Who says best friend status can't turn into boyfriend? If you're currently in love with your best friend, don't rush back! In fact, confessing your love to your best friend is a risky move, but worth trying.
Step
Step 1. Build a deep and meaningful friendship with her first
Generally, being friends for a year or two is best before starting to date them.
Step 2. Take every opportunity to travel with him
Accompany him shopping, take him to see a movie at the cinema, or even invite him to attend your family event.
Step 3. Perform appropriate physical touch
Start by asking him to shake hands when you meet him; After some time has passed, start creating more familiar greetings such as punching her in the hand or giving her a casual hug. At certain moments, hug him tighter than usual. Once the two of you are getting closer, start tickling or teasing him. Chances are, gradual physical touch works to get him to like you; even if that's not the case, at least the friendship between the two of you will be stronger after that.
Step 4. Take him to your family
Trust me, he will feel special because you treat him like a legal partner. Don't be in a rush to label her as "boyfriend", but don't argue with it either. In other words, don't be busy confirming or denying other people's guesses, and let things flow naturally.
Step 5. Get him to talk privately
Step 6. Express your desire to be his girlfriend
If he wants to know how much you love him, do whatever it takes to convince him and impress him (such as kissing his forehead).
Step 7. Ask her how she feels and ask her to make a decision
Step 8. If he rejects you, don't give up right away
Likely, he just needed more time to think and prepare himself. If you still love him, stay close to him as a friend and don't do anything to upset him. Maybe one day he will reciprocate your feelings, right?
Step 9. Don't stay in the friend zone with him too long
The longer the two of you are friends, the more awkward it will be when you accept your declaration of love.
Tips
- Don't be afraid to show your soft side. Generally, women prefer men who are not afraid to be themselves.
- Don't look doubtful and timid; show your assertiveness without being aggressive.
- Don't be spoiled and/or possessive. More than likely, he'll be annoyed and think he's being used to boost your self-esteem. Every now and then, go alone or with your other friends; show that your life doesn't just revolve around it.
- Convince yourself that you will confess your love if you see him again.
- Express your feelings directly.
- Don't force it if you don't want to ruin your friendship.
- There's no need to rush. However, don't move too slowly either; Be careful, staying in the friend zone for too long can get you stuck there forever. If you don't act at the right time, he's more likely to switch to another guy soon.
- Make sure you're always there for him before trying to date him. Show that you care and love him even though the two of you are still friends.
- Before expressing love, know your intentions first. Make sure you don't do it because you're feeling lonely or don't have other women's options.
- Listen to him. If he admits he doesn't want to be romantically involved with you, respect his honesty.
Warning
- Be as straightforward and open as possible to him.
- Don't be in a hurry to kiss him. Do it only if he looks ready to accept it.
- Don't be nervous; Remember, most women prefer men who are assertive and confident.
- If he rejects you, chances are that your friendship will be damaged or not as close as before. Sometimes, putting personal desires aside for something worth keeping is the best course of action.
