Some men are blessed with brains filled with vocabulary that can make a woman happy. To understand what needs to be said and what needs to be done to make a woman's heart melt, you need to listen and trust your instincts and get to know your woman inside and out. In this article, you will learn some ways that can make a woman's heart melt. You will be the most interesting person in his life, and you will make him feel as special as possible.
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Method 1 of 3: Treat Him Really Well
Step 1. Take the initiative to help him
Eliminate the role of sex in your home and distribute the work in the house evenly. Once you're both settled and living under the same roof, here are a few ways to make the hearts of the women in your life melt:
- Make breakfast for your wife on the weekends. You can also cook breakfast or dinner for the whole family. If you don't regularly cook for your family, start making this a routine. Then, find out what your woman's favorite food is. When you and your woman go grocery shopping together, automatically put her favorite foods in the cart. You will make him very happy!
- Do something without having to be asked first. Clean your house, your pets, or the pile of dirty dishes in the sink. Repair damaged items in your home.
- Take care of your kids for a day. Take them out of the house until they are tired so that when you and your kids get home, your kids will want to rest right away and won't bother your woman! Or make her feel special by organizing your whole day by taking your children to play and feeding them at home, let your woman relax and enjoy the sound of her children laughing and enjoying the whole day. This combination is sure to make your woman's heart melt: you take care of your children and they laugh with joy.
- Take care of your woman when she is sick. Make special meals, get her mail, clean her pillows, rub her back, set the room temperature "just right," rent her favorite movie, and if you have kids, tell her not to worry because you'll take care of everything.
- When he feels tired, fill a bath tub with warm water with deodorizer in the water, or give him a relaxing massage. Lift him to bed if he is asleep not in bed.
Step 2. Be a creative giver
A unique and sincere gift is a beautiful way to let him know that he is a special person.
- Give traditional gifts at the start of your relationship, such as a stuffed animal, your sweater or sweatshirt, or jewelry. After you've been in a relationship for a while, try to give him something he really likes so he knows that you really love him.
- Ask the gift to be custom made. For example, you can put a custom message on a cup, t-shirt, or bracelet. Then, give him a card that says, “I want you to know that I appreciate everything you do. Maybe I should have told more. To me, you are a complete person. That's why I'm giving you this bracelet to show how much I appreciate you." He will be amazed.
- Don't buy the first flower bundle offered by a florist. Try to choose flowers that you know she will like or look for flowers that are less common, such as violets or freesias. You can also pick a wildflower and give it to her – she will melt.
- Purchase handmade chocolate from a chocolatier that is hard to find. Or if you can do it, try making your own chocolate!
- Remember your anniversary and arrange a unique way to celebrate it. Make her happy by mentioning your upcoming anniversary “before” she mentions it!
Step 3. Say things that make women melt
Saying things that make him melt will depend on who he is and how much you know him. Since you won't find one sentence that covers all flirting, you'll need to collect common sweet flirts that you can use until you get to know him better. Here are some sentences you can try using:
- Admit his sense of humor. Tell him he makes you laugh.
- Ask him, "How was your day?" It's surprising how often people forget this simple kindness. However, this is very meaningful because it allows him to talk about himself. Ask specific questions about her job or about her day caring for the children.
- If you and he have been apart for a few days, say that you miss him. Something like: “I can't wait to see you; It feels like it's been a long time since we last saw each other."
- If recently the romance between you and him has started to wane, say to him: "Honey, I want to increase the romance in our lives."
- Tell him that there is no one else like him. He's unique, and no one in the world is right for you than him. Everyone likes to be told how special they are. By doing this, you can strengthen him if he feels uncomfortable with himself. As you prepare to propose to her, tell her: "I can't wait to spend every second of my entire life with you."
Step 4. Take everyday acts of affection
A special sentence from you to him is a reminder of your unique love for each of you and it is very important to continue to use this even if your relationship with him has turned into a daily habit.
- Call him dear. Dear nicknames such as cute, love, dear, sweet, babe, beautiful, darling, princess, or a sweet nickname that you make yourself.
- Tell him how much you love him everyday. Few of us often tell each other how much he loves his partner. For example, in a public place, say "Honey, I love you" out loud so those around you can hear it, then kiss him. Or give him a call or text him for no reason other than to say, “I love you.”
Step 5. Take her on a romantic getaway
Make reservations for everything, make a small portfolio of the vacation and ask him to “close his eyes” then say “open your eyes and see where I take you” before you put the holiday plans in his hands. If she's a hard-working woman who worries about her busy schedule, try to arrange vacation time with her boss first.
Method 2 of 3: Appreciate Him
Step 1. Tell him how much you appreciate him
Never underestimate the power of respecting others for themselves, especially the special woman in your life. It is not enough to simply say how grateful you are to have him in your life; It's also important to say why. Details are very important because they can get to the root of who he is and how that root shines in your eyes.
- Notice what he does to help others, including yourself, and say how much you appreciate his generosity and kindness. Tell him how much you appreciate his ability to help and care about others.
- Notice the change in appearance. Tell him how much you like his new hairstyle or new clothes.
- Appreciate the little things. Whenever you notice something small that reminds you how much you appreciate it, try to say it, don't just think about it.
Step 2. Praise him often
One important way to let him know how much you appreciate him is by complimenting him. Compliments are an instant boost to mood and an important way to remind him how much you care about him. Don't praise him so much that he starts to question your sincerity, but at the same time, don't get into a routine that makes you forget how much he needs to know that you care about him.
- Try to be specific when you compliment him. Instead of saying something general about how beautiful she is, try to point out a particular aspect of her that fascinates you, like her eyes, her hair, or her smile. Saying specific reasons for how much you like or love someone is more effective than saying general compliments.
