It's not easy to break the ice and get close to a girl you just met, especially if she's so cute and makes you nervous. What you need is confidence, an interesting topic to talk about, and the desire to show him that he's special. If you keep in mind that the worst case scenario isn't that bad, you'll be able to quickly get that cute girl over for a chat.
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Part 1 of 3: Making an Approach
Step 1. Take care of appearance
If you want to approach a girl you've never spoken to, it's very important to put on the best possible appearance. This doesn't mean you have to look like a bodybuilder or a movie star or someone you're not, but it does mean that you have to look and feel great to radiate the confidence needed to approach a woman. Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable, pay attention to personal hygiene and grooming before you talk to a girl who catches your eye.
- Of course, if you meet an attractive girl and you feel like you're not looking good, talk to her anyway! But if you've been gathering the courage to talk to her for weeks, it's best if you look really good to encourage the confidence needed to talk to her.
- It is very important to shower every day. You don't want the girl to be distracted by your bad body odor and so don't notice the funny and charming things you say to her.
Step 2. Make eye contact
The first thing you should do when you're preparing to break the ice with a girl you're just getting to know is to make eye contact with her for two seconds to let her know you're interested in her. When you've caught his attention, you can turn your gaze or look at the floor below, as long as you've caught his attention. If you're feeling brave, you can also try to give him a small smile to show that you like what you see, and then approach him.
- You can make eye contact and then pause for a few minutes before approaching him, but don't be the guy who waits too long before starting to approach him. It can also cost you opportunities.
- He'll be most impressed if you make eye contact and walk over to him.
Step 3. Introduce yourself confidently
Once you've made eye contact with her, approach the girl with an upright and straight gaze. You don't have to say anything too big to start a conversation. You just have to say, "Hi, I'm Andi, what's your name?" Or, "I'm Andi and I want to meet you." Keep your words simple and no-nonsense.
- When he says his name, you can repeat it or say it's a nice name to show you really care about him.
- You can also say something to start the conversation, like complimenting the jewelry she's wearing, asking her something, or saying something simple and funny.
Step 4. Don't say cheap flirting words
Maybe you think you should use it to attract a girl's attention but you really don't. Don't make her think that you're approaching her for fun and try to make the best impression on her. Don't waste your time online looking for the best way to get a girl's attention and try to focus on being yourself.
- You don't want to make the girl think that you just want to flirt with her. You have to make him believe that you are genuinely interested in him.
- You can start the conversation with an interesting topic, but don't start the conversation with something that's too flattering or too obvious because you don't want to make things awkward.
Step 5. Do not be too obvious you approach him
While you want to let him know you're interested, you don't want him to feel uncomfortable because you're showing this interest too clearly. If you want the girl to continue talking to you, you shouldn't make comments that are too sexual, offend her or make her uncomfortable. Keep the topic light, flirty, and friendly to make him feel that you really care about him.
- As he starts to lighten the mood, try to find out if he's interested in you or not. If he's crossed his arms over his chest, shies away from you, or seems like he's constantly looking for friends or checking his phone, this may not be a good day for you. If you believe he's not interested in you, try to politely back off.
- Both of you will start to tease each other further as the conversation progresses, so you don't have to force this to happen early in the conversation.
Step 6. Be nice to his friends
If the girl is standing with a group of friends or just one or two friends, you should try to be friendly to them too. You don't want the girl to feel like you're good with her because you want to get her. Plus, you don't want him to think you usually don't respect women. So make sure you are nice to his friends and introduce yourself to them while clearly showing that you are attracted to the girl you are dating.
It's important to be nice to his friends so they don't try to stop him from talking to you. But you should try not to sound too flirty with them because the girl you're approaching may feel that you're a flirty guy and not attracted to him
Part 2 of 3: Making Her Feel Special
Step 1. Ask some questions
When you start talking to the girl, you can tease her a little by asking a few questions to show that you want to get to know her while teasing her at the same time. You don't have to ask anything too serious and you have to keep the conversation light so that the conversation is easy and fun. You can ask him about his hobbies, what he likes to do or about his pet cat. The point is to keep the conversation easy and fun and don't make him feel like he's being interrogated. Here are some sample questions you can use:
- “Is blue your favorite color or do you wear blue because it matches your eyes?”
- “Do you like spending evenings with your cat or is there something else you like to do?”
- "Are you a Manchester United fan or do you happen to like wearing red?"
Step 2. Praise him
Another way to flirt with a girl is to give her a nice compliment to show that you really like her. It's best not to compliment her body parts or say anything overly sexual, but it's a good idea to say something nice about her appearance or personality to show that you want to get to know her. Furthermore. Here are some things you can say:
- "Has anyone ever said that your laughter is fun? I've never heard laughter like this before."
- "You're the only girl I know who looks good in neon."
- “You're really good at getting people to chat, aren't you? How come?"
