If you want to get an Aries guy (March 21 - April 19) you need to be bold, classy and smart. Catching his eye requires working hard on what you have and the confidence to lure him in. No wonder you're drawn to this guy -- he's confident, charming, and incredibly sexy. Deliver positive results from first sight to form lasting relationships!
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Method 1 of 3: Make Him Realize You
Step 1. Flirt
First of all, Aries is a fiery, passionate and sexual symbol. If your impulsive lustful side is buried under a pile of inhibitions or insecurities, your Aries will quickly turn the other way. So start flirting a lot -- it's a source of fun and reaffirmation for this zodiac sign. In their minds, this makes every situation hot!
Seduce him on every level -- with your body, your eyes, and your words. To keep him entertained even more, make it subtle with double meanings and play on words. Aries men like smart women who make them think and react quickly
Step 2. Use body language
The Aries man is very attuned to his body and the way other people operate with him. To satisfy his needs, use your body language to attract him. When you pass him, touch his back. Tousle her hair at the nape of her neck. Dangle your heels on the calves. He likes challenges that make him unable to think straight!
However, the Aries man does love an intellectual woman. They are passionate, love new things, and have fun. If you can get them involved in multiple stages (intellectually, sensually, etc.) they will be more impressed and amazed by you
Step 3. Dress feminine
Most Aries men are attracted to women who are quite feminine. They want to be with women they can facilitate, who make them feel needed like girls in trouble. Crazy enough, clothes can convey this meaning. Dresses and skirts can remind her that your femininity is still classy!
Since your Aries is very sensual, it's important to smell good too. You want to employ all of his senses. Soft skin to touch, nice smell to smell, feminine silhouette to look at, etc. You want to have his mind shaken 24/7
Step 4. Admire him
Let's put it this way: The Aries man really likes himself. He can be somewhat self-absorbed and selfish. In order to enter his head, you must cooperate. Give him the praise he feels he deserves. He'll think you're just showing good judgement!
This can be a quality that is a little difficult to accept. Realize that this is just part of his personality and the way he operates. Some will find it attractive; others will find it painful. If you can find this interesting, he will love you for it
Step 5. Be confident
The Aries man needs a strong personality to counter his boundless drive and enthusiasm. Even though he wants a girl in trouble, he also needs a confident woman. Kinda like a contradiction, but it's doable. Show him that you love yourself and he can't deny it. Who could?
Just because you compliment and flirt with him doesn't mean you can't be confident! Instead, doing these things shows him that you know what you're doing and feel comfortable putting it off to someone else
Step 6. Be smart
In addition to being confident, Aries loves smart women. They want someone who can play at all levels -- the Aries guy isn't a fan of boredom (and that's taking it lightly). They need to be entertained. Being smart can do just that!
There you go, flirt with your Aries! They will love the attention, especially if you do it skillfully and with a grin. Don't just state facts -- add humor and dynamism to your words. In short, be yourself
Step 7. Know that he is the element of fire
Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are all called the element "fire." This means it's exactly what it sounds like -- they're enthusiastic, bigger in life, and unstoppable. They are generally confident, confident, sexual and very creative. Your Aries is just that!
The downside to this is that they have very strong personalities and can seem a bit boring. When the fire element gets too hot to touch, you may need to step back to avoid getting "burned." If you can handle the heat, stay in the kitchen
Method 2 of 3: Relationship Beginning
Step 1. Play cat and mouse
Let your Aries man always think that he is his chaser and you are his beautiful catch. He is very natural in his role and likes nothing more than old fashioned romp. So don't go easy on him and enjoy the attention he pours on you as he slowly encircles you and pulls you inside. This is the best position for you to get an Aries man.
Take pleasure in knowing that you are actually dictating his moves while he is more discreet. But don't be a mouse that runs away and can't be seen anymore -- just out of reach of his hands. Let him think he's making progress and is intent on getting you. If he doesn't see any progress, he will find another mouse to play with
Step 2. Get him involved in the debate
Aries likes women who can challenge him mentally. Don't be afraid to start an intellectual debate with him to get his brain juices working. He will adore you as much as you admire him!
