There is no woman who refuses to be noticed by her partner. Are you currently in a romantic relationship with someone? If so, admit that you definitely want to be the center of your partner's attention. Unfortunately, sometimes time can decrease the intensity of the relationship and the desire and attraction of your partner to you. Sometimes, the passion that had been explosive begins to turn into affection that is more mature and graceful. If you want to get your partner to show you his passion again, try reading this article for all the tips!
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Part 1 of 3: Making Your Partner Feel Wanted
Step 1. Compliment your partner
Complimenting your partner is very important to confirm your love and acceptance for him. By complimenting him, your partner will realize that you have accepted him wholeheartedly and that you like the things he does. Compliment your partner for the big and small things they do, for example:
- "Wow, your kiss just now was so much fun."
- "You're so sexy and manly when you're mowing the grass."
- “You were so cool during the match! I fell in love even more.”
Step 2. Look into her eyes
Making eye contact is a common form of nonverbal communication to show your acceptance to others. That's why humans tend to make more eye contact with the people they like. Try to show your love and acceptance to your partner by looking deep into their eyes. If your partner holds the same level of interest, he or she should warmly return your gaze.
Step 3. Kiss your partner passionately
Kissing your partner is a powerful way to evaluate their attraction. That's why you need to learn to be a great kisser! Kissing your partner is also effective at making your partner more interested and feeling connected to you. To become an excellent kisser, pay close attention to the following:
- You can start the kiss with your mouth closed, then increase the intensity slowly if the timing and atmosphere feel right.
- Make sure your dental and oral health is always maintained. Also make sure your breath smells good when you smell it.
- Focus only on your partner when the two of you are kissing. Believe me, your partner's desire will immediately decrease if your focus is divided.
- Try touching the back of his head or stroking his arm while the two of you are kissing. The extra touch is effective in deepening the intensity of the kiss, you know!
Step 4. Surprise your partner
Your spontaneity is the main key to rekindle the fire of romance in your partner! Therefore, do not hesitate to violate your daily routine and show how much you love your partner. Seduce a partner and occasionally act without worrying too much. Make her feel excited when you're around! Some ideas worth putting into practice:
- If both of your cars are breaking down in a downpour, don't just sit in the car and wait for your partner to fix it. Instead, go out and have your partner dance together in the rain!
- If your partner has always watched his favorite sports club on television, surprise him by buying him a match ticket, or invite him to watch the game on a wide screen television provided by a local restaurant or bar.
- While the two of you are on a date, try to create a sexy alter ego and stick with that character until the date is over.
Step 5. Don't hesitate to motivate your partner
One of the most important parts of increasing your partner's attraction is making him feel good about himself. Therefore, encourage your partner to achieve various goals. Show that you will always be there to help and support him if needed.
If your partner is worried about an upcoming job interview, try to motivate him by saying, “You can do it! Remember, they called you because they felt you were the right choice to do the job!"
Part 2 of 3: Be a Fun Couple
Step 1. Show your confidence
For most people, confidence is a very sexy personal quality. Therefore, do not hesitate to show your confidence when you are with your partner. Don't be afraid to share your life's accomplishments and acknowledge your greatest strengths to your partner.
Unfortunately, having a confident partner can be intimidating for some people. If your partner's confidence is very low, try spreading your confidence to increase their desire and attraction in an instant
Step 2. Talk about personal things to your partner
Revealing your life to your partner is effective in deepening his love for you. Therefore, feel free to share anything related to your life, including your hobbies, goals, and family stories. However, do not talk too clearly at the beginning of the relationship. In other words, still leave a mysterious personal space to keep his interest and curiosity.
Step 3. Understand the things that attract your partner's attention
Most likely, there are specific things in you that attract your partner's attention. From now on, listen to his praise carefully. Does your partner often call you sexy when you wear lingerie? Or do those compliments always appear after you exercise? Some things that can make you look sexier:
- Wear eye makeup. Women who wear eye makeup have been shown to be seen as more attractive by some men. Don't hesitate to wear eyeliner or eye shadow and mascara when you're with your partner.
- Don't wear fragrances that smell too strong. Give your partner a chance to smell the natural scent that emanates from your body. Trust me, doing so is effective in deepening your partner's attraction to you! From now on, try wearing an unscented deodorant or bath soap so that your partner can more easily smell the natural scent of your body.
- Wear red clothes more often. One study showed that men tend to be more attracted to the color red than any other color. Try wearing a red skirt or sweater on a date with your partner and see how they react.
Step 4. Keep the two of you together always enjoyable
In addition to making yourself look more sexy and attractive, also show your image as a fun partner. Remember, your goal is to get him to spend more time with you. Therefore, show that you are a fun person to spend time with! Don't try to be someone else, but enrich your knowledge of interesting and fun dating ideas. Some of them are:
- Invite the couple to race quickly up the mountain to the top. The laughter that colored the competition was effective in deepening the intensity of the relationship between the two of you.
- Take your partner to a sports competition and surprise him with your knowledge!
- Invite your partner to play honest or brave to show that you have no doubts looking "stupid" as well as fun in front of him.
Part 3 of 3: Increasing His Interest in You
Step 1. Keep close you and your partner
In fact, distance has been proven to be effective in influencing the intensity of the feelings of both parties in a romantic relationship. The more time you spend with your partner, the greater the similarities between the two of you. For that, try taking time to meet your partner in between class breaks, invite them to study together regularly, or find other ways to spend more time with them.
Step 2. Respect your partner's personal space and enjoy your personal space too
One of the best ways to make your partner go crazy is to make him miss the two of you together. Sometimes, desire and attraction fade because you and your partner are too comfortable with each other. Therefore, try to make him miss you while still insisting that he is the main source of your happiness.
Spend time with your female friends at least once a week. Also encourage your partner to do the same with his male friends
Step 3. Imitate his body language and become a mirror reflection of your partner
Without realizing it, your partner's interest will increase if you do it, you know! To maximize the results, try to do it more often from now on. For example, if your partner changes their sitting position and puts their weight on their right hand, try waiting a few seconds and do the same. Make sure you put your weight on your left hand to make it look like a mirror reflection of your partner.
Try to do it implicitly. In fact, the act of imitating someone's body language often happens automatically and without realizing it. Therefore, try to do it quietly so that your actions don't come across as strange to him
Step 4. Be tough
Even though you're already dating, try to increase your partner's interest by occasionally being overpriced. Some ways that you can easily practice are:
- Waited 15 minutes to respond to his non-emergency text messages, or occasionally didn't pick up the phone.
- Ask him to reschedule the date if you already have other plans.
- Refusing to kiss him once in a while.
Tips
- Be honest with yourself. If you feel like you have to fake your character and personality just to make your partner crazy, chances are that he or she isn't the right person for you. Find a man who can like you for who you are.
- Act according to your comfort level. There's no need to do something if you're not ready or uncomfortable doing it.