- Ask questions that are compliments. For example: “I love your earrings, they match your outfit very well. Where did you buy it?” Questions like this show that you're paying attention, and also show that she looks pretty and she has good taste.
- You have to be sincere. If you don't say compliments or comments sincerely, your words won't sound sincere and he'll sense that you aren't sincere. Dale Carnegie once said: ““Seduction comes out of the mouth. Sincere praise comes from the heart.” For that, say what you feel in your heart and believe in it.
Step 3. Appreciate her body
Tell him what makes you like his body. For example: “Honey, your body is absolutely stunning. Are you sure we already have three children and have been together for 10 years?” Let her know she's beautiful, but you have to be specific about what you like. Don't just say she's the most beautiful woman in the world because she won't believe that you're sincere.
Method 3 of 3: Communicate With Her
Step 1. Listen to him
You have to really listen to him, so that you know what he fears the most, and what his deepest beliefs, desires, and hopes are. Remember what he told you, and sometimes do something to show that you are listening to his deepest desires.
- Always be prepared to listen to his views. Even if you don't agree with his point of view, try to understand what he's saying so that you can both come to a compromise. Ask questions that make him say more, instead of asking “yes” or “no” questions.
- Listen without having to argue, justify, or answer. Avoid saying that you don't agree when he already trusts you until he opens up with you.
Step 2. Use a touch that will melt it
Remember that nonsexual touch is very important to women and you can do it as a joke every day when you see each other.
- Wipe or touch her arms, hands, and neck. The little touches when you walk into the bathroom and back at the table can be something special.
- Wipe her hair. If it's windy, brush the hair that sticks to his eyes and face.
- Stand behind him, hug him from behind. You can kiss his neck, whisper in his ear or bite his ear too. Hold her hips with your hands.
- When he lies down to sleep, kiss the part between his shoulder blades. It is a sexually sensitive zone.
- Squeeze his hand three times to symbolize “I – love – you.”
- Kiss her eyelids, or give her a butterfly kiss (using your eyelashes) on her cheek.
- When you introduce your partner to your friends and family, embrace him or her. If you are talking to a woman, draw your partner closer to you. Kiss her hand around your best friend to show her that she deserves you.
- Hug him. Hugs are great things to make him happy, to say hello and to calm him down if he's feeling jealous.
- Kiss him without any purpose.
Step 3. Make out gently with him in public
Showing in general your affection and love for him is your way of showing that you are proud to be with him.
- If you're wasting time searching for seduction, filter and discard those that are stale, ugly, overly obvious, inappropriate, and utterly ridiculous. You know your woman best – try to show your love, not your flirtations.
- Keep flirting with her throughout the months and years you've been with her. Don't let the fire in your relationship die down.
Step 4. Ask him for help
When you ask him for help, you show that you trust him enough and you lower your masculinity and show your vulnerability. This can make it melt.
Step 5. Call her when you are feeling down or down
He will be glad that you sought him out for consolation. Otherwise, if you call him and he's crying, go see him, don't just try to calm him down over the phone.
Step 6. Be humorous and witty
Humor can make a woman's heart melt easily because it shows that you can relax easily and you show the funny side of your life. His sense of humor shows him that you're not too serious and that you're ready to make some of the most challenging issues between the two of you funny. Laugh often and keep a warm smile in front of him. When he's feeling down, do your best to make him laugh.
Step 7. Enjoy your company and have fun together
Sometimes it can be tempting to take the relationship too seriously if you are focused on your relationship, or trying to be a serious partner with your thoughts to conform to social expectations, thus turning off the spontaneity in your life. You should always try to include fun in your time with him, no matter how long you have been with your partner.
- Do what he wants to do. Spending time doing what he loves is an instant way to make him melt. Put aside what you want to do and go along with what he wants, even if it means accompanying him to watch women's films every now and then.
- Invite him to watch your favorite sport. Spend more time chatting with him (even if it's to explain about the sport) than watching the game.
- Do something crazy every now and then to strengthen your relationship again. Unexpected surprises can make his heart happy!
Step 8. Respect his intelligence
Respecting a woman's intelligence means that you view her highly. Get rid of shallow flirting, jokes or belittling gender. Flirt with her intelligence as you would her beauty and sexiness, and you'll make her melt.
Step 9. Show true friendship
True friendship shows that you will continue to be with him, regardless of your status as a partner or lover. Being a friend shows that you are willing to go through hard things with him, that you can be trusted and that you trust him with your deepest trust. A woman sees friendship as the essence of a good relationship, and being her best friend will make her melt.
Tips
- Play with a strand of her hair when the two of you are watching in the cinema or reading a book and when you are leaning on each other on the couch or in bed.
- Never ignore his texts or calls.
- Be kind to the pet and take it seriously – pets are not a source of competition.
- Ask to see a photo of him when he was a kid if you haven't seen one. Ask to see the entire album!
- Make him a cake. Brownies and cookies are easy to make.
- Some women will melt when they hear a different accent than what they are used to on a daily basis. Scottish, Irish, French, and South American accents can fool them. Naturally, this can work for you if your accent is genuine, although trying to use an accent for fun can be worth a few hours of joking around.
- Sing to him. Seducing a woman with a song is a classic tradition that can make a woman melt. It would be better if you asked him to dance with you.
Warning
- Don't seduce her friends or family members. When you're with him, make sure he's the only woman you care about.
- Avoid clichéd words. At the right time, seduction and gifts can be very useful. However, don't over-ply your partner with clichéd and trite compliments, big declarations of love and generic gifts like jewelry or flowers. In the end, such gifts will lose value and meaning, over time.
