Making a girl jealous is a surefire way to make her notice you and want you more. Whether you want to get a girl to like you by making her jealous first or simply showing your ex that you're better off breaking up with them, you can make a girl feel jealous by simply paying a little attention to her and then letting her see that you're taking a lot of your time. for another girl. If you want to know how to make a girl feel jealous, just follow these steps.
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Method 1 of 3: Paying Attention to Her
Step 1. Train your body
If you want to make a girl jealous, you have to show her some interest first so that she is also interested in you and feels that you want to take it to a more serious level. Body language is the easiest way to let him know that you want him without even having to say anything. You should only pay attention to him for a few minutes, so every cue will have an effect.
- Catch his eye from across the room. Act like a man and hold his gaze if he sees you, and give him a big smile too.
- When you approach her, turn your body towards her, stand up straight, and lean slightly towards her, which shows that your body is paying full attention to the girl.
- Lightly touch his arm or back if he doesn't seem to mind.
- Maintain eye contact when you talk to him. She will feel like the only girl in the world – for a few minutes.
Step 2. Praise him
Once your body has signaled it with body language, it's now your words' turn to do their part. A few carefully chosen compliments can show that you care about him and that you want to get to know him better. If he's someone you already know, then these compliments will show that you still think about him. Here's how to do it:
- Compliment her appearance. For this, do it subtly. Instead of saying, "Wow, you look beautiful," just say, "Black is a great color. Black goes well with your beautiful eyes."
- Compliment the way he laughs or smiles.
- Turn your temptation into a compliment. Find a way to tease him while complimenting him at the same time.
Step 3. Ask him a few things
Asking a few questions will show that you want to get to know him and that you want to know more about him. With just a few light, hitting questions, the girl will be touched and want you more.
- Ask him a tempting question. If he mentions that he has a sister, say, "Is she also as beautiful as you?"
- Ask him an odd question, but act like it's really important. Ask her what she thinks of a man who loves his dog or a man who wears leather.
- Ask about him yourself. Ask about one of his hobbies or what he does for fun. Make the girl think you care about her – just a little bit.
Method 2 of 3: Talk about Getting Together with Other Girls
Step 1. Make her the number two girl
Once you've shown interest in the girl (the girl you want to be jealous of) and teased her so she thinks she has a chance to be in a relationship with you, then it's time to turn around. Slowly start to talk about other girls, whether it's the other girl he knows or just any other girl you keep referring to as, "My really good friend," or, "The girl I've known for a long time."
- Find a way to mention the other girl every few minutes. Don't do it every few seconds or it will be very annoying, but make it sound like you're constantly thinking about the other girl.
- Look for ways to compliment the other girl. Without being overly irritating, say things like, "He's just like my crush," or, "She can get any guy she wants." Make the girl feel inferior.
- You can also make up this other girl. If you're a good liar, this "other girl" could also be entirely the product of your imagination.
- Say over and over, "You should have met him. I think you two would make good friends." This will make the girl feel very upset.
Step 2. Talk about lots of other girls
Instead of continuing to talk about one other girl, you should take this opportunity to talk about lots of other girls. Make yourself sound like the guy who hangs out with lots of attractive girls anytime and anywhere.
- Mention a party you attended where there were a lot of beautiful girls. You could even say you were one of the few guys who were there, but that's okay because you're used to it.
- Talk about a fun weekend at the beach, and mention the girls you've been with all wearing super cute bikinis.
- Mention, "A girl I once met," many times in conversation. Make it sound like you've been on a lot of dates.
- Make sure you don't sound like a player (a guy who plays with lots of girls). The girl will lose interest if you make yourself an unscrupulous seducer.
Step 3. Use the phone to make her jealous
When you talk to a girl about being with another girl, your phone will be a great tool to make her feel jealous. Have your phone ready, check it every time and be ready to answer the phone.
