Wondering if someone likes you because he likes to flirt? This isn't always easy, especially since you need to be careful not to get rejected. To be sure, try to watch his speech, body language, and behavior to pick up on signs that show he likes you. Also, pay attention to whether he wants to spend time with you, especially if it's just the two of you.
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Part 1 of 3: Responding to Nonverbal Cues
Step 1. Pay attention to the look in his eyes
You can tell a lot about another person by looking into their eyes. A person may like you if they look you straight in the eye or make longer-than-usual eye contact. Notice if he is often caught staring at you?
When you look back at him, he'll either smile or look happy that he's been caught
Step 2. Pay attention to his body language
Feelings that want to be covered up can just be revealed through body language. He doesn't seem to like you if he's chatting with his arms crossed and seems to be keeping his distance. However, the chances are greater if he is talking while approaching, not crossing his legs and arms, and standing or sitting opposite each other.
To better understand what it's like to flirt with the opposite sex using body language, read the wikiHow How to Read a Woman's Body Language When Flirting and How to Read a Man's Body Language When Flirting
Step 3. Notice if he leans over or approaches you
If he's trying to get closer and listen carefully when you're talking, this is a good sign. He can hear more clearly and get closer to you if he leans over. It is also possible that he will shift or move a chair closer so that the conversation is more intimate.
People who sit back while chatting or hear you talk are likely to like you less than people who lean in closer to you
Part 2 of 3: Observing His Behavior
Step 1. See if he uses various ways to get a chance to interact with you
It may sound like he accidentally bumped into you while resting at work or at school and had something to talk about when the two of you met. Maybe he likes you if he keeps trying to say hello or chat with you.
See if he's looking for excuses to get close to or spend time with you, such as offering him a ride home or walking you to work or class
Step 2. Observe if he touches you gently
People who like you may touch your hand or arm during a conversation or pat you on the back when they are behind you. Touch is a way of getting closer and showing interest.
Eye contact while touching is a good sign that he likes you, especially if he smiles
Step 3. Notice if he observes small changes
He'll ask if you're new to the salon, put on new shoes, or put on a different make-up. People who like you will notice the little things you do. If he makes comments, take this as a positive signal.
For example, he might say, "Your shirt is cool. New shirt, huh?"
Step 4. Notice if he imitates the way you sit or stand
People who like you may imitate your gestures, posture, or body position as this shows that they feel connected to you and like you. Notice if he tries to imitate your sitting or standing style so that he looks more like you.
Change your body position and see if he does the same
Step 5. See if he seems to be selling expensive
Some people don't want to show their feelings directly by giving ambiguous cues. For example, he may delay replying to your messages to sound like he doesn't like you. Although this attitude is manipulative, some people use it to show interest.
Respond in the way you think is most appropriate. If you can accept a person who is selling high prices, continue interacting with them. If not, don't respond
Part 3 of 3: Looking for Hints When Communicating
Step 1. Notice how quickly he responds
People who like you won't have to wait long to call back or text you back. Usually, he will show interest by responding quickly because you need to be prioritized. He will immediately agree when you ask him to meet.
For example, if you take him out to lunch with him, he doesn't hesitate to agree or doesn't have to think about it again, and even enthusiastically accepts your invitation
Step 2. Notice if he compliments you
Compliments can show that he cares and likes you. Compliments are not always meant to flirt or show interest, but they can be used to express interest in someone.
- Notice if he's giving romantic compliments, for example, "Your eyes are beautiful. I want to stare at them all day long."
- Remember that someone giving you a compliment may not necessarily like you. Look for other clues to be sure.
Step 3. Notice if he offers help or gives attention
Someone who likes you may offer to drive you home or accompany you on a trip to make it safer for you. He may also offer to help teach or give advice if there are things you don't understand. By giving this kind of attention, he wants to show that he is always thinking about you so that you are always safe and successful.
Step 4. See if he ever jokes with you
Someone will make jokes with you as a way of showing that they are interested and want to flirt with their crush, for example by discussing the issue you just talked about and then using it as a joke. Instead of wanting to hurt your feelings or make fun of you, he acts this way because he wants to joke, be funny, and tease.
For example, if you say you're going to be late, but it's too early, he'll talk about it jokingly
Step 5. Ask him if he likes you
If you don't want to continue to harbor curiosity or want to know the truth, ask the person in question or ask the following questions:
- "Are you single or do you have a boyfriend?"
- If you want to be honest, you can say, "I like you. I hope you like me too."
Step 6. Respond if he asks you out
Chances are he likes you if he asks you out. This invitation shows that he wants to get to know you better and be alone with you in a romantic setting. Say "yes" if you like it.
- Take this opportunity to find out if you both like each other and the relationship can continue.
- If he doesn't ask you out on a date, but wants to meet in person, you can still have hope.
Tips
- Tell him honestly if you hope he likes you too and are sure that he feels the same way!
- Tell him personally if you want to ask him to meet. Sending a message might be easier, but it's less personal and feels less meaningful.
