Has there been a guy you've been interested in lately? As if approaching him wasn't difficult enough, you feel the need to make him not stop thinking about you in order to win his heart completely. If that's what you want, then the strategies listed in this article are worth implementing!
Step
Method 1 of 3: Attracting His Senses
Step 1. Make eye contact with him
Believe me, this strategy is very powerful even though the practice is simple. Remember, don't expose him with your piercing gaze if you don't want to frighten him! Just give him a warm stare when you're chatting, or stare at him occasionally from a distance. Undoubtedly, the impact will be very significant for the continuation of your relationship with him! Eye contact can even trigger the desire that makes him attracted to you.
Every now and then, look him in the eye and smile. After that, immediately shift your gaze and look into his eyes again a few seconds later
Step 2. Give a reasonable and polite physical touch
Believe me, physical touch can increase a person's heart rate and attraction (the sensation is not much different from the feeling when you are in love). To trap a guy's attraction, try to do some meaningful physical touch and don't overdo it.
- Sit next to him so that your shoulders touch "accidentally".
- "Accidentally," touch his arm when you're trying to pick something up, or touch his fingers when you're giving him something.
- Touch his arm to grab his attention, emphasize your expression, or respond to a joke.
Step 3. Say the name
Don't mention it at the beginning of every sentence; just say his name every now and then in the conversation. This will grab his attention, enhance intimacy, and remind him that you're only thinking about him.
- If he says something silly or romantic, laugh while he says his name.
- You can also give her a favorite nickname. If he has a nickname that only applies between the two of you, surely the bond between you will strengthen.
Step 4. Put on a perfume that smells soft and distinctive
Be careful, the smell of perfume that is too strong can actually make him dizzy and away from you. Just spray a little perfume when going out with it. Sooner or later, his brain will associate the scent with your body.
Consider choosing a scent that he often encounters when he's not with you. For example, try buying a sweet scented perfume like rose or lavender, or a unique scent like pumpkin pie or coconut. Whenever he passes the rose shop, his brain will automatically think of you
Method 2 of 3: Maintaining Independence
Step 1. Live your life to the fullest
Don't spend the whole day waiting to hear from him! Your life without it should still be interesting and fun. Remember, women's biggest mistake is when they depend on a man for the happiness of their life. In fact, that kind of obsession will actually make you look boring in his eyes. Busy yourself in pursuit of unfulfilled dreams; Make him want to involve himself in your colorful life!
Show that you are independent and attractive. Trust me, he will feel more flattered if you approach him not because he "needs" to make your life more enjoyable, but because you "choose him."
Step 2. Be yourself
Don't thwart your desire to win her heart by pretending to be someone you're not. Trust me, sooner or later he will realize the "lie". After all, a woman who is confident and comfortable with herself actually has an undeniable charm.
- He really likes football while you are the opposite? Don't pretend to like it! If you are new to the world of sports, try asking him to share his knowledge. If you like it too, congratulations! The sign, you have the same interests with him. But if not, don't hesitate to admit it.
- If the guy you like is always dating girly girls (even though you're such a tomboy), don't change your personality just to win her heart. Make sure he accepts you because your unique personality suits him well, not because you "fit" the type of woman he wants.
Step 3. Don't obsess over knowing how he feels about you
Trust me, doing so will only tire you emotionally, hurt your self-esteem, and make you feel insecure. Liking someone should be a fun experience! Therefore, focus on making the most of today; live a rich and fun life!
Don't let that obsession keep you from doing fun things and even turning you into someone else! Make sure you always be yourself, anytime and anywhere
Method 3 of 3: Make Him Remember You
Step 1. Ask questions about his life and listen to the answers
Most people really like to talk about themselves; this is why he will definitely feel happier if he finds someone who wants to know his opinion and life experiences. Try asking simple things like his hobbies, movies, or favorite musicians. Trust me, his opinion of you will be more positive if you give him space to share his personal life.
Make sure you share your story with him too. Remember, the conversation between the two of you must be balanced. In other words, make sure you also share stories and opinions about the things being discussed. Don't worry, you don't always have to agree with him
Step 2. Don't be over-the-top
You may feel that the strategy will make him curious about you; You might also want to point out that he's not the only guy who can get your hands on you. However, the success rate of this strategy is very low. Research actually shows that humans tend to be more attracted to people who appear selective. Therefore, make sure you pay attention to him (especially if you both have other male friends around); I'm sure he won't stop thinking about you after that.
It's not that you have to be cheeky or ignore other men; just make sure you don't flirt with other guys just to make him jealous. Trust me, this strategy won't work
Step 3. Be mysterious
If he's known everything about you from the start, chances are that you're no longer attractive to him; so make sure you know when it's a good time to 'step back'. Don't keep calling him! Give him time to think about you; Make him curious about your activities and who you are with.
Don't ignore him or be rude to him, but don't sound like he's always there for him either
Tips
- Be a confident woman; if you're inherently lacking in self-confidence, at least try to make that impression!
- Don't be too aggressive and rush to ask her out.
- Want to keep traveling with him without asking him out? Try throwing in a subtle signal that says, “I want to go to the same place as you!”. Trust me, once you make a deal to go out together, he won't stop thinking about you.
- Men tend to prefer women who know what they want. Know what you want and the steps to make it happen!