However, be careful with this. He likes to be on top. If you prove him wrong, he may feel unmasculine and can't handle it. Give leeway. Agree to disagree or tell him he made a true statement that makes you think. He loves to argue -- he also really likes to win
Step 3. Adventure
There is no room for boredom in Aries' life. The second they feel bored, they go somewhere looking for satisfaction and joy. So find your own adventure! Suggest a date that's exotic and a little crazy over the usual dinners and movies. Go to an amusement park, go hiking or go on an unprepared trip. Keep it hot!
Not only is this great advice for Aries, it's good advice for everyone. Ever heard of the Capilano Bridge experiment? Turns out there's something like "mistaking arousal" -- meaning that when your body is excited (whether from heights or horror, etc.), you don't know why -- and you think it's because of your partner's sexiness
Step 4. Accept all the good and the bad
Aries (fire element in general) tends to have some characteristics that people find unpleasant. They can be selfish, jealous, temperamental, childish, and moody. When this side comes up, it's important to stay calm and not take it too seriously. If they show emotion, it means they care!
That being said, Aries are full of great qualities too (otherwise you wouldn't be attracted to them from the start!) They are motivated, confident, charming, smart, sensual creatures. Their less positive nature is even more obvious because their personalities are very strong
Step 5. Keep wanting him for more
Aries loves the thrill of being chased so much that it can be hard to get them to chase you for more than a hot minute. But this is possible if done with a bit of flamboyant confidence. Don't give your whole personality all at once. Leave a few gemstones along the way for her to find while making her keep thinking that there's still a side of you to conquer!
Because of this, it is important that you defend yourself in this relationship. Continue your hobby, have a world that has no part of itself. That way Aries will feel like there's more territory they need to get, the deeper understanding they get from you. They don't want their partner to be found out so easily
Method 3 of 3: Making It Last
Step 1. Be naughty and impulsive
Remember that "Aries hates being bored," ? Get around this by being a little naughty and impulsive. They are like this too, so when you show this side, they will understand. Suggest sudden sex and think of it as "lunch power." They will stagger for a few days.
In addition to impulsive sexual behavior, be impulsive with your lifestyle! Surprise gifts, surprise trips, sudden changes of plans -- Aries will eat them. They would spend every day wondering what would happen next. And looking forward to it
Step 2. Be aware of the details
When you make romantic surprise cues to your man, make it clear that you're paying attention. He'll like to see that you remember one comment about Star Wars he made three months ago. It is admiration in its best form! The little things mean a lot to him.
This return to Aries needs praise and attention. Even though he seemed confident and didn't need anything, this wasn't true. He still needs other people, wants recognition and approval. Little glimpses of your amazing observation skills will let him know you were there and give him exactly what he needs
Step 3. Don't stick too much
Aries is a fire sign and needs to let go to find its true strength. If he was restrained, he would just explode. He enjoys his freedom and thrives on it, so it's important not to get too clingy. Let him do his job. Trust him.
Aries want a partner who is their soul. When you start to cling to him, you are influenced by his style. Confident in your relationship! This is the sexiest thing
Step 4. Energetic and enthusiastic
Aries is full of life and he hopes you are too. How else can you keep up with her endurance?! He's gone, gone, gone, so to be a viable partner, you need to be a pretty energetic bunny yourself. So in life, get excited! After all, it's the only one you have.
Don't be afraid to show your emotions. Aries thrive on stimuli and sensations. If something excites you, say it! And if your Aries shows your panda how much he cares, definitely give him the reaction he's after
Step 5. Let him be your knight
At the end of the evening, he is looking to facilitate you and become the man you dream of being. He feels worthy, so let him! He could be a knight -- because that's good, considering he's almost dead by now. Let him keep it on. Let him know he is needed. Then how did he get lost?
Let yourself be weak with him. While he can be moody and erratic and very independent, show him who you are and he will show you his true self in return. He will love to see your sincere, gentle side. And he'll love that you trust him enough to do just that
Tips
- Remember that Aries men have huge egos, so if you want to get your Aries man, you have to rock him! Long and hard, as long as it takes to make him come to you, and forever if you want him to stay with you. It's a good idea to throw a few simple compliments on him but be careful not to overdo it, as he won't respond well to pampering like children and would much prefer a woman who could match him in terms of wit and intelligence.
- Aries men are very competitive, so they are very good at sports.
