Pay attention to physical cues that he shows, such as eye contact, closeness, and agitation. Also find out if he follows you on social media, and pay attention to how often he texts you. Listen to what he has to say to you and about you. Finally, ask your friends for their opinion and remember that you can always ask them directly about how they feel.
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Method 1 of 3: Observing Body Language
Step 1. Watch for sharp eye contact
If he keeps staring at you, or looking at you, there's a good chance he has feelings for you. Try to notice the difference between a casual stare when chatting with a more intense and passionate gaze. The amount of eye contact he shows is one way to get you interested and paying attention to him.
- When you catch him looking at you, notice if he's pretending to be looking the other way. This can be a clear sign that he likes you.
- Try standing out of sight to see if he will move into a position where he can see you. For example, if the two of you are having a group chat, try standing behind someone so they can't see you clearly. After that, pay attention to whether he moves or changes places so he can see you more clearly.
Step 2. Notice how close it is to you
If he tries to stand by you at a party, or sits next to you during his lunch break, there's a good chance he has a crush on you. This is his way of bringing him closer to you so he can show that he wants and enjoys being around you.
Step 3. Pay attention to his hand gestures
People show their emotions through body language, including hand gestures. Usually, women often play with her hair or touch the shoulder or hand of someone she likes. Meanwhile, men tend to talk more while showing hand gestures when chatting with women they like because they feel happy.
Step 4. Watch for behavior that looks awkward
If he seems to blush when he's around you, laughs uncontrollably for no reason, can't look you in the eye, or gets nervous a lot, you probably have the answer. These things are clear signs shown by someone who is harboring feelings.
Step 5. Watch if he imitates your behavior
One common sign of attraction can be shown through imitation. When someone imitates another person's behavior, he usually doesn't notice it. Pay attention to whether he uses the quirky words or phrases you normally say or talk about things that interest you in order to better connect with you.
Method 2 of 3: Watching for Obvious Signs
Step 1. Notice if he follows you on social media
One of the big signs that someone likes you is that they want to connect with you through social media. This means, he still thinks about you even though he is not with you and wants to learn more about your personal life.
Step 2. Pay attention to short messages that are not deep or too “ordinary”
If he texts you a lot, just to find out what you're doing, or texts you all day, there's a good chance he's thinking about you all the time. Constant communication is a clear sign that he likes you.
Step 3. Watch the little jokes he makes
If someone has feelings for you, he or she may tease or tease you a bit, certainly not to hurt your feelings but to make you smile. This is a fairly common way to seduce someone.
In addition to jokes, pay attention to funny and fun conversations. If he has feelings for you, there's a good chance he'll keep the conversation light and fun so you can laugh
Step 4. Notice if the appearance gets better
It can be difficult for you to know if someone wants to always try to look their best, or if the changes to their appearance are made on purpose for you. If you're friends with him on Facebook, take a look at his photos to get an idea of how he looks when you're not with him. If it seems that he only looks his best when he's with you, you can tell that he's trying to impress you.
Step 5. Pay attention to the special gifts he gives
If he visits a store you like to buy a special gift for you, or gives you a little surprise, it's a sign that he likes you. He wants to make you happy with a simple form of affection and shows he cares for you.
Step 6. Pay attention to the time he has for you
If he's always willing to spend time with you and never misses a chance to meet you, you can be sure that he likes you. Also pay attention to whether he comes to parties you attend or cancels other events so he can spend time with you.
Step 7. Pay attention to the compliments he gives
If someone likes you, be prepared to get compliments from them, even for the little things you do. Someone who likes you will notice changes in you (eg after you get a haircut or buy a new pair of shoes). He will also "wake you up" of the change with praise.
Method 3 of 3: Asking Questions
Step 1. Find out what he talks about you to other friends
If he talks nice things about you to his friends or family, or brings up your name whenever he has the chance, there's a good chance he likes you. This shows that he is always thinking about you and wants to talk about you. If you get a chance, try asking his friends what he talks about when you're not with them. You can ask questions like:
“Is he on a date/dating? I've never heard of the relationship, and I was just curious."
Step 2. Ask your friends what they think about it
Your friends are the most important resource you can turn to because they may have noticed or heard about things you didn't know. Ask if they've ever seen him cast passionate glances at you, or talk about you when you're not with him. Your friends can give honest answers.
- “Do you know who he is having a crush on? Have you ever heard of someone he likes?
- “Did you notice that he behaved differently when he was around me? Do you feel that he treats me as a friend or more?”
Step 3. Be candid and ask her about her feelings directly
One of the best ways to find out how someone is feeling is to muster up the courage and ask them in person. This may be difficult for both you and the other person to do, but it is the only way to know for sure how he feels. There are several questions you can ask him:
- "Hey. I've been thinking about something lately. Do you like you more than just a friend?"
- If you like him too, you can say, “I want to talk to you about something. I like you, and I wonder if you feel the same way about me."
Tips
- Occasionally spend time with him. Try to get to know each other better.
- Don't be rude to him when he's around you.
- If you don't like it that much, keep the feeling. Otherwise, you could hurt his feelings.