Step 3. Make sure you really listen to it
Maybe you're too nervous to really pay attention to what the girl is saying to you when you first approach her because you're too anxious to think of ways to keep the conversation going. However, if you really want him to like you and show that you're interested in him, you have to make an effort to really listen to what you're saying so he can see that you're not just teasing him. Here's what you should do:
- Make eye contact
- Don't check your phone
- Don't cut her words or give her advice while she's talking
- Don't try to compare his experience with yours when he's telling you something serious
- Repeat something that was mentioned earlier to show that you are really listening.
Step 4. Ask how his day has been so far
Another simple thing you can do is ask how your day was or how busy you've been lately. This strategy can make you two flirt with each other or it can show him that you care about who he is. It can also let you know that you two have more in common than you thought. Here are some easy questions you can ask:
- "You've been at the mall ever since or have you done something else somewhere else?"
- "Any fun plans for tonight?"
- "Do you like it here or not?"
Step 5. Tease him a little
As the two of you start talking more, you can start teasing him a little. As long as you're comfortable and he understands that you're just kidding, this can be a great way to flirt with him and show him that you're genuinely interested. Choose something that is not too serious as material to tease him and make sure he teases you back before teasing him further. Here are some examples of things you can say to tease him a little:
- "You really love your cat, don't you?"
- “You always do your hair up like that or are you trying to look like Demi Lovato today?”
Step 6. Try not to dominate the conversation
It's important to maintain a conversational balance when you're talking to a girl you just met. Even if you're trying to impress and impress her, you shouldn't make her feel like you just want to talk without listening. Make sure you don't talk more than half the conversation and you learn new things from him and ask questions about him. Do not let him feel you are only busy thinking about yourself.
- If you open up and talk about things like your favorite band, make sure you also ask who their favorite band is.
- Remember the key is showing that you are interested, not showing that you are. You want him to know that you are interested in getting to know him, not wanting to show off.
Part 3 of 3: Keeping Her Interested
Step 1. Continue to keep the subject light
If you want to keep flirting with him and keep the conversation moving in an interesting direction, you'll need to avoid topics that are too serious or anything that could spoil the mood, such as a story about the death of a relative, tragic news you read in the newspaper, or traumatic moments in childhood. Keep picking topics that make the girl feel comfortable and encourage her to open up and keep talking to you. Here are some things you can talk about:
- Your pet
- Favorite sports team
- Favorite Hobby
- Favorite movie or actor
- Funny things that happened to you recently
- Your weekend plans
- Places you've been
- Something interesting you just read
Step 2. Try to stay positive
If you want to keep teasing him and keep the conversation going, you should try to be as positive as possible. Don't spoil the mood by complaining or criticizing the things around you. You should make him feel that spending time with you is a positive experience. While you can make negative comments if you really want to, it's best to keep the atmosphere positive.
- If you make a negative comment, you need to balance the atmosphere by making two positive comments.
- Try to focus on talking about the things you love, like your favorite subject at school or your favorite sport, instead of complaining about the things you hate.
- Smile, laugh, and try to look happy and open as much as possible. The he will get a good impact from your positive energy.
Step 3. Ask for his opinion
If you want to keep the conversation going, you can ask him for advice or something less serious. It shows that you care about his opinion and that you take him seriously. People like to give advice because it makes them feel important, so it's a good thing to do. Pick something that you think he's good at and show that you really want to know the answer. Here are some sample questions you can use:
- “You think the new Hunger Games movies are as good as the previous ones?”
- “Should I go to a Drake or Imagine Dragons concert next month? Their concert on the same day."
- “I don't know what gift to buy for my sister this weekend. Do you have any ideas?"
Step 4. Make fun of yourself
Another way to flirt with a girl is not to take yourself too seriously. Try to make fun of yourself without being condescending and show him that he can say anything to your face. You don't want him to feel that you have too big an ego. Try to get him to see that you are confident and don't mind being teased. Here are some comments you can use:
- “I learned to play the guitar to attract girls, and actually I'm only starting to like it now…”
- "Maybe I'm a little too obsessed with my dog, but I love him more than most people I know!"
- "Ha, looks like not all my jokes are funny."
Step 5. Don't be jealous
If there are other guys around you or he mentions other guys, it's best not to make negative comments about him. While you may think this can make you look better, you may actually seem insecure and inferior to other men. If another guy comes along, try to be nice to him instead of being rude or rude. You have to make him see that you are a good man.
Make him see that you are confident enough not to be intimidated by other men
Step 6. Ask him out on a date
If the conversation is going well and you want to see him again, it's a good idea to ask him out before ending the conversation. You can do it casually and not put too much pressure on it by making it sound light. Try waiting for the conversation to reach its climax and tell him that you need to leave so he gets the best impression of you while you're gone before you ask him to see you again. Here are some things you can say:
- "I'd love to continue our conversation about The Strokes, but sadly I have to go. May I have your number so we can continue this conversation over coffee?"
- “I have to go now but I want to see you again so I can give you the book I told you about. May I have your number so we can meet again?"
- “It was a pleasure talking to you and I would like to see you again. May I have your number so you can show that you are the best bowler in town?"