- Check your phone all the time and smile at yourself, as if you just received a naughty message from a girl. Say, "Excuse me for a second," and smile as you write an equally naughty reply.
- Make a one-time phone call while you're talking to the girl. Answer the phone and say, "Hello, how are you? Can I call you later?" Don't overdo it by calling out, "Honey," in front of the girl. Make sure it's clear from your tone of voice that you're talking to a hot woman.
- Don't use tactics with the phone too often. A girl's patience will quickly wear off if you spend time on the phone.
Method 3 of 3: Let Him See You With Another Girl
Step 1. Flirt with any other girl
After you've talked enough to the girl to make her feel that you like her, then it's time to ignore her and start chatting with other girls. It's a good idea to do this a few minutes after talking to the first girl. Here are a few things to try:
- Whether you're at a party or a bar, just pick a girl near you and start talking to her. Slowly move from talking to the first girl to fully talking to the new girl. Make sure you look laughing and happy.
- Take the other girl to the dance floor. Don't kiss her or grope her body. Dance with him for a song or two and act like you're having a good time.
- Pick a few girls to hang out with. Make them laugh and let the first girl see it.
Step 2. Flirt with the girl's friends
If you want to stay close to the girl or are done with flirting with just any other girl, you can make her jealous by paying attention to her friends. This will keep you close to him and make him pay attention to you while doubting your intentions towards him.
- Get all his friends to like you. Make yourself as smart, attractive and charismatic as possible.
- Deliberately ignoring the girl in front of her friends. Even if he's standing right in front of you, act like he's not there.
- Don't separate your friends too often. When flirting, try to get them all to like you. If you pay too much attention to a close friend of the girl and that close friend starts to like you, then you may be creating unwanted circumstances.
Step 3. Go home with another girl
This is a bold move. If you're coming home from a bar or party, go home with another girl. You don't have to go home with the other girl, but just make sure she sees you going home with the other girl.
Signal the girl with a small nod or smile when you walk out with another girl. Let him know you know he's looking at you
Step 4. Let the girl see you with another girl during the day
You can make a girl jealous even during the day. If you're hanging out with another girl, whether it's just a friend or someone you're flirting with, let the girl see you having a great time with someone else.
- If the girl you want to be jealous of sees you with another girl, make sure that you appear to be giving your full attention to the girl you're with. When you "finally" see the jealous girl, you can say, "Oh, I didn't realize you were there." Of course you don't notice because you're too busy having fun with other girls.
- Choose a place where you know the girl will be. Show off at his favorite cafe or eatery with the girls in a festive atmosphere and look like he's having the best of fun.
- If you are in the same class or take lessons in the same class, sit away from her and sit next to another girl. Let her see you whisper something to the other girl and draw something in her notebook.
Step 5. Don't wait too long if you want him to like you
This is the important part. If you're just using jealousy to make the girl want you more, then you shouldn't spend more time flirting with other women or talking about them, or the girl will think of you as a playboy and will lose interest in you.
- If you use other girls at bars or parties to make her jealous, don't spend the whole night talking to other girls and then ignoring her. Get back to the girl you want after a few minutes, before she loses her temper.
- Once you see that the girl is genuinely interested in you, stop talking about other girls or talking to other girls around you. Your pursuit is over – for now.
Tips
- Many of these clues can cause the girl to completely lose interest in you.
- There's a good chance he gets the impression that you don't like him and will leave you.
- Another girl you use to make her jealous may like you. And he can easily think that you like him too. So be careful.
- Remember that making someone feel jealous is always a bad idea. There are other ways to find out if a girl likes you, or whatever reasons you use to make her jealous. Act mature.
- If he finds out that you're trying to make him jealous, he'll likely get mad.
- You can create problems that will lead to more complicated things.
- Be a convincing liar if you're going to make up a girl friend. Don't say that your girlfriend is a famous model in Jakarta if you live in the village.
- Look at other girls when you're with them.
