There are many reasons to make your friends jealous. Maybe your friend is always making fun of you, trying to steal your boyfriend or another friend, or making you feel insignificant. If you want to make your friend jealous, you just have to show that you're okay without them, and that you don't have time to care about them. If you want to make your friends jealous, follow these steps.
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Method 1 of 3: Showing off Your Other Relationships
Step 1. Show off your other friendships
The number one way to make your friends jealous is to make them feel insignificant to you. The easiest way to do this is to have as many cool and interesting friends as possible so that you no longer have time for these friends of yours. Here are some ways to give the impression that you're already too busy with your cool friends:
- When you're with your friend, talk about how cool one of your other friends is. Talk about your other friend's fashion and cuteness, and how he or she has been a very good friend to you. Don't do this too bluntly-just try to bring it up once in a while while you're chatting.
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When you meet another friend of yours, act like you're really excited to see him by saying "Hi!", giving him a hug, and having a lively chat. When your old friend comes to you, don't ignore him, just say "Hey" and act as if his presence doesn't really matter to you. Your friend will notice the difference.
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You should always talk about cool things you do with your other friends without asking this friend of yours to come along.
Step 2. Show your love for your partner
One easy way to make your friends jealous is to show them how beautiful your relationship is. If your friend is single and really wants to date, you can talk about how great your boyfriend is, what fun things you've been up to, or your plans for the next weekend.
- When your friend calls, you can act happy and excited when you receive the call. Then you can say, "Oh, sorry, I thought you were my boyfriend."
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If your friend takes you out for a walk, say that you have an appointment with your boyfriend, even if that's not true.
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If your boyfriend gives you a nice gift, feel free to show it off to make your friends jealous.
Step 3. Talk about your plans
Another way to make your friends jealous is to talk about any exciting plans ahead, such as a trip to the beach with your other friends, or a short vacation with your boyfriend. You can even talk about how you can't wait to count the days leading up to your plan, or how you've been preparing for it. Just tell me how excited you are to do all these fun things with someone other than your friend.
- Act like you didn't even think about asking this friend of yours.
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After you've finished talking about your exciting plans, your friend may try to reciprocate with their exciting plans. If this happens, act as if you are not paying attention and are not interested.
Step 4. Spend a lot of time with your phone
If you want to give the impression that you have too many other relationships to spend with your friend, you can use your cell phone to make your friend aware of this. When you're alone, keep yourself busy chatting with other friends on your phone, or just smile at your screen every few minutes. Give the impression that chatting with your friend is not your priority.
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When your friend is trying to get your attention, just say, “Uh-huh,” and give the impression that you're not really listening because you're more engaged in chatting with your other friends, who aren't even there.
- You can even chat on the phone when you're with your friends.
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Also remember that this kind of attitude, while effective, can also be very annoying.
Step 5. Show off your pet
If you have a cute little cat or small dog, your friends will surely be jealous. You can make him even more jealous by showing photos of your pets, uploading them to Facebook, or telling him that you can't live without your beloved pet. This can be especially effective if your friend has always wanted to have a pet.
If your friend is trying to talk about something important, keep changing the subject to something cute or adorable about your pet's behavior
Method 2 of 3: Showing off Your Character
Step 1. Make your friends admire your positive attitude
Even when you're feeling down, you have to be as positive as possible. Laugh a lot, put a big smile on your face, and talk about things that make you happy. This is not only good life advice, but also a great way to make your friends jealous. At the end of the day, the thing we want most in our lives is happiness, and if your friend thinks that it's easy for you to find happiness, he's bound to feel even more jealous.
- Even if you are facing a failure, just say, "Next time I will definitely succeed." Keep being optimistic.
- Talk about your favorite things in school life, sports, or whatever activity you do, so that your friends think you like every aspect of your life.
- Say how excited you are about your future. Talk about things you want to do, like going to a top university, working for a big company, or going surfing in Hawaii. Your friends will be very jealous because you have so many amazing things to look forward to.
