If you like someone, the easiest way to show it is to say it outright, but you may be reluctant to say it out of embarrassment. Don't worry, there are many ways you can take him to realize that you like him without saying it outright. When he realizes it, you will be able to enjoy a very pleasant relationship with the man of your dreams.
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Part 1 of 3: Mastering Body Language
Step 1. Make eye contact
One way to make the person you like realize that you like him without saying a word is to look him in the eye. Make eye contact for a second or two to signal that you're paying attention, then lower your head down to look away. This will make him realize that you like him, but in a subtle way. If you look at him directly, of course it will be clear that you like him.
- You can try this trick every now and then if you are in the same room, for example at a party or in a classroom. Try not to show too much interest. You certainly don't want him to catch you staring at him too much.
- You can also give a seductive smile when you look at him.
Step 2. Smile
You don't have to smile too wide to show your interest. Just give him a small smile, then look away or start talking to him. Your smile should not be too wide and look too excited, because he will think that you are just being friendly. Give a smile that is a little mysterious so you look shy, but he will notice your interest.
If you want to be more seductive, try to learn to smile using your eyes
Step 3. Lean towards him
Another way to show your interest is with simple body language. "Open" body language is when you stand up straight to the person you like, lean your legs and shoulders towards him and don't fold your arms in front of your chest. This will show that you are attracted to him and that you like being around him. The next time you're next to him, make sure your body is facing him so he can see if you like him.
For example, if you are talking to him and your legs are crossed, make sure that your legs are crossed towards him, not the other way around, so that your posture is more open
Step 4. Move closer to him
Another way you can show interest is to move a little closer to him, whether you're talking to him or at the same event. You don't need to move too close, because it can make him feel uncomfortable. Try moving slowly toward him in social situations. Without getting too close, you can show your interest by giving him a little more attention than the other person by standing next to him, sitting next to him, or chatting with him when you are in a small group.
When talking to him, you can slowly move closer to him as the conversation flows. If he doesn't move away, or even moves toward you, this could be a sign that he's attracted to you too
Step 5. Touch him
If you want to show interest in the person you like without making it too obvious, then what you can do is touch them every now and then. If you talk to him or run into him, you can lightly touch him on the shoulder or upper arm, and even pretend to hit him if he teases you. If you are standing or sitting next to him, you can let your feet and legs touch every once in a while to show him that you want to be closer to him.
A little physical touch will let him know that you like him. You don't have to try too hard, touch him occasionally during the conversation
Step 6. Look your best
This doesn't mean that you have to dress beautifully or wear heavy makeup to get her attention. However, you have to look attractive, fresh, and clean when you talk to him, because you want to make a good impression in front of him. Make sure the clothes you wear make you comfortable and don't make you someone else.
If you're hanging out with her in a small group, dressing up will make her feel like you're trying to look good to her. This will indicate that you are interested in him
Part 2 of 3: Give Subtle Gestures
Step 1. Become friends
The way to show your interest in him is to try to be his friend. This will show that you really like him. Ask him questions about his life, the things he likes, and spending time with him, whether you're working together on a group assignment or hanging out with friends. Make sure that he doesn't think of you as a brother or just a friend, and avoid being someone he pours out his heart to about romantic relationships.
- Being his friend will show that you want to be closer to him. This is a great way to show that you like him, especially if you don't have many male friends.
- Just slowly. If you don't know him very well, start with a simple conversation, then make an effort to spend time with him.
Step 2. Don't show off
If you want him to realize that you like him, you have to show that you feel comfortable around him. If you brag, tell him how great you are, tell too many stories to look funny, or do things that don't show who you really are, you won't get any sympathy from him. He will think that you like him only if you are yourself.
Remember that at the end of the day you want a guy who likes you for who you are. You don't want him to like you when you're someone else, because it will be very difficult to start a relationship if you start showing your true nature
Step 3. Give him a small gift
Small gifts can be a way to show that you like someone without looking too hard. Give him something he's touched on in conversation or something he might like, like a book or a CD. You can also act funny, for example by giving him a pack of pencils because he never brings pencils to class. You can also write a message on the gift and give it directly or put it on the table.
This method will of course work well if you know him or be friends with him. If you've never met him, this can be very confusing for him
Step 4. Ask questions that show you care
One way to show your interest is to show sincerity. To do this, ask questions about her life and try to really listen to her. Ask about his weekends, his favorite football team, his activities at school, his friends, or his favorite bands and movie players. This will show that you care about him and probably like him too.
- You can also ask him about his pets, his favorite movies, or things he does for fun.
- Make sure you don't ask too many personal questions as this will make him uncomfortable.
- Make sure to tell yourself too, because you don't want to look like you're interrogating him.
