Has there been a woman that has grabbed your attention lately? If so, there's nothing wrong with conveying your love and admiration for him, you know! Although it sounds traditional, the fact is that expressing your feelings through beautiful words in a letter can better reflect your feelings. Want to know more complete tips? Read on for this article!
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Part 1 of 3: Composing the Contents of the Letter
Step 1. Make a list of the things you like about him
Don't worry about the arrangement! Just write down all the reasons why you want to write the letter; anyway if the layout feels messy, you can always fix it later. Make sure you don't focus on anything interesting that has to do with his physique; instead, focus on his actions and personality, and how you feel around him.
- For example, write down that his smile looks really cute and explain how he greets you in the morning.
- Write down your most honest feelings. For example, say that his smile brightens your morning and encourages you to go to school with more enthusiasm. Such sincere compliments deserve to be included in your letter.
Step 2. Explain why you wrote the letter
Now is the time to put your thoughts into writing. In the introduction, make sure you tell him that this is a love letter; that way, he won't be surprised when he reads your confession afterward. For example, explain that through the letter, you want to convey the feelings you have been holding on to for a long time.
- For example, you might say, "You need to know how great you are."
- Another introductory sentence worth writing is, "I'm writing this letter because I don't know how to express my feelings anymore."
Step 3. Convey her meaning in your life
Make him feel special by conveying the meaning of his presence in your life. Maybe he is someone who always helps you through difficult times; maybe he managed to make you a better person. Whatever it is, show that you really appreciate its existence!
For example, you could say, “You make me remember who I really am,” or “You make me not afraid to be myself.”
Step 4. Share any personal memories you have of him
Even if you don't know him very well, at least one memory of him will stick in your mind. Most likely, the memory is related to the first meeting the two of you. Use the memory to describe how you feel about him.
For example, you might say, “The first time I saw you in front of the class, I knew I had to introduce myself to you. I swear, your charm back then left me speechless.”
Step 5. Say why you like it
Refer to the list you have made and do not repeat the words you have already mentioned. Try to find details that feel meaningful to you and package them in short sentences that will make an impression on his heart. Of course you can compliment him, but don't overwhelm him with full-page compliments, okay?
- Some examples of sentences that you can include are, “I like you because you seem to respect everyone very much” or “I like you because you can always laugh when you are in trouble.”
- You can also include a simile like, "I love your sea-blue eyes." But remember, don't do it too often; be yourself and pack your letter in the most honest style.
Step 6. End the letter with a thank you note
Thank him for wanting to read the letter. After that, tell him that you want him to remain the great person he is today. In the end, close your letter by asking her out on a date or in a further relationship; for example, you could say, “Wanna go on a date with me?” or "If I may, I'd like to get to know you better."
If he doesn't feel the same way as you, don't be too sad. The situation is perfectly normal. Never force him to accept your feelings or make him feel guilty for rejecting you
Part 2 of 3: Creating the Final Draft
Step 1. Read your initial draft aloud
Find a quiet location and read your letter aloud. Even though it may feel awkward at first, don't stop! As you read, make sure you're also looking for words, phrases, or sentences that sound weird and don't flow. Remember, you will give this letter to a special person; So, don't hesitate to read it over and over again to make sure it's of decent quality.
Step 2. Observe the errors that you need to fix
Make sure you always hold a pen to mark any mistakes you find. Underline the sentences that are less effective, circle the words that need to be changed, and cross out the words that feel strange or less important.
Step 3. Check your spelling
His name is an important part of your letter; For that, make sure you write it down correctly! Make sure you pay more attention to homophones, which are words that sound the same but have different meanings and spellings such as 'sanction' and 'sanction'. Also don't use typical text message abbreviations like “gw” or “dmn”.
Using the typical language of a text message in a letter can reduce the quality of your letter
Step 4. Revise your letter
Take a deep breath, grab a new piece of paper, and revise your letter. Write carefully so that your words are easier to read and understand; Don't forget to also apply your previous correction results. Make the letter as beautiful as the girl you are attracted to!
- Write your letter in blue or black ink because these two colors are the closest to the human eye.
- You can also type it on the computer. To ensure quality, make sure you use the spelling and grammatical error checking feature available on your computer.
Step 5. Read the body of your letter one last time
Read the contents of your letter aloud to identify areas that need improvement. Mark the sections and immediately revise them. Make sure the letter you give him is honest, meaningful, and he can be proud of.
Part 3 of 3: Submitting Letters
Step 1. Write your phone number in the letter
By doing so, you've signaled that he can also respond by phone or text message. Talking over the phone will make it easier for the two of you to chat privately without having to meet face to face.
Step 2. Make sure you also give him a blank envelope so he can send his response
Place the blank envelope in your letter and give him time to reply to your statement. If he wants to respond, he's more likely to post it or hand it to you directly.
Step 3. Tuck the letter in the desk drawer or locker
If you want to keep your identity a secret, try placing the letter in a place that is easy for him to access, but not easily seen by others, such as his personal locker or desk drawer.
If you decide to put it in a desk drawer, try tucking it in between his books or agenda so that no one else can see it
Step 4. Give the letter directly; make sure the letter reaches the right hands
Submitting a letter in person is not easy and requires extraordinary courage; but believe me, the effort will surely be remembered by him. Try saying, "I have something important to tell you." That way, you know that the letter will definitely reach him and he'll read it when the time is right.
Tips
- Take the time to write an honest and meaningful letter.
- Give the letter privately so that no parties tease you both.
- Smile as you hand over the letter.
Warning
- Highlight your letter; in other words, there is no need to give additional gifts that risk taking his focus off the letter.
- Write a letter in your own words! If caught cheating, your self-worth will decrease drastically in his eyes.
- Don't let other people read your letter! If possible, don't let other people know that you wrote it.
