Is your relationship with your lover not going well? Are you having trouble deciding? Or can't you see his reaction when you decide? While it can sometimes be difficult to break up a relationship, it's best to talk to your boyfriend directly that you don't think the relationship is going well. However, if you're still sure you'll find another way, there are ways to get your boyfriend to break up with you. If you follow a few simple steps below, you'll be a single girl again quickly.
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Method 1 of 2: Be Different When With Him
Step 1. Stay away
If you want to get rid of your boyfriend, don't answer his phone or text him back. If you talk to him, tell him that you don't have time to be with him. Make sure you don't call or text him in advance. If you make plans, cancel them at the last minute. He will receive a signal that you don't want to spend time with him and he will eventually break up with you. Or, try not to talk to him at all.
- When you're together, don't try to have deep conversations with him. Make interactions that seem stiff and uncomfortable. You can even look bored or annoyed if he's around you.
- If he calls to talk about your behavior, you can either ignore him or say, "I'm just busy right now." If he questions your busyness, ignore or distort your answer.
- If you want to do it quietly, you can do it slowly. Don't cut off all contact at once, but slowly reduce your time with him. If you send messages several times a day, reduce the frequency. Eventually, he will realize that you are trying to cut off the interaction with him.
Step 2. Make a fight with your lover
When you are with your lover, make an argument out of trivial things. Reverse all the statements to drop them, and make them your arguments. If he's a little late for something, say, “You're always late. I've been waiting a very long time. Can't you just be on time just once? He will start to get frustrated and then break up with you.
You can also say something negative about everything he did to get him to fight with you. If he explains something to you, say, “Everything you explained was wrong. Very stupid, really." Those words will make him angry and break up with you
Step 3. Show the vagueness of your future
Give hidden signs that you feel there is no future for the two of you. If he's trying to make plans to date, don't agree to anything concrete or avoid the question. If he takes you to a concert in the next few months, say, “We'll see. I don't know what I'm going to do next. He will realize that you do not see a future with him.
- You can also look annoyed when he asks a few things. If he asks what you're going to do on the weekend, answer, “Why should you know? You don't need to know where I'm going all the time.” If he realizes that you can't commit to spending the weekend with him, he'll be getting a signal that you don't want to commit to a future with him.
- When you talk about the future, don't include your lover in your plans. Talk about wanting to take a vacation with your friends or find a job in a new city. If you don't mention his name in your plans, he will find out that you are not planning a future with him.
Step 4. Don't say “I love you”
When he says he loves you, don't talk back. If he asks if you love him, answer with a non-committal, like “Yes” or “He'eh”. If you say "I love you," don't sound sincere or convincing, as if you need to think about it again.
Step 5. Stop being intimate
Limiting physical intimacy will send a symbol of danger to your relationship. No matter how intimate your relationship is, start moving away from your lover. If you're new to the kissing stage, don't kiss or make out with her. If you've had sex, say that you're not in the mood for it. If he questions your reasons, don't give any reasons.
You can even stop all physical contact with him. If he tries to hold your hand, find an excuse to pull him back or look busy
Step 6. Say that you need some alone time
A good way to stop spending time with your boyfriend is to say that you need some time away from him. You will be farthest from your lover and will not have to deal with him anymore. If he starts calling or texting after some time, ignore all his attempts. In the end, he will understand what you are doing and cut ties with you.
Step 7. Try to control it
Start obsessing over everything he does. Tell him that he can't pair the shoes with his pants. Explain some of the foods he should eat, not the foods he likes. You can also do something to nag about trivial things in life. You can even look down on him as if he can't do anything about it. When he does something for you, say, “You were so kind to help me. But that's not the way. It should be like this. He will feel tired of being controlled by you and will end the relationship.
Step 8. Be selfish
When you and your boyfriend are spending time together, don't let him control the conversation. If he starts talking about himself, you should interrupt him and start talking about yourself. If you let him finish his story, respond with something like, “Okay” or “Oh, I see” before you start talking about yourself. He'll feel like you don't care about him at all or think you're too selfish.
Method 2 of 2: Be Different to Others
Step 1. Change your social media
Social media is a common way to celebrate your relationship. To make your boyfriend break up with you, tweak your social media accounts to make it look like you're single again. Change your profile photo on Facebook and Twitter from a photo alone with your lover to a photo of yourself. Delete your relationship status on Facebook. If you've been looking single long enough, he'll get the signal to break up with you.
- To support it, change your profile photo with your best photo. He will receive signs that you are signaling to others that you feel single and ready to date someone else.
- Start talking about other guys on Facebook or Twitter. When he sees your interactions, he will understand that you are starting to drift away from your relationship with him.
Step 2. Tell your friends
When you and your lover go out with your friends, let them know the situation you are in first. Tell them that they don't have to treat your boyfriend or greet him well. When you're together, ignore him and spend more time with your friends. He will feel neglected and realize that something is not right.
Step 3. Complain about your lover's friends
Whenever he says he's going to spend time with his friends, complain about the way his friends are behaving or their personality. When you're with friends, tell them they were wrong. If your boyfriend brings up something about them, let them know how annoying they are or argue with him when he brags about his friends. Men are usually very close with their friends and will not stand it if you continue to insult them.
If you know that you will be spending time with his friends, cancel the plans. This will show that you really don't like his friends
Step 4. Seduce other men
Whenever the two of you are out for a walk, flirt with another guy. When you see a cute guy on the street, tell him how handsome he is. Distract yourself while chatting with him because you see another guy passing by you. You can even seduce his best friend. This will make him mad and angry, and will make him want to end the relationship with you.
Step 5. Start talking about your ex
The most powerful way to make a guy run away is to talk about your ex all the time. Mention his name in conversation, tell him how much you miss him, and how you would like to know what he's doing right now. If your boyfriend compliments your outfit, say, “Thanks. My ex likes it when I wear this shirt.” Not only will his ego hurt, he will realize that he is no longer enough for you because you are always thinking about your ex. Or, how hard is it to say that you want to just be friends with him? In the end, you have to think about what you really want.
You can browse photos of you and your ex-girlfriend while you are with your lover. Change your profile photo on social media or your phone background from a photo of the two of you to a photo of you with your ex-lover. This can send a very clear message that you don't want to be with your loved one anymore
Tips
- Try this option when you have no other alternative. This method could backfire on you and you could lose the opportunity to become his friend in the future. It can also tell people that you're not a good person, and people will start to see you differently.
- If possible, be honest with your lover. This option will be easier to do and will be less stressful for you than toying with your lover.
- If he asks if he can come to your house, say “No. I don't want you here." He will realize that you don't want him to come or that you want to break up with him.
