When you want to attract a guy's attention, the important thing is to show your confidence and charm. You want to open up to a guy without seeming to want it too much. It's one thing to attract a guy's attention, but when you start interacting, you can show a personality that can pique a guy's interest and make him want to get to know you better. If he still hasn't asked you out, there are ways to ask him out without appearing too aggressive.
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Part 1 of 3: Getting Guys to Notice You
Step 1. Dress up to make men interested in your physical appearance
Make sure you wear something that catches his eye without being too flashy. Several studies have shown that men are attracted to women who dress in red, and men will watch you from a distance.
- Use your favorite perfume when you're around him. He will think of you when he smells this perfume elsewhere.
- Show your neck and shoulders. This shows a feminine nature and openness.
Step 2. Be approachable
When you're out with your friends, make sure you're not with more than two people, as a guy can feel intimidated and worry that he might sound like a nuisance when trying to talk to you.
- If you notice a guy is watching you, don't be afraid to make eye contact. This will encourage a man to approach you. Look into her eyes for two seconds and make sure you smile.
- Make sure you show a gentle facial expression, not a hard or violent face, especially when he is watching you.
Step 3. Be nonchalant
It's not that you're being rude to a guy, but by focusing on something else, he'll feel more attracted to you. Men usually aren't attracted to women who look desperate or pathetic, and this will prove that you're not one of them.
- Men love a challenge. The thought that you might not be interested in him will make him even more determined to seduce you.
- If you're talking to a lot of people, make sure you share your opinion with them as much or as many comments as you make to a guy.
Step 4. Meet a guy on purpose
Make sure you return to the place where you met him for the first time, for example in a school hallway, a cafe, or at the office. Remember that humans often do things out of habit. If you meet a man in a park in the afternoon, it means that this man often visits the place and maybe you will meet him again in the same park.
Even if he doesn't notice your presence at the first meeting, he will soon realize that you and him are always seeing each other
Step 5. Be natural and be yourself
Men can notice when a woman is showing her true nature and not pretending to be someone else. You have to be brave to show your true nature to men and people around you. Talk about the things you love, and what you're working on to make yourself better.
- Men love women's imperfections, so you have to be able to accept your flaws too. Don't hide your flaws, such as nail-biting or a weakness in math.
- This does not mean that you provide too much information in a short time. The information you provide can be useful in adding a touch of mystery that makes a guy want to get to know you better.
Part 2 of 3: Interacting with a Man
Step 1. Pay attention to your body movements
Show the confidence you have. He will be blown away by the confidence you have. When you interact, display open body language by leaning over, facing a guy, nodding from time to time, and looking him in the eye when he's talking. This shows that you are listening to what he is saying and are interested in what he has to say.
- Make sure to smile at times. This shows that you are someone who is cheerful and positive and fun to hang out with.
- Research shows that if you imitate someone's movements, they will become attracted to you. You can imitate a guy's movements, but you have to do it gently so he doesn't notice.
- If his hand is on the table, place your hand on the table as well.
Step 2. If possible, create a romantic atmosphere
Sunny and warm air will increase the production of endorphins in the body and make you happy. Spending time with a guy in the summer proves that he's enjoying his time with you.
The dark atmosphere in cinemas and restaurants can also create a sense of romance
Step 3. Laugh and put on your happy face
If a guy sees you laughing at something he or someone else says, you're showing that you're a cheerful and fun person. He will be happier if you laugh at a joke he makes.
- This will make a guy feel confident and comfortable around you, which means he will welcome you with positive feelings.
- Men are usually attracted to women whose laughter is like the sound of a musical scale. Don't laugh at a volume that's too loud.
Step 4. Build attraction between you and a guy by being a likable person
Give a light punch to a man's arm or ruffle his hair. Remember not to get too close if you don't know him too well.
- Laugh and make fun of yourself without putting yourself down too much.
- Don't be afraid to try new things because you might feel embarrassed. Show him that you have an adventurous spirit, even if this could mean embarrassing yourself.
- If a guy takes you on a roller coaster but you're afraid of heights, show him that you can fight your fears and be spontaneous.
Step 5. Teach a man a thing
Men are attracted to women who show passion and motivation. He will assume that you are independent, and this will make him more attracted to you. A guy will also like you because of this multidimensional nature and he will want to get to know you better.
If you're a drawing expert, ask a guy to sign up for drawing lessons with you, or you can teach him in person. He will be fascinated by your skills
Step 6. Find an excuse to talk to a guy
Ask questions and get their opinion on one or more things. If you go to school or work together, ask him for help with a project/work. He will feel manly and competent when you ask him for help.
- You will also appear confident because you dare to ask for help when you need it.
- Give your opinion on an issue or topic that you both know about so the conversation can run smoothly. This is an interesting mood breaker.
Part 3 of 3: Asking a Guy on a Date
Step 1. Invite a man to a party
Many men like it when women take them to parties. If he's caught watching you but not moving, you can be a little flirty and ask him to dance. He will admire your confidence and agility.
Try telling him that the song playing is your favorite song to dance to. Maybe he will understand the code you provided
Step 2. Get a guy to spend some time together without looking like a date
Invite him to do daily activities. If you have some things to do or are just watching a movie at home, invite him to accompany you.
- There is no coercion, and maybe he will not realize that it was you who asked him first.
- Call him at the last minute rather than planning the whole activity in detail. This will appear more spontaneous.
Step 3. Invite a man to join the group activity
If you want to get to know him better, take him to a party that your friends are also attending. This doesn't seem overly aggressive and you'll have a chance to get to know him better.
- If he's too shy to take you out on a trip, he may ask you to join a group activity. He will not feel stressed and you can spend time with him in a more relaxed atmosphere.
- He will have the opportunity to watch you interact with other people you are comfortable with, and this is when your personality will shine through.
Step 4. Get a guy to attend an activity that you and he enjoy
Not only does this emphasize what you have in common with him, but it's also a great reason to spend time with him. You will have a lot to talk about because the event you are attending is about something you and he are passionate about.
- If you've ever talked about a band that you and he/she like, buy tickets for the band's concert when they visit your city.
- If you know that he also likes horror movies, invite him to watch them with you.
Step 5. Find out about things he likes and invite him to do activities outside
He will not refuse to take part in doing his favorite activity. Make sure you can chat about topics that he likes. You don't have to pretend to be an expert on the topic, but he will be amazed that you are trying to understand the topic.
- Tell him that you have extra tickets for this weekend's game. Invite him to go with you.
- Tell him that you want to practice in batting cages (indoor arenas to practice hitting baseball or softball) because you hit bad.
- He will be able to relax and be himself when around you.
