You may feel ready to raise a dog, but sometimes it can be difficult to get parental approval. To persuade parents to get a dog, start by pointing out the benefits of owning a dog, such as companionship and affection. Then, show your maturity and sense of responsibility by participating in cleaning the house. Show that you are ready to raise a dog by starting to think about what it takes to raise one.
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Method 1 of 3: Raising the Desire to Have a New Pet
Step 1. Name dogs as “family” pets
Tell your parents that owning a dog will make you want to be at home more, which means more time with your family. Say that having a dog will be fun for everyone in the house: you can go to the park together, or have a barbecue in the yard while playing Frisbee with the dog.
Ask them to imagine having dinner with a pet dog, or watching a movie as a family while the dog is lying on his lap
Step 2. Say that having a dog will get you out of the house more
Are your parents upset that you keep playing video or computer games? Do they always tell you to go out and do activities outside the house? If so, say that having a dog will allow you to spend more time in the park, sunbathing, and physical activity instead of hanging on to your phone or eating fast food.
Say that having a dog will help you escape the temptations of electronic devices and have a healthy youth with your furry friend
Step 3. Show that owning a dog can improve your mental health
Owning a dog has therapeutic properties and people who own dogs tend to be happier and live longer. Dogs can tell when their owner is sad and try to cheer you up when stressed. Dogs are intuitive animals that know exactly how to entertain their masters. If your parents are rarely home due to busy work, say that having a dog at home will not only calm everyone down, but will also keep you company when no one else is home.
Step 4. Say that the dog will make the house safer
The dog is the protector of the herd, and will act to ensure the safety of all he considers family. You will feel safer at home if you have a dog with you. With careful training, dogs can learn who is allowed into the house.
Thieves will not break into a house that looks sheltered by a dog. Show that your dog, once trained, will not only be your lifelong companion, but your protector as well. If you're old enough to go on an unaccompanied trip, say that you'll feel safer if you have a dog escorted you
Step 5. Explain that having a dog teaches a sense of responsibility
While you do need to show your parents that you are responsible enough to raise a dog, also say that owning a dog will make you a more responsible and careful person. Here's why:
- Having a dog teaches you to follow a routine. You have to feed, walk, and play with the dog on a certain schedule.
- Having a dog will keep you from staying up late so you can get up early and take your dog for a walk. Say goodbye to playing games all night long into the morning.
- Raising a dog will teach you the values of responsibility to other creatures.
Step 6. State the breed of dog you want
Do a little research to find out what breed of dog you want, and why. Whether you want a small dog breed, such as a miniature schnauzer, or a large dog such as a Labrador, explain why you want a particular breed of dog. This shows that you are serious about taking the time and effort to raise a dog. When discussing the breed of dog you want with your parents, you should also:
- Tells the advantages and features of certain dog breeds. Is the breed easy to train, very loyal, or very cute?
- Explain what is best for training this dog breed. Show that you know what needs to be done to train your dog to poop and teach basic commands like "sit" and "shut up."
- Show pictures of dogs or dog breeds. Showing a picture of the dog you want will help the parent feel more sympathetic. Who can resist the temptation of cute dog photos?
Method 2 of 3: Showing a Sense of Responsibility
Step 1. Make sure you are ready to pet the dog
It's easy to want to get a dog, especially after watching a good dog movie. However, the reality is not that easy. Even if you want to have a dog, are you sure you're ready to put in all the time, money, and effort it takes? Would you give up some social time to spend with your dog?
Step 2. Find ways to help with the cost of raising a dog
The cost of keeping a dog can be expensive because you will need to buy food, grooming services, vet services, and toys. Think of ways you can help ease the burden on parents in raising a dog. Then, offer to pay for all, or part of the cost of keeping the dog. You have to keep this promise so make sure the idea of getting the money you have is realistic enough.
You can offer to work odd jobs around the house, deliver newspapers, or use your savings or birthday gift money to help cover the cost of buying a dog
Step 3. Participate in completing homework
If you want to show that you can make a great dog owner, make sure you can do the basics, such as make the bed, keep the room clean, wash the dishes, and do everything else necessary. Then, level up and do more housework, cook dinner, mow the lawn, do the laundry, and maybe make coffee when your parents seem to need it, or do anything that goes beyond what's expected of you.
Step 4. Improve school grades
If you want your parents to feel like you can handle the added responsibilities of having a dog, be sure to keep your school grades high while you continue to persuade your parents. If you can, try to improve your performance in school to show your parents that you work hard and are willing to do anything to get a pet dog.
If you decide to make a verbal promise to your parents, be specific. You could say, "I'm going to keep getting A's in math," or "I'm going to keep getting A's on all of my science tests."
Step 5. Show that you can take care of pets
Ask your parents to give you something to take care of for a while. This could be an egg (don't break it!), a bag of flour, a plant, or even a hamster. Go through this trial period well to show you are serious about raising a dog. As silly as it sounds, you have to take it very seriously.