Step 5. Joke with him
The person you like will start to realize that you like him when you flirt with him. You don't have to try too hard, just joke about his new haircut, or his favorite sports team (especially if that team always loses), his obsession with his favorite band, or anything else that won't offend him. This will show that you like him and want to do fun things with him.
- Make sure that he knows you're teasing him and that he accepts it. He may feel very sensitive to his favorite sports team, for example when you keep teasing him when the team always loses.
- Show that you are only teasing him alone. If he thinks that you're flirting with his friends too, then he won't feel special to you.
Step 6. Help him
He will start to notice that you like him when you start helping him. You don't have to go too far to help, just show a certain attitude that shows you like him. For example, you can help her with homework when she's sick, lend her a book, or answer her questions. This can be a way to show that you care about him as long as he doesn't take advantage of you.
- Usually, he will find a way to help you too. You don't want him to think that he can always count on you and can call you anytime.
- Find a way to help him. He may be too shy to do something like ask you to help him with a math assignment, but you can offer to help and see how he responds.
Step 7. Tease him
Flirting will clearly show that you like it. In order to flirt with him, you have to joke around with him a bit and show that you are attracted to him, not some other guy. You can pretend to be high-priced while showing him that you like him by smiling at him, laughing when he's funny, and doing other things that indicate that you like him.
- Flirting might be a little difficult to learn, but basically you just need to not take things too seriously when you're talking about lighthearted topics. Show that you want to hear what he has to say while teasing him occasionally.
- You can lick your lips or play with your hair while talking to him.
Part 3 of 3: Really Telling Him
Step 1. Don't tell your friends to tell them
If you want him to know you like him, you have to make sure he finds out from you in person, even if you have to tell him by letter. It's easier to tell through friends, but it can indicate that you're not ready for a more serious relationship or that you don't feel comfortable saying it outright. Even if he tells you he likes you too, this is not going to get your relationship started off the right way.
Plus, you don't want him to be bothered when he's surrounded by your friends. Respect her privacy and tell her straight away
Step 2. Give him a letter
If you're too afraid to say it outright, then the thing you can do is give him a message that conveys how you feel. You can put your letter in the locker or give it directly. Tell him that you like him, give some reasons for liking him if you want, and ask him if he feels the same way. This is a very good way to say it directly, while releasing the burden because you don't have to say this in front of him.
- Make sure your letter is short and sweet. You don't want to go into too much detail about why you like him without knowing if he likes you too or not.
- You can give him a way to contact you, either by telling him how he can respond or giving him your number.
Step 3. Call him
Another way to let him know how you feel is to tell him on the phone. This does mean that you have to tell her through conversation, but if you feel that telling her in other ways won't end well, this is the best way. Call him, take a deep breath, and let him know quickly then ask him if he likes you too. Of course he will answer you right away.
Say something like, “I've been spending time with you the past few weeks and I want you to know that I like you. I wonder if you feel the same way too.”
Step 4. Tell him directly
If calling her isn't the best option, then you may have to choose the right time and place to talk to her. Ask him if he can meet you somewhere where you two can be alone, then look him in the eye and tell him you like him. Give him time to respond and don't overwhelm him. Make it relaxed and don't be tense.
- You can also have a chat with him first to make him comfortable, but don't be afraid to tell him how you feel.
- You can also compliment him once in a while when you express your feelings. You can say that only he can make you laugh to show why you like him.
Step 5. Act as necessary
When he finds out how you feel about him, he will tell you that he likes you too or that he wants to be your friend. If he says he likes you too, you can rejoice and definitely can't wait to start your relationship with him. However, if he doesn't like you as much as you do, be mature and stay positive instead of getting emotional and making him feel guilty. Even though you will be disappointed, you should make him think that this is not a problem for you. You can show your true emotions when you're not with them.
- Whatever happens, you want to still leave a good impression. If you make fun of him or be mean to him just because he doesn't like you, this will be bad for you.
- If he doesn't like you, he will appreciate your effort and honesty. You should be proud of yourself because you tried.
Tips
- Be yourself.
- Keep calm and relax
- Have fun.
- It's okay if you embarrass yourself in front of him. If he likes you, he will smile, laugh, or even ignore it and pretend nothing happened. This shows that he cares for you.
- Your body language will show how you feel about them.
- It's okay if you feel nervous about asking her out. However, don't change and behave badly around him or other people, because he will notice it.
- Don't tease him too much and know your limits.
Warning
- Don't ignore it. If he wants to spend time with you, this is a great gesture.
- Don't change just to impress him. If he likes you, he will like you just the way you are.
- Don't laugh too much in front of him. This will annoy him.
- Body language is very important. Make sure you're open to it, but don't scare it.
- If you try too hard, he will notice.
- Spreading too much charm is not a good thing.
