3 Ways to Be a Woman Lover

2024 Author: Jason Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 10:50

A woman lover (player) is like a cold Casanova and leaves a series of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he entered the room, all the women would line up to talk to him, begging to be asked out. And, if he's really good at making love, he'll find a woman in his bed sooner than he can when he says to the waiter, "Give me the bill!" If you're already a womanizer and want to hone your skills, or this just seems like a lifestyle for you, keep reading.

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Method 1 of 3: Think like a Girlfriend

Step 1. Have confidence

You can walk and talk like a womanizer, but if you don't have the right mindset, women will lose interest. Before you become a true lover of women, you must try to have true self-confidence. Here's how to do it:

• Calm your anxiety. Think about what you are worried about – your future, your family, or your career – and try to minimize your anxiety about all aspects of your life. A fair amount of stress is normal, but if you obsess too much about what could go wrong, you won't be able to think in the moment, and women will know you're on a lot of thoughts.
• Face your weakness. Be aware of your shortcomings, and try to improve them. Are you a poor listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to improve these traits little by little. No one is perfect, but everyone can improve themselves.
• Think positively. When you walk into the room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you would like to improve. If you think positively about yourself, women will follow you.

Step 2. Don't be in a relationship

A true woman lover must value quantity over quality, so if you are committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy being with as many women as possible, not just liking one woman. If you're worried about what a woman thinks of you, or when she'll call, then you're close to dating her, and you need to protect yourself. Here's how to keep yourself free:

• If you feel that a woman is too close to you, walk away. If a woman starts a deeper conversation about your personal life, wants to move into your house, or is planning a romantic getaway, then she wants to be your boyfriend, and you should move on to another woman.
• Keep things light. Enjoy the company of a woman, but don't let her make you feel so warm that you can't think straight. Focus on having fun times in and out of bed, and change the subject when the conversation gets more personal.
• Don't think about sentimental things. When you see an opportunity to conquer a woman, you should think about how much fun you will have dancing, making out, or hooking up, not thinking about what your grandchildren will be like. Think calmly, and other things will automatically follow.
• If you really have found the right woman, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a woman lover can fall in love, and if you have found a woman who can make you feel that she is the only woman in this world and the person you want to spend your life with forever, don't let her go. This is rare in the life of a female lover, but if you really can't control your feelings, you might as well tell other women that you have a partner.

Step 3. Always think about what you are going to do next

Like a true chess champion, you must always be one step, or many steps, ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present moment, you will not get many women in your life. Here's how to do it:

• Prepare plans for your nightlife. If you go to a nightclub, think about your next location. Would you take women to a more intimate bar, to your house, or to an after party? Before you ask a woman out, plan out your goals for the evening, so you don't waste time thinking about what to do.

  

• Make plans for your weekend. You may have just finished saying goodbye to your newest woman, but what are you going to do the next night? Unless you want to spend time sitting alone in your room and checking your phone, you should already have a line of women.

  

Method 2 of 3: Dress like a Girlfriend

Step 1. Wear the right clothes

You must have the appropriate appearance before you can act according to a given situation. A true woman lover has to be gentle, but she also shouldn't look like she's trying too hard for it. His way of dressing should serve one purpose, which is to help him find women who are eager to rip his clothes off. Here are some ways to dress perfectly:

• Wear a shirt with a button-down collar and nice long sleeves after a tight tank top. Girls will want to see you wearing only tight clothes so they can feel your strong muscles. Always wear clothes that indicate or show your strong upper arm muscles.

  

• Wear pants that are a little loose so they will sag a little. Show the ladies a little of your shorts, and find an excuse to take your shirt off so they can see your chubby tummy. Once they see the hairline on your lower belly, they will want to trace it to the bottom.

  

• Wear appropriate shoes. Whether it's going to a restaurant or wearing casual sneakers in the gym, make sure your shoes are up to date and expensive. Girls will think that you will spend the same amount of money as your shoes on a special date.