Step 2. Never show your weakness
Even if you feel weak or insecure, you shouldn't let your friends see this side of you. You have to stay confident, persevere, and act as if everything is in your control. If you need advice, ask someone else. Don't do or say something that makes your friend think, "He's not that perfect…"
- Even when you are feeling insecure, it will help you if you show the right body language. Stand straight with your arms at your sides and shoulders up straight, then take a firm step forward and look forward, don't look down.
- If your friend points out their weaknesses, you can help them, but never try to cheer them up by pretending to "understand" the problem. You never had a problem, remember?
Step 3. Demonstrate your ability to attract new people
Never appear awkward or uncomfortable when meeting new people. Your friend should see that you've always thought of social interactions as an adventure, and that you're always eager to meet new people and make new friends who are better than your current friends. Give the impression that you have no problem making new friends, even if you're actually nervous.
When you're interacting with new people, ask them their name, ask them questions that make them feel important, and say that you want to hang out with them, so your friends will be jealous
Step 4. Don't overdo it
While flaunting things in your life and talking about your great friends or boyfriend as much as possible can make you sound arrogant, you shouldn't try too hard to make your friends jealous. If you keep talking about how much fun your life is, your friends will think you're just trying to impress them. Just act like you're satisfied with yourself, everything in your life is going well, and you don't care what other people, including your friends, think about you.
- Sometimes, letting your friend realize how lucky you are and how amazing your life is can be more effective than saying it out loud.
- Don't say, "Great, right?" or “Fun, huh?” after you talk about something about your life. Just let your friends see for themselves that it's really great and fun.
Step 5. Get the attention of the opposite sex without trying
Your friend should get the impression that you are not nervous or awkward when interacting with the opposite sex, and that you always display a relaxed attitude that makes people want to approach you. Don't say how nervous you are when you meet a guy or that you're always at a loss for what to say. Just tell me how fun it is to meet a boy or girl you just met. You can also act like you're not interested, like you don't care about all the attention you're getting.
And if your friend starts to attract the attention of the opposite sex? Act like you don't care
Method 3 of 3: Showcase Your Lifestyle
Step 1. Don't make time for your friends
If you want your friends to be jealous, you have to act like you're busy, happy, and focused on developing yourself so you don't have time for this friend. Reply to his messages after hours, don't pick up the phone, and always be excited about something to come. When you go out with your friend, make sure that you don't spend too much time with them because you have something important to do afterward.
Don't get too excited about going out with him when he asks you. If your friend wants to set up an event with you, he or she should invite you a week or two in advance so you can "set your schedule."
Step 2. Show off your stuff
If you want to make your friends jealous, then you have to have nice clothes, the newest iPhone, the perfect hair, and even the coolest stationery. Make sure your friends see your stuff. He could borrow it if he wanted; this will show that your stuff is better than others. You don't have to openly flaunt your stuff in front of his face. Letting him see you use those items is also enough.
Always be better than him. If he has a Blackberry phone, you must have an iPhone; if she wears Maybelline makeup, you have to have MAC or Chanel; if he has an Mp3 player, you must have an iPod Touch
Step 3. Make sure that you always look sexy without trying
Of course looking sexy requires a certain amount of effort, but you have to give the impression that your appearance is one hundred percent natural. Don't let your friends see you're busy doing your hair, confused about what to wear, or having trouble getting your makeup done. You have to perfect your look before you meet your friend so that what she sees is the end result, not your attempt to look that pretty.
- If he compliments your shirt, even if it's brand new, just say, “This old shirt? Thank you." Be very cool.
- Wear nice clothes that support your body shape and personality. Wear brightly colored clothes to show your cheerful nature, and remember to always be positive.
- Be diligent in exercising, because your friends will be jealous if you have a beautiful and fit body. After all, there's no harm in being healthy!
