You and your boyfriend may have broken up, but that doesn't mean it's over forever. If you don't want him to forget you, make him aware of what he's let go of. When he sees you happy, happy, and confident, he will question why he left you. So that he misses you, try a few tricks from us, he will soon doubt his own decisions.
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Method 1 of 11: Cut off all contact with your ex
Step 1. Don't communicate again to make him curious
This means don't answer text messages, don't post anything on social media, and don't answer phone calls. Immediately cut off contact as soon as the relationship breaks, until at least a week or two. The absence of news will make him curious, he will wonder what you are doing, if you miss him, and how you are doing after separating from him.
If he posts something on social media, don't respond. When he sees you're not reacting, he'll assume you've forgotten him. In fact, he may even regret breaking up with you
Method 2 of 11: Post happy news in your life
Step 1. Show that you've forgotten him
Tweet about a funny event that happened to you, share vacation photos on Instagram, or share some fantastic new job. Let him see all the amazing things he missed.
Remember, you're not interacting with your ex on social media, but you can comment on their friends' accounts. This shows your ex that you are still active on social media, but have chosen to ignore them
Method 3 of 11: Gather with the group
Step 1. Hang out with lots of people and enjoy it to the fullest to show that you've moved on with life
Breaking up does not mean breaking up friendships too, including friends who are also former friends. Instead, hang out with them so you don't feel like you're languishing at home after your breakup. What do you do with friends? He must have wanted to know.
- There's no way to show that you've moved on other than to actually move on without him.
- Don't forget to upload a photo on Instagram for him to see.
Method 4 of 11: Be friendly if you can't avoid it
Step 1. The saying that honey catches more flies than vinegar is true
Your ex may think you're mad or about to bring up an old argument. Don't get stuck. Instead, talk to him like you would any other friend. Just talk about light topics and don't ask anything serious or personal. He may be fascinated and remember why he likes you.
If he asks how you're doing, share some of the fun things in your life, but don't overdo it. Try to appear sincere and happy
Method 5 of 11: Act like you're okay
Step 1. Don't let him see you sad so he thinks you've forgotten him
Even if you're heartbroken, pretend you're happy and enjoying life. Don't talk about the breakup and don't let him see you sad. Try to be happy without being fake. Make him believe that you've forgotten him.
Show a positive impression on social media, don't mention a breakup or sadness. Upload something light, upbeat, and upbeat
Method 6 of 11: Upload an interesting photo of yourself
Step 1. Take a photo with the person your ex will be jealous of, then share it online
Do you have sexy coworkers or friends? Upload a photo of you and him taking a selfie together doing something fun. A photo like this will make your ex nervous because it shows what he left behind, especially when he sees the number of likes and reads his comments.
- Use a variety of social media to increase the chances of him seeing your photos.
- Don't upload too many photos with different friends. Your goal here is to get your ex to think you're with someone else and that you're not stuck in grief.
Method 7 of 11: Look your best
Step 1. Show him what he has left behind
Remember when you dressed up and wowed people? Do it again. You will feel confident. That doesn't mean you have to dress up every time you leave the house. But before leaving the house, think, "Would I look like this when I met my ex?"
Don't choose fancy or too sexy clothes so you don't look too much
Method 8 of 11: Live an active lifestyle to help cope with a breakup
Step 1. Try exercise if it can help you improve your self-esteem
Exercise is a fantastic way to regain control of your own life and make yourself look better. Instead of languishing alone at home, challenge yourself to some fun, physical activity. You can try swimming, rowing, or lifting weights. Your body will be toned and your self-confidence will increase so you will look fit and happy.
After successfully achieving a small goal, such as a 1km run or hike, it feels like you've accomplished a big accomplishment to be proud of
Method 9 of 11: Prioritize your own good
Step 1. Take time for yourself, such as going to the salon or chatting with friends
The goal is to increase your self-esteem so that you are happy and proud of yourself because confident people are attractive.
- If your ex hears from a friend that you're happy or sees how you're doing on social media, he may be impressed by the way you care for yourself.
- You don't have to make big changes to feel the effects. A manicure alone can make you feel better.
Method 10 of 11: Start dating someone else
Step 1. Nothing makes an ex-boyfriend more jealous than dating someone else
After all, there are still a lot of people who find you attractive, and your ex needs to be reminded of that. So please go on a date. At this point you don't need to be in a relationship, just a date.
- Dating carefully. If your goal is to get your ex back, dating someone else might turn him off. Don't let your chance to get back at him is ruined just because of a misstep.
- It's possible that you'll lose interest in your ex if the other person's date goes well. Allow yourself to let go of your ex and move on.
Method 11 of 11: Try new things to get out of your comfort zone
Step 1. Create a dream list of things you've wanted to do for a long time
There might be some activities you want to do with your ex or places you want to go with them. Now do it, even without him. The best way to make your ex jealous is to enjoy life. He will see that you can be happy without him and that will make him feel lost.
