Getting a guy's attention after he's caught your eye is often easier said than done. The easiest thing to do is to present yourself in a way that would catch any man's eye. When the guy who catches your eye looks your way, try to maintain eye contact and slowly try to talk to him.
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Method 1 of 3: Part One: Getting Him To See You
Step 1. Give a little mystery of your fashion style
It's a good idea to choose clothes that highlight your strengths without revealing all of them. Showing your feminine body parts a little can tempt him to imagine further.
- Open clothes are not necessarily sexy. You better focus on the body parts that are your strengths. [Choose clothes that suit your body type]. The shape and material of the clothes must match the natural curves of your body so that attention is drawn to the right places.
- Showing a little skin is also effective, but the key is not to reveal everything so that even the viewer becomes imaginative. Choose an outfit that is slightly revealing and balance it with another that is more closed. For example, wear a blouse with a low cut combined with a knee-length or longer skirt. If you are wearing a blouse with a low back, make sure your chest and legs are not exposed. When you choose a miniskirt, cover your chest with a closed blouse.
Step 2. Wear red
Studies show that compared to other colors, red can make women look more attractive to men.
- Some theories say that red is a naturally arousing color. Several other studies say that the relationship between the color red and sexuality is a behavior that can be learned. What is clear, many studies show that the color red has a positive effect on getting men's attention.
- Like most things, a little is better. Instead of wearing red from head to toe, try adding a bit of red to your look. Wear a red dress with black shoes or red shoes with a black dress, but avoid mixing a red dress with red shoes.
Step 3. Amplify your pheromones with the right scent
A little spray of perfume can make a big impact, especially if you choose the right scent. Scents can arouse interest.
- Some scents smell more sensual than others. These scents include notes of sandalwood, rose, ylang ylang, jasmine, and patchouli.
- Pat or spray a small amount of this fragrance onto your pulse points. These points are located on the wrists, behind the ears, in the crook of the elbows, behind the knees, and on the inside of the ankles.
Step 4. Move in a relaxed manner
Slow, smooth movements can make you look more confident, more feminine and more sensual. When you know he's looking at you, put in extra effort to look a little more graceful.
- Keep your posture and back straight. You will also look confident while subtly showing your chest.
- If you're at a nightclub, party, or similar event, try to dance when you know he can see. Dancing can seem very sensual. You can also show your self-confidence and your personality is not rigid.
- Try not to appear nervous or intimidated, even if you are. You don't have to sit in the same place all the time, but keep your movements calm, relaxed and confident.
Method 2 of 3: Part Two: Making Contact
Step 1. Make eye contact
When your eyes meet his, you have to smile at him. Eye contact lets him know you're interested, but it's a smile that confirms your interest is positive.
- To maximize the effect that already exists, try to glance at it for a long time for several times.
- After doing this glance, look him in the eye directly.
- When he looks back at you, lower your gaze and put on a coy smile.
- Slowly return your gaze to him after a few moments. Then smile.
- Break this eye contact and look the other way for a few minutes. Repeat this process a few times as needed to show your interest in him.
Step 2. Follow the gestures
Imitate his body language. As he sips his drink, you take a sip of yours too. If he tilts his head, tilt your head too.
Your movements can relate to them without having to imitate them. For example, if he wants to buy another drink while your glass is still full, raise your glass as if asking for a toast before you take a sip of your drink. By doing so you are showing that you care
Step 3. Use the power of touch
When a woman is attracted to a man, he usually starts playing with his hair and touching other parts of his body in a similar way. You can use actions like this to indirectly show your interest in a guy.
- Play with your hair. Twist your hair or run your fingers through your hair nonchalantly.
- Caress your neck and shoulders with your fingers.
- Wet or bite your lips, but try not to be too obvious.
Step 4. Challenge him
If the guy you're interested in hasn't taken action yet, try to step back and give him a chance to pursue you. After you've shown your interest outright for a few minutes, stop and act as if your interest is waning. Let a few minutes pass before starting to show interest in him again.
Step 5. Give him a chance to approach you
Don't look busy. If a guy thinks you're waiting for someone or busy with something, he's less likely to look your way.
- In fact, you can actually try to look bored -when you're not looking at him. Try fiddling with a pen or glass. Distract from the phone or the book. Try to look around without focusing too much on anything.
- Some guys may need a little push. Give him a chance to talk to you by positioning yourself closer to him and standing alone. Try walking past them on your way to the restroom or bar. You can even try to bump your shoulder with his and apologize with a blushing smile.
Method 3 of 3: Part Three: Start Talking
Step 1. Compliment him
You can compliment something on his appearance or you can wait until the conversation gets to the point where you can compliment something on his personality. An honest compliment can make him feel good about himself as well as the person who said it.
- Make sure the compliment you give is sincere.
- If you're having a hard time making convincing compliments, you can compliment them indirectly. A great way to do this is to laugh when he makes a joke.
- An even simpler way to compliment a guy is to pay attention to what he has to say. Respond with a reasonable response. Try to mention something he's mentioned before just to show that you think it's interesting enough to remember.
Step 2. Keep the conversation light and short
Avoid topics that feel heavy, boring or depressing. Choose a topic that is light enough, especially one that allows your comments to be brief.
- The first meeting is not a time to share your life story, the bad things from your past relationship, or your deepest fears. This is also not a good time to complain about your work or childhood.
- You can tell about your dream or share something funny, a short story from the past or present. Choose a topic that makes both of you feel good. Limit your story to no more than one minute. If he wanted to know more, he could ask.
- But that doesn't mean you have to try to appear stupid. Instead, try to look as smart as possible. You don't have to be a savvy surgeon, but you can keep his attention on you better if you can balance the conversation instead of pretending you don't understand.
Step 3. Demonstrate "open" body language
Non-verbal communication is as important as verbal communication. Make yourself appear open to him. If he feels you shrink in front of him, he might lose his attention.
- Position yourself facing him directly and try to lean toward him every now and then.
- Keep your hands out of fists and your arms open. Don't cross your arms when you're talking to him.
- Find an excuse to touch it. You can touch his hand accidentally in the middle of a conversation or you can casually touch his shoulder when he says something interesting.