Step 4. Take care of your hair
Who doesn't want to have beautiful and healthy hair? Your friends will surely envy your silky, shiny hair.
- Wash every day. Use a shampoo that can moisturize and make your hair look thick. Use as cold water as possible to rinse your hair as this will prevent your scalp from becoming oily.
- Use hair conditioner. Apply conditioner to the middle to the ends of your hair and leave it on for 5 minutes before rinsing it off.
Step 5. Be a model student without trying
Granted, it's actually very unlikely, but you can give the impression that you're always getting an A's without studying at all. If you get a perfect score, you can pretend to be surprised, or say, "I didn't study at all." The key is to give the impression that you are perfect without working hard; your friends won't be so jealous if you study for 5 hours for an exam.
- If you get good grades, don't brag about how smart you are. Let your friends hear it from other people.
- If you want to be really annoying, you can say that you really want to get an A, while in the end you only get an A -.
- The point is, never mention the word "study". You don't have to study, do you?
Step 6. Talk about your really fun vacation
Who wouldn't be jealous of a fun holiday? If you're lucky enough to be able to go on vacation regularly, make sure you talk about this. You can mention it casually, for example by saying, "I have to pack sooo much stuff to go to Hawaii with my family next week." Say it as if it doesn't matter; this is just what you normally do. If you know that your friend doesn't take frequent vacations, you can casually ask her where she's going on vacation this summer, even though you know she's not going anywhere.
- You can upload some of your vacation photos to Facebook, but don't write a caption that seems overly excited. Just let your friends see how fun your vacation is right through the photos.
- If you're on vacation with your friends, make sure you talk about how fun your outing was, even if your friends weren't invited.
Step 7. Use Facebook to show off
Facebook is the perfect place to stir envy. You shouldn't spend more than 15-30 minutes each day on the Facebook site so you don't appear to care too much about Facebook, but when you do use it, make sure your posts or writings are really good. Upload your cool looking photos and see how many “Likes” you get. Upload photos of you with your friends or your boyfriend when you guys are having fun. Wait until your friends see your status and become very, very jealous.
- Writing about a cool concert or restaurant you just went to can help make your friends feel envious and ignored.
- Ignore your friends' photos or posts, even if your friends often comment on your photos.
Tips
- When he wants to talk to you, just ignore it and talk to your other friends. This will make him feel jealous.
- Make sure you don't divulge your plans to anyone, as they might be able to tell your friends.
- Be careful. These suggestions can hurt your friend instead of just making her feel jealous.
- If he's reminiscing, act like you don't remember.
- Don't be mean to him. You can just ignore it.
- Remember, don't do this if your friend hasn't done anything wrong. Be a good friend.
- Make sure you look good and are constantly chatting with popular kids.
- Talk about the person he likes and how this person actually approached you. Then step back and see how he reacts.
- While he's talking to you, turn around and go say hello to someone else you know.
- Be a popular kid.
- Point out your friend's flaws, but don't let her feel like you're doing it on purpose. This will make him feel insecure and think that you are better than him.
Warning
- Be careful. You have to think before you do anything.
- Trying to make someone jealous can make people dislike or distrust you. You can also get a bad reputation that can cost you when you're trying to make new friends.
- Don't do all of this in one day, or he'll quickly realize what you're trying to do.
- Make sure that your friend cares about you enough to be jealous of you. Otherwise, your efforts will be ineffective.
- Your friend may eventually realize what you did and try to reciprocate with his other friends.
- If people realize what you're up to, you could be hated or made fun of. CAREFUL!
- You could lose your friend, so make sure you don't overdo it if you still want to be friends with him.
- Don't be too outspoken.
- Don't be too condescending. They might reply.
- Make sure first that your friendship is indeed not salvageable.
- In the end, remember that the person you are envious of is your own friend, and that you don't want to completely lose him or her. If you follow this article, you can make him feel jealous, but you can also come across as arrogant and arrogant.