orders, you can ask them to include their instructions in writing or in a document.
If someone is trying to boss you around, you can say that you're in charge of the project and that you've discussed the best way to do it. Offer to set up a meeting if the person feels they have a better way to work on your project
Step 7. Be aware when you feel victimized
Allowing someone to manipulate you for a long time can create feelings of hatred and humiliation and can damage your relationship with that person. When this happens, the person will continue to try to control you, and you should try to fight the person.
Method 2 of 2: Fighting a Commanding Person
Step 1. Say no
Dare to refuse the orders of others.
Step 2. Reject others while respecting them
This is especially important if you are rejecting someone with more authority like your boss or parent. But don't apologize because you've already refused.
If you refuse in a way that is respectful of the other person, that person will respect and accept your decision and opinion
Step 3. Always be ready for a pusher
Some commanding people like to be confrontational. If you've already refused and he's reacting badly to your refusal, stay calm.
Step 4. Silence
Once you've declined and expressed your opinion in a calm and calm manner, don't make a fuss. They may feel uncomfortable when you just stay still or leave.
Step 5. Tell him he doesn't appreciate you
Sometimes a commanding officer feels he has thought of something and has a good idea. If you think he has a great idea but is conveying or bossing around in a rude way, you can suggest that he take a different approach but still accept the idea.
This is a way to still uphold your rights without making him feel that you are rude and disrespectful to him
Step 6. If he still won't change, stay away from him for a while
Someone who never respects you or always tries to control you may be one of the factors that ruin your life.
