Virgo men can be shy at times and getting to know them isn't always easy, but they are amazing friends and lovers-their perfectionism makes them an impressive match! Are you attracted to a Virgo man? It's understandable why-they are intelligent, loyal, and down to earth. Here's what you need to know to date one of the men born between August 23-September 23 this.
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Part 1 of 3: Getting Started
Step 1. If you are attracted to a Virgo man, you need to befriend him first
The Virgo man is not the passionate type who wants to go straight to bed. They want to know for sure what they are going through. They will not be trapped in an uncertain romance. So, make friends first. Show that you are not a random woman, then his interest will appear.
Step 2. Make him respect you
The traditional Virgo man needs a classy woman. The woman he wanted was intelligent, self-sufficient, and very mature for her age. The woman is regular. She is not a woman who likes to gossip or small talk just because she wants to hear her own voice. Don't try to get the Virgo man to desire you sexually (he knows where the cheap flirts are); make him see you as a person who deserves his respect.
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Don't appear with glossy lips due to lip gloss, brushing hair at a set time, and batting eyelashes. Show the real you. Show a woman who is amazing and who knows she is amazing. Be yourself when in front of him. It's the only way to win a Virgo man's respect and loyalty.
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Step 3. Let's be honest
The Virgo man isn't the most outspoken and daring of the zodiac. Maybe you have to make less subtle gestures to say you like him. He must be sure of your feelings before taking action. Can you blame him? Nobody likes rejection!
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Virgos are just as responsive to the eye as they are to the touch. So instead of touching him on the arm like all women do, give him a look that screams, "Kiss me." You'll have it melted in no time.
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Step 4. Prepare for perfection
If there's one thing that clearly defines a Virgo man, it's perfectionism. He paid attention to every detail and did expect it. She made sure her linen closet was organized by color, size, date purchased, and number of weaves. It can tell when the photo frame is not centered, when the curry dish lacks seasoning. It has advantages and disadvantages-so concentrate on the advantages!
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He is the type of person who will notice if you gain a pound of weight. He's the type to look at your hair and tell you that one strand is sticking out. Don't be prejudiced-he's just trying to make everything perfect. He's also the kind of guy who will make sure your time with you is exactly what you want it to be. This makes his critical comments reasonable, doesn't it?
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Step 5. Get ready for everything classy
You know about perfection? How can anything be perfect if it's not the best? Virgo also expects all things to be of good quality. It doesn't need to be the most expensive (actually a bit counterintuitive-more on that in the next section), but it should be appropriate and thought-provoking. He can make ordinary jeans and t-shirts classy because of the thinking behind them. That's how your romance will work!
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Since he has everything in mind, your date with him will be planned and luxurious in its own way. He will take you to a restaurant he knows is good and he knows exactly what to order or what to tell the restaurant staff to get the best table. He will plan the evening in such perfect detail that you wonder how he made it all happen without any extra effort.
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Part 2 of 3: Adjusting
Step 1. Look simple
Opt for simple hair, clothing, makeup, and jewelry-stay away from EVERYTHING in excess, because Virgo men love natural beauty. You know the practical side of him? That side applies here. He doesn't like "show off" or "artificial". This is really a relief.
Virgo wants their partner to be "genuine". Who wouldn't? While he likes good stuff, brands don't mean much to him. A slick and simple style will resonate with a Virgo man more than an expensive, accessory-packed style. It is you who should emit the most intense light, not the sparkling bracelet you wear
Step 2. Keep it clean and tidy
Keep your health and personal care as clean and tidy as possible. And just as your body must be clean, so must your living situation! If a Virgo walks into your house and finds a pile of unseparated trash, he won't be coming back any time soon. Have a clean spell in your life as a whole.
If you're untidy, chances are you'll find this guy cleaning your bedroom floor. Suggest a new soap for you to get rid of the smell. Throw out any expired lettuce sauce from your refrigerator. This is the kind of talk that is best avoided
Step 3. Don't be too extravagant and splurge
Back to the practicality earlier. Virgo knows exactly what is needed and what is not needed. Just as he hates showing affection in public, he also hates showing off-and wants his partner to share the same mentality. There is nothing to be complex and pointless. It would just be an addition in his mind!
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If a Virgo guy is cooking dinner in your kitchen and finds 6 jars of peppers, 5 of them unopened, he'll wonder if you're too lazy to look in the cupboard before buying another and he knows you're wasting money. So do yourself a favor and your budget (as well as the environment!) and copy the trick.
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Step 4. Stabilize yourself
As an earth sign, Virgo expects their partner to be stable as well. Women who are fickle and irritable or easily change moods are not his choice. He likes simplicity, remember? Dramatization has no place in this world. Emotions are okay when in the right dose. Panic, gossip and no drama!