Step 6. Do a test run
If you have a friend who needs someone to take care of their dog for a few days, offer to help. Treat your dog well for a few days to show your parents that you are ready to have a dog. They will also see how happy you are to play with these adorable animals.
Step 7. Give your parents time to think
Remember, don't ask for it every day because it will only irritate them. If your parents refuse, continue to show maturity, stay diligent in helping at home, and occasionally bring up your dog so that your wishes are embedded in their minds. Being patient will also show that you are committed and willing to wait.
Method 3 of 3: Coping With Parental Concerns
Step 1. Indicate that you will be taking the dog for a walk
Your parents may worry that when you get a dog, you will be bored and they will have to take care of your pet. Say that you have chosen the best time for a walk and promise to take him for a walk every day; if you have siblings, show that you will share the work. To prove it, you can even go for a walk on your own according to a set schedule if you have a dog.
Step 2. Reassure the parents that the dog will not damage the house
Parents may worry that the dog will damage their favorite furniture, dirty the house, and fall out all over the room. Your job is to make sure these things don't happen. When discussing parental concerns, say:
- Say that you're going to buy lots of chew toys for the dog to bite into so it doesn't bite the furniture. Also, say you're going to protect and cover important cables, which in the end will only make them tidier.
- Explain how you will prevent your dog from littering the house. You can say that you will clean the dog's paws in the garage or patio before the dog comes back into the house.
- Explain how you will prevent your dog from shedding too much hair. The dog's hair will fall out, but you can explain that you will make a schedule for cleaning it.
- Say that you plan to bathe your dog weekly, or clean it as often as needed, depending on the breed.
Step 3. Create an eating and drinking chart
New dogs will need to eat at least once but usually twice per day. Do some research to determine if you need to give your dog wet, dry, or a combination food. Choose foods that are nutritious, but also according to the contents of the pocket. After that, draw up a chart showing the dog's feeding schedule, and how many servings there are. You can also estimate the cost of dog feeding over time.
Step 4. Consider bowel exercises
If you plan to have an adult dog, he may already be poop trained. However, it is different with puppies or young dogs. Be prepared to talk to your parents about how you will not only be picking up dog poop, but also cleaning and changing pee pads at home.
Step 5. Provide a list of recommendations
Show that you will be able to cover the dog's medical expenses. Do your research beforehand and find the best vet near your home. Ask a friend for a referral, or look it up yourself. Try to find a veterinarian within walking distance so you don't have to drive to the clinic. Show your parents that you have done your research and can take care of this pet.
Step 6. Plan for vacations and other outdoor activities
Show that you have plans for your dog when you are traveling and need to be away from home for a few days. Your mother might ask, “What are you going to do when we go out for a few days?” Don't be surprised and do some research beforehand. Find a dog daycare near your home where you can leave your pet, or find a close friend or neighbor who is willing to take care of your dog for a while.
Step 7. Be willing to wait
Show that you will not get bored with the dog. Parents may worry that once you get a dog, you will stop caring for it after a few weeks. To allay these parental concerns from the start, say that you're willing to wait a few months and keep talking about getting a dog to show that your desire is not a temporary phase; You are very committed to getting a pet dog willing to wait to show how much dedication you have.
Tips
- Look for the dog from the nearest shelter. Dogs are usually cheaper here than from breeders or pet stores and you'll be helping dogs that need a new home.
- Consider getting dog training information in town to include with things to show parents. Your parents will appreciate that you not only want to get a dog, but will also train it so that it behaves well.
- While waiting for parental approval, find a dog shelter near the house and volunteer there to help the dog, or find a home that needs help taking care of the dog.
- Do some research on dog shelters and be available if parents want another breed or from another shelter.
- Volunteer at an animal shelter to show that you will care for the dog. Do it regularly (eg once a week) to show that you are reliable.
- Parents usually have reasons to refuse your wishes. So, listen to their explanation! Ask them to list all the reasons for refusing to have a dog, then try to find a good solution to each problem raised.
- Take responsibility! Take care of your sister! Wash dishes! Take care of your little pet! Do your homework and let your parents watch over you! They will be impressed if you are suddenly very helpful at home.
- Be patient! Your parents need time to think about the decision to get a dog. Owning a dog is a big responsibility. Don't be too pushy.
- Show your sense of responsibility by completing homework or volunteering to help out at home.
- If you already have a dog, use it to show that you are responsible enough to raise a new dog.
- If you don't have friends, dogs will keep you from being lonely.
- Do as many race-related risers as desired. Try to choose a breed that everyone in the household will enjoy.
Warning
- Make sure you want to take care of the dog and are responsible for being a good employer.
- If one person is allergic to dogs or their fur, don't underestimate this problem. Look for dogs that are hypoallergenic (such as poodles) and may pay more for the full breed.
