Just because you've found the woman of your dreams, doesn't mean you can stop showing interest and affection by flirting with her! Even if your relationship has lasted a very long time, there is nothing wrong with continuing to try to maintain his interest so that the fire of love in your relationship continues to burn. Show your confidence when you do it! Trust me, your boyfriend will be very happy and appreciate the attention you give him.
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Method 1 of 3: Keeping the Fire of Romance
Step 1. Show your interest in him
Feel free to touch it, look at it deeply, and arouse sexual urges between you. Make your girlfriend feel wanted! You may have been reluctant to do this because you were too embarrassed, unsure, or worried about his reaction. Remember, he is your girlfriend; sign, he is the only woman who is currently intimate with you. If you are really interested in him, why hide it? Let your hormones take control and show your boyfriend that he is the object of your natural instincts.
Step 2. Use your eyes
Look deeply into your boyfriend when he looks beautiful, is doing something, or is a bit away from you. Don't be afraid to be weird! You are attracted to him and so is he; nothing stops you from maintaining a dynamic relationship by constantly giving your loved one deep and loving gazes.
If he questions what you're looking at, just say you're seeing the beauty on his face. Remember, only say it if you really want to
Step 3. Believe in yourself
Don't hesitate to seduce your girlfriend. If he's willing to be your girlfriend, it's a sign that he likes and wants your attention too! In addition, most women view a confident man as very sexy.
Step 4. Touch your girlfriend
Don't be afraid to give your boyfriend a physical touch. Believe me, physical touch is one of the most powerful ways to build attraction and create sex drive. However, make sure you still touch it in a reasonable and polite way. A light but warm touch is enough to show that you're thinking about him; surely, your intimacy with him will gradually strengthen again.
- Hug him by the shoulders when you're watching a movie at the cinema or hug him from behind to surprise him. Run your fingers through the strands of her hair and gently touch her arm when you pass each other in the school hallway.
- Don't be afraid to break through more intimate boundaries if both parties are comfortable doing so. As far as done in reasonable corridors, kissing and/or hugging your boyfriend is the key to intimacy worth trying.
- Hold his hand! This is one of the best methods to thrill your boyfriend, as well as to break down personal boundaries if your relationship with him is still in its infancy. There was no need to find excuses to hold her hand; if you want it, feel free to do it!
Step 5. Give your best smile
Even if you're angry, stressed, or out of focus, show with the sweetest smile that you're aware of him. Believe me, a man's smile is one of the panacea to melt a woman's heart. Don't try too hard! Just think of positive things and show that positivity through a genuine smile.
Method 2 of 3: Be Romantic
Step 1. Respect your boyfriend
Every day, take the time to compliment her on how she looks or the little things she does. Compliment her beauty, praise her voice when she's quietly singing in the seat of your motorbike, or praise her courage when she wants to fight the annoying boss at the office. Don't dwell on simple compliments! Even if the object of your compliment is the same, try saying it in a different way. Remember, you're not doing it just to compliment and please her, but to get used to appreciating your boyfriend's uniqueness, beauty, and everything else.
- Find a unique and genuine way to frame your compliment. Don't just say, "You're beautiful". Instead, say, “Sometimes you can really blow me away. I can't even stop staring at you today."
- Don't just compliment her physical beauty. Show that you also value their personality, creativity, intelligence and character. Try to compliment the qualities that you know are very important to him.
Step 2. Tell him how you feel
A romantic declaration of love doesn't always have to be embellished with rap; most importantly, your statement should be able to make your boyfriend feel safe, warm, and loved. In fact, he may even respond to your declaration of love with a kiss or hug that is no less warm! Remember, it's very important that you always affirm your feelings for your boyfriend, especially if you know he's feeling insecure in your relationship. Tell her that you love her, really like her, or view her as a wonderful woman. Don't hesitate to share the positive things you feel!
Step 3. Write a love message for her
Send a short text like, “Good morning” to wake him up in the morning