  

• Wear some cool accessories. Wear purses, big gold chains, and cool flashy embellishments. You don't mean to be a lover of subtle women. Wear leather belts with flashy buckles so the ladies will see where they are.

  

Step 2. Have the right body shape

Being a woman lover is not always having fun and playing. To maintain the appearance of a womanizer, you must take the time to practice in the gym. You won't be able to seduce women if your upper arm muscles look like string beans. Here's how to do it:

• Exercise your heart. Start by running only two or three kilometers, but learn to run at least eight kilometers without running out of breath. You can't match Don Juan if you're already out of breath as you climb the stairs as you lead the woman you've just won.

  

• Build muscle. Do whatever you can to have a firm stomach, strong chest, and strong shoulders. Do a bench press (lifting a heavy barbell while sleeping to work your upper body muscles), or try an exercise that helps build muscle, such as boxing or basketball.

  

• Eat the right foods. If you're taking a girl out to dinner, you can have a delicious steak, but if you're eating alone, try to eat a healthy, balanced diet of fruit, vegetables, protein, and carbohydrates. Eating the right foods, especially protein, will help you burn fat and build muscle.

  

Step 3. Have perfect body language

Having an open and confident body language will show a woman that you are not only confident, but also focus all your energy on her – for a while. Here's how to do it:

• Make impressive eye contact. When you talk to a woman, look deep into her eyes, as if you could jump into them. This will make her face flush with embarrassment and will easily turn her on. Make her feel as the only woman not only in the room, but also the only one in the world.

  

• Lean closer as you speak. When you're talking to a woman who's clearly attracted to you, lean very close, as if you could kiss her at any moment. This will make him want the kiss.

  

• Turn your hands and body toward him. Do not cross your arms, or point your feet away from him. Your whole body will be signaling, "Hey baby, I'm ready for you."

  

Step 4. Cleanse the body like a lover of women

Cleanliness is just as important as wearing proper clothing or body language. The ladies won't be blown away if you smell as if you're wandering all night in slum alleys. Here's how to tempt them with your cleansing abilities:

• Wearing cologne that smells strong and is typical of men. This will make women want to pass out in your arms.

  

• Bathe and shampoo at least once a day. Use liquid soap and shampoo typical of men to make women fall asleep.

  

• Use hair gel. Give your hair an extra touch with gel. Girls will want to run their hands through your hair.

  

• Always have fresh breath. You will need it when speaking at close range.

  

• Have a fresh face. Shave the hair on your face, and run your hands over your face. Turn to your woman and say, "Feel how smooth this face is."

  

Step 5. Have a nice house that is suitable for a woman lover

To complete the woman lover image, not only must you look like a woman lover, your home must also be worthy of women as well. Here's how to have a single man house (crash pad) to be with women:

• Always keep it clean. Since you can bring a woman over to your house at any time, you should always keep the sheets clean and changed regularly, the table clean, and – most importantly – the bathroom clean. If your woman is disgusted as soon as she's at your place, she'll immediately hail a taxi before you can do anything about it.
• Always have food reserves. Fill your home with bottles of wine and fruit like grapes and strawberries.
• Keep your home tidy at all times. Leather seats, sparkling lights and flat-screen TVs will make your woman feel right at home in your love nest. If you can't afford a nice single home, try to keep your house clean.

Method 3 of 3: Living Life Like a Woman Lover

Step 1. Choose wisely

Before starting the action, you have to make sure you choose a woman who will accept your lover's life. If you pick the wrong woman, you'll end up with someone who isn't interested, or someone you want to marry as soon as possible. Here's how to find the right woman:

• Look for women who laugh, clearly want to have fun, and are looking for fun times. Don't talk to anyone who's obviously boring, checks their phone a lot, or just looks around for something to do. A woman like that is an easy target, but you need someone to impress.
• Avoid women who are looking for husbands. Many of the women you approach will be looking for more than just trial and error. Any woman who mentions wanting you to meet her parents, wanting to formalize the relationship, or talking about how often she's been a bridesmaid probably doesn't want to just be your tenth favorite. Let this woman find her soul mate, and don't waste your time, nor hers.
• Avoid women who already have a partner. If you see a hot girl who isn't interested in a guy trying to get close to her, approach her. But if a woman winks at her boyfriend or a suitor, unless you're really up for the challenge, find someone who's fun and doesn't have a partner yet.

