You like a man, but unfortunately he likes another woman. Luckily, you have a chance to get him to like you. It's actually more profitable for you if he already likes someone else. If you start with friendship first, his attention will shift from the woman to you in no time.
Step
Part 1 of 3: Befriend a Guy You Like
Step 1. Make him aware of your existence
While you're building a friendship with him, it's okay to try to find opportunities to be with him. The more time you spend with him the better. It's possible that he's not attracted to you yet, but you should take this time to feel comfortable with your personality, as well as really get to know him.
Step 2. Find out what he likes about the woman
This part is very important and can only be done if you are friends with him. Bring up the woman in a conversation and pay attention to what she says. Do not be satisfied if the answer given is about how attractive the woman is physically. There must be other qualities that the woman has that she is attracted to, and you have to find out what those qualities are.
Step 3. Speak well
Don't vilify the woman. You might think that this will make the woman look bad in the eyes of the guy you like, but in the end it's you who will look bad. If you badmouth the woman, she will feel that you are a negative person. Also, men like supportive women. If you go against his opinion, you are doing yourself a disservice.
Step 4. Discuss his qualities
Apart from not being able to badmouth the woman he likes, you can stop him from being infatuated with her by talking about her qualities. Tell him that he is a man of high quality and deserves the best of women. Say that the woman is not worthy to be his lover, and he would be better off with someone who is friends with him because the relationship built from long-standing friendships will become stronger.
Step 5. Be a fun person
As long as you're still in the "friend zone," you can use this time to show a fun side of yourself. Men like women who laugh at their jokes. Men are attracted to women who are not always serious about everything.
Part 2 of 3: Turning His Attention to You
Step 1. Take advantage of what you have learned
As long as you're friends with him, you should know what he likes and doesn't like-in terms of women or in general. Take advantage of your knowledge of him. Show that you have one or two interests in common when it comes to hobbies or activities. And also, show that you have a character that he likes.
Step 2. Keep close to him
Don't lose the friendships that have been built. This way, you show that you value him. When he realizes that you are attracted to him, your closeness with him will make you appear as his "complete figure." Men want someone they can be friends with, and also be attractive to.
Step 3. Don't turn into someone else
Even if you want to conform to the characteristics that appeal to him, don't over-modify yourself. Find ways to match those characteristics with your true self. In this way, the relationship that is lived has the potential to last a long time.
Part 3 of 3: Seducing the Guy You Like
Step 1. Impress her with a pretty outfit
When he talks about the woman he likes for the first time, it's possible that he mentions her appearance specifically. Try to follow the appearance. If he says that he likes a certain part of the woman's body, try to accentuate that body part with appropriate clothing. Of course, men are attracted to women's appearance. So, make sure that you look attractive in front of him.
Step 2. Make sure that you interact with it
Insert seduction into the conversation. Lean towards him when walking together, show your laugh when he jokes, and build a physical relationship with him. You can touch her shoulder when she laughs, hold her hand to take her somewhere, and run your fingers through her hair and compliment her hair.
Step 3. Praise her body
He will like your compliment because he trusts you as a friend, and the compliment will feel genuine. In addition, it also shows that you are aware of his physical appearance. When you compliment him, he may feel the need to compliment you back, which will automatically make him pay attention to you.
Tips
- Keep flirting with him, and keep the bond of friendship until he realizes how good you are as a woman.
- If he still seems interested in her, you may have to wait. Let him try for the woman. Stay friends, and eventually, he will come back to you.
- Don't look desperate. This can be a factor that makes men not attracted to women. Be yourself, and if he doesn't seem interested in you, stop. If you continue, you run the risk of ruining the friendship that has been/will be formed.
- If he's trying to chase after another woman, you should support him when he's sad. After that, he'll see how much you care about him, and he'll like you.
- Don't hate his relationship with another woman because even if he likes her, there's still a chance that the relationship won't work. Therefore, you may be the second choice when he fails with the woman, but just make sure that you don't badmouth the relationship he has with her, or he will turn to another woman.
- Make sure that you always support him. Let him get whatever he wants and needs, even when you don't want or need it. Fight with other people if it makes them comfortable, including if you have to fight with your best friend for their sake.
