Have you ever fallen in love with a woman, only to find out that she already has a boyfriend? He may have told you about it, or maybe you've seen him with his girlfriend (hugging, kissing, etc.), and you feel that you're the one who should be his girlfriend. Here are some tips for you!
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Step 1. Establish communication with him
Start building some kind of communication between you and him. Make history with it. This process takes time, but he should know and think about you. He will not leave his lover for someone he does not know, or he has not known long enough. For a while, you have to chase it pretty hard.
Step 2. Build trust
Do things with him after work or after school, listen to what he has to say, and make him laugh. In order to win her over, you have to make her like and trust you. However, do not let you completely submit to him. Remember that you are still in the leadership role in the relationship. Whether he realizes it or not, in fact most women view their lover as a leader. If you are too kind, you will be used as a free counselor.
Step 3. Find out about her needs (or wants) that her boyfriend can't provide
Does her lover speak harshly or angrily get angry with her? Has her lover forgotten her? Does her boyfriend show uncaring behavior towards her? Is his lover seducing another woman? Show that you are different! If you can fill the void in their relationship, he will start comparing you to his girlfriend. This is the most important part. You have to make him think of you even when you are with his girlfriend.
Step 4. Try to do things that make you more likely to take his place
If you're starting to fill the hole in their relationship, you just have to wait for him to fall into your arms. However, you have to make sure that he can't take advantage of you while he's with his girlfriend, and also make sure that you're not a secondary source from which he can get things he can't get from his girlfriend. If that happens, you will not be able to replace his girlfriend. You can wait until they break up, encourage him to break up, or try to be in a relationship with him even though he's still with his girlfriend.
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Wait for them to break up. This is the most difficult and tedious way, but simple. Don't push things to happen so they don't feel pressured. The danger of this method is that he will think of you as someone who is always there for him, and you will just keep waiting.
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Cause/encourage termination. If you follow the previous steps, he will tell you what his girlfriend did wrong. If the wrongdoing is serious, you need to let him know that what his girlfriend did was not right, and she doesn't need to continue to be treated that way. Tell him you won't do that to him.
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Establish a relationship with him before their relationship broke up. This method is considered the most risky because you are asking him to cheat on his girlfriend. Try to kiss him once. This kiss aims to make him realize that you are a better choice than his girlfriend. If you're not sure about doing something risky like that, try just kissing her on the cheek.
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Tips
- Make sure that you are always there for him. If you're around when he's not around, there's a pretty good chance that he'll fall for you!
- Play smart. When her boyfriend does the same, you have to speak up and stand up for him. If her boyfriend gets you into a fight or tries to cause a fight with you, the woman will stand up for you.
- Make sure that you are confident.
- Find out about the activities he likes and dislikes the most. It can be guaranteed that her lover doesn't know all about her.
- Never be impressed that you just like the way she looks. Even though he's very pretty, try your best not to be a slob. However, make sure that you're not shy about doing intimate things, especially if he's showing signs of agreeing. You play the leader, remember?
- Make sure that you are alert when close to the girlfriend. Fighting with her will only mess up your relationship with the woman you're after (although it's possible that it will work in your favor if you know exactly what you're doing).
- Do it patiently! This cannot be done hastily, especially if she is close to her lover, or if her lover is always there for her, so much so that she cannot imagine her life without him. You may be in that position for a year or more. It all depends on how much you want it.
- Be patient because you will feel embarrassed and rejected if you rush things.
- After he broke up with his girlfriend, don't let the two of them become friends. This will make it difficult for him.
- Provide a shoulder as a place for him to cry.
- (Additional tip to the previous step) If his girlfriend tries to fight with you, DO NOT fight back. Say that you really appreciate the woman. You may make her boyfriend mad, but it will also make him look like a jerk.
- Let him break up with his girlfriend naturally. Infidelity is wrong, and if he did it to his girlfriend, he might as well do it to you.
- Tell him how you feel. You have no reason to wait long. If he feels the same way, that's a good thing. However, only follow these tips if you are a risk taker.
- Wait until you are at the right place and time. You have to make sure you're at the right place and time to jump into action, but don't say you love him right away. Wait for the right moment. You may be able to ask him this at work or where you "accidentally" met him. Try to talk about her boyfriend, and maybe you'll find out about their "relationship status."
Warning
- Do not encourage the woman to break up with her boyfriend, unless you have a valid reason. Otherwise, he will smell of your plans.
- Don't be angry with your lover. It shows that you are not a good person, and you are not mature and smart. Try to think of him as an object of love, not just someone you value.
- If his girlfriend notices that you are approaching her boyfriend (which is highly likely to happen), of course he will have an issue with you trying to steal his girlfriend. Make sure that you always put the woman first. What does he want? While having two guys vying to win her heart is flattering, she doesn't want you to fight with each other! Avoid conflict of any kind, especially physical conflict.
- This method can lead to a lack of trust. If you can snatch her from her boyfriend, what makes it impossible for another man to snatch her from you?
- While trying to get close to him, make sure that you don't get too involved in the relationship or accompany him to go shopping and other activities, or you'll just be stuck in the friend zone.