Step 2. Make the woman feel special

Approach a group of women, have a nice chat with them, and show that you're a fun guy to hang out with. But, after a while, move closer to your goal, and find a way to separate him from the rest of his friends and make him feel special. Here's how:

• Use a light opening. Start by teasing him or just asking him what he wants to drink. Make him laugh and show that you are someone worth talking to.

  

• Tell him that he is different from his friends. Say something, for example, "There's something different about you." Make him feel that he is completely different, and that you understand that there is something unique about him.

  

• Praise him. Don't overdo it, but tell him at least three things you like about him, whether it's his eyes, his dance moves, or the way he laughs. You don't have to say anything profound. Let him know that you appreciate him and want to get to know him better.

  

Step 3. Always complete the goal

Follow your strategy and remember to always try to take your conversation to the next level. Your main goal is to get your woman into bed, not a serious conversation about the meaning of life. When you get along well with a woman, you have to show that you want to move on to the next stage. Here's how:

• Relax. Say something, for example, “Do you want to get out of here?” or, "Shall we go somewhere where we can talk further?"
• Do your plan. Once you're with your woman alone, touch her gently, or ask if you can take her jacket off. Seduce him as soon as possible, for as long as he wants.

Step 4. Do something sensual in bed

To be a true lover of women, you have to show women that you are not only good at talking. Here are some tips for being such a great lover of women in bed that women will put your number on their speed dial:

• Give your woman a massage. Massage her shoulders, lower back, or even her legs to show that you know how to touch her.

  

• Kiss passionately. Don't push your tongue into your woman's mouth. Start with a gentle kiss and work your way up to full sex.

  

• Once you're in bed, don't rush. Give your woman enough time to be ready for sexual intercourse. Seduce him, bite him gently, or do whatever else you need to stimulate him. Just don't rush into sexual intercourse because it can be painful and definitely unpleasant.

  

• When you're done, be polite. You don't have to spend a few hours cuddling in bed after the deed is done, but spending a few minutes with your woman, gently kissing her, or letting her spend the night with you, will make her feel even more special than if you showered right away after your lust was quenched..

  

Step 5. Be nice and friendly

After you've had a good time with your woman, it's important to behave appropriately so you can see her again if you wish, or at least leave a good impression so she doesn't badmouth you to her friends. Here's how:

• Do not give certainty about when you will see him again. Tell him that you will call him or maybe see you again someday. Don't plan a dinner date for the following week. That's not how a lover of women lives.
• Be a nice and polite man. Help him put on his jacket and lead him to the door or his car. Make a good final impression so he won't think you're so immoral.
• Don't do too much flattery. Tell him you had a great time, but don't tell him you had the most beautiful night of your life. Be honest and don't make him think of you as someone different.
• End on a good note. When you say goodbye, make him laugh, give him a gentle kiss, or remind him of something from the night before. Make sure he wants to see you again. But, it's up to you to decide, you want to see him again or move on to another woman. If you want to see him again, do so a few days later before you start again. Continue your adventure, O lover of women!

Tips

• Remember, before breaking up with a woman, be friendly, polite, and let her down a bit. You'll have a better chance of preventing an argument this way.
• Be friendly and polite. Open the door for her, give her a tissue when she sneezes, and show concern as often as possible.
• If he's with a group, try befriending that group. Earning the respect of the guy who is popular in the group will increase your attractiveness in his eyes.

Warning

• Never date a woman who is your friends from the same group or who is from your work environment. This could lead to unintended consequences.
• Women can play with men just as men can play with women. Male lovers (as opposed to female lovers) will use many of the tactics mentioned above to gain the upper hand in order to seduce you. You can choose to follow or exit the game.
• Don't be a jerk. You can be confident and look for women without showing a bad attitude.