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This is not to suggest that you should not express your feelings if you are upset. Just try to be rational and logical. Instead of calling her, crying because your best friend is prettier than you today, hold yourself back. You can chat with him in the evening and talk about your self-image. He'll see that you're calm and receptive-rather than acting and being unreasonable.
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Step 5. Get ready to be pleased
While you shouldn't expect an outwardly intense and intense romance in this relationship, you should be prepared to be pleased. Virgo likes it when everything is perfect and because of that he will make sure you are happy. He doesn't know how to live life when you're not happy! If you give him something to do, he will do what you say, and more. What a couple!
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Maybe he doesn't seem like he's trying to take the relationship more seriously, but know that he's most likely thinking about it. When he opens up to you so easily, trusts you, allows you to be his anchor, then that's where you know you're special. Your name may not be displayed in the bright light, but you will find love that lasts forever.
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Part 3 of 3: Maintaining Relationships
Step 1. Know that it takes shelter under the earth element
Virgo (along with Taurus and Capricorn) is earth. That is, in general they are very stable and resistant to change. Like earth! They are solid in their path and know what they want and need. They are usually slow to open-but once they do open, they are permanent.
Virgo is a sign that tends to change, meaning this character isn't always right. But if you want to put them in one category, you'll find that they're generally solid-ground people, have a foundation on which to build everything (thinking and planning), and will be at their best when they're balanced
Step 2. Know that he may need reassurance
Virgos often get caught up in their own thoughts. Because of this, they are sometimes detached from reality, which results in an unconscious tendency toward feelings of insecurity. When this happens, they need to be reassured. If he's restricting himself from you, say that it's not necessary (in your own words, of course). Greet him enthusiastically. He may need an extra push.
Accept it and appreciate it. Instead of wishing he were more open and confident, realize that these qualities make him down to earth, down to earth, loyal, and not at all like the show-off megalomaniac zodiac sign that preceded him, Leo. This insecurity from time to time is such a relief
Step 3. Don't assume he knows everything
Because he pays attention to every little detail, many people think he knows everything. It looks at your pie chart and says it's 1% less. He not only noticed, but also said something about it. It can be annoying sometimes if you don't realize that he's just trying to make things better. And why can't things be better?
The good thing about Virgo is that he doesn't mind if you know his business! He is open to debate and likes to talk about what he is learning and experiencing. So next time he corrects you, don't hesitate to say, "No! I did it this way on purpose!" and explain why
Step 4. Understand his hesitation to act
Virgo, as previously described, doesn't jump at anything-from relationships to conclusions. He had to plan everything-how else would he know that what he was doing was perfect, and above all acceptable? So if he doesn't immediately provide you with overwhelming evidence of love, don't fret. It takes time. So give him time.
Your relationship may be slow at first. Does not matter! That's the Virgo rhythm. It's not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. It will open in time if you are patient. After all, all that is good is worth the wait
Step 5. Know that it is more practical than poetic
When it comes to showing love, the Virgo man won't make a song about your pink left toenail. There is no point. Why should he waste time doing that? But he'll offer you his sweater if you're cold; he will open the door for you; he will give you the perfect gift on the anniversary of your relationship because it means everything. The items he gave were also good. Who wants a poem about toes?
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If you're looking for intimacy and want some touch to show affection, this can be frustrating. He wouldn't reply and didn't seem to understand either. If this is the case, you should relax. Take a step back and realize that he has a different way. He will show you how he feels in other ways in no time.
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Tips
- Virgos hate it when people act like they're not who they really are. After all, who doesn't hate it?
- Clean your house before inviting a Virgo man. Virgo HATE dirty and messy atmosphere.
- Watch your manners-including table manners.
- Watch your language! Virgo men back off easily by profanity and won't tolerate it!
- Invite the Virgo man to dance. He can let go of his spinning mind and will feel happy.
- Virgo is the most perfectionist star in the zodiac. Stay away from Virgo if you are NOT a perfectionist yourself!
Warning
- Like the Virgo woman, the Virgo man has NO tolerance for anyone being selfish and rude!
- Like Scorpio, Virgo men can be VERY aloof, jealous, and even emotional.
- The Virgo man can be very critical and opinionated at times. Pay attention to this if you are prone to low self-esteem.
Sources & Citation
- https://xstrologyscopes.com/articles/taurus/the-earth-signs-taurus-virgo-capricorn
- https://www.futurescopes.com/virgo/2029/dating-virgo-man-when-you-fall-love-virgo-guy
- https://www.eastrolog.com/love-horoscopes-for-men/seducing-virgo-man.php
- https://blog.californiapsychics.com/blog/2008/09/so-you-wanna-date-a-virgo.html
