Regardless of age, ethnicity, or location, all men look for women with the same qualities, a small part of which is about physical appearance. Read this article to learn how to be more attractive to guys.
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Step 1. Smile
Smiling is by far the most effective way to attract guys' attention. If you don't do anything, make sure to always smile around the guy you have a crush on. Not only do women look very attractive when they smile, because by smiling, you are sending a signal to a man that you are a happy, friendly, and approachable person. A smile also reflects a self-confidence that both men and women find very rare and attractive.
- Get into the habit of smiling when you notice you're frowning. Some people naturally have a tendency to frown when they are focused, so it will take a lot of practice to get used to smiling more.
- Many women see models who look gloomy in photos and try to emulate them. They feel it will make them look mysterious and sexy. Keep in mind that looking gloomy is "fashionable," but it doesn't make you attractive. In fact, many fashion trends tend to look unattractive from a man's point of view.
Step 2. Be confident
Men are generally attracted to women who feel confident inside and out. This doesn't mean you have to constantly brag and act like you're better than everyone else; in fact, being overconfident can make guys “reluctant” to approach you. Therefore, focus your efforts on finding peace within yourself. That means you have to accept everything you can't change about yourself and work to change everything you can.
- Even if you have doubts about yourself, like most people, try not to emphasize your flaws or insecurities around men. Pointing out flaws will only make him focus on your flaws and discover negative qualities about yourself that he wasn't aware of before.
- Don't play with your hair or adjust your clothes when talking to a guy you have a crush on, as these actions show that you're not confident about how you look.
Step 3. Be an open minded person
Men like women who are smart and like to read, and also open to learning and receiving new information. No matter what your age, you should see every new experience as an opportunity to learn something new.
Don't say accusatory, disrespectful, or disrespectful things around you in front of the guy you like. While it's a good thing to have an opinion, you should be careful what you say so as not to offend her
Step 4. Don't be a "coward"
While some women are naturally more shy than others, there is a big difference between being shy and being "cowardly." Shy women don't want to be in the spotlight, but they are still open to new experiences and can have fun. On the other hand, “cowardly” women tend to be more negative, tense, and conservative. Try to relax and have fun. That way, not only will you immediately attract the attention of guys, you'll also feel like your life will go on more easily if you don't take it too seriously.
Step 5. Stay away from drama
Men are attracted to women who are humble and easy to get along with. Don't be overly dramatic or sensitive. Don't say negative things about other people behind their backs, and don't provoke an argument with a guy for no apparent reason.
While some conflict is inevitable in a long-term relationship, try not to be the type of woman who starts the drama wherever she is. It's important to accept that everyone isn't going to please you all the time, and that's okay
Step 6. Take care of your body
Most men care more about a woman's body than her face or hair. While some men like curvy women, while other men like thinner women, the most important thing is that you have to be a healthy and fit woman. Regardless of your weight, it is very important to exercise regularly to get your body in shape.
- If you are overweight and want to lose your weight, make a commitment to being slimmer. Not only will you attract men's attention, by exercising, you can improve your overall quality of life. Exercise can also provide more energy and reduce the tendency to contract disease.
- Make sure to always look neat and well-groomed. You don't have to look great all the time, but it's very important to prioritize personal hygiene. Trim eyebrows, shave and/or wax if necessary, shower daily, and apply deodorant to prevent bad body odor.
- Nothing wrong with looking natural. If it's a choice you make, you should be committed to your choice and feel proud of your body.
Step 7. Wear appropriate clothing
Again, fashion is a topic that divides between men and women. Women usually try to stay up-to-date with the latest fashions in Vogue magazine, while men are more concerned with the types of clothes that make a woman's body look good. When trying to attract a guy's attention, wearing clothes that make you look good is more important than wearing clothes that are "fashionable" or "slang" these days.
Wear clothes that highlight your best assets and hide your worst. This doesn't mean you have to wear revealing clothes. Shirts and dresses with a neck that are too low can make a woman look insecure with what she has and look "cheap"
Step 8. Don't wear heavy makeup
Makeup should be used to enhance your natural beauty, not to create a false impression. The main rule when it comes to men and make-up is this: if he notices your make-up, you're probably wearing too much makeup. Choose neutral colors that match your natural skin tone, and be sure to blend your makeup to avoid layered makeup and uneven colors.
- Remember that even though “men are men”, they still know a few things about makeup. In other words, you can't fool other people by dabbing thick mascara and lipstick on your face. Men can also tell the difference between a natural face and a face with minimal makeup.
- Special occasions such as weddings, birthday parties, or evening walks into town are exceptions to this rule. You can dress up every once in a while, but don't make hiding your natural face from the world a habit that you do all the time. However, don't dress up too much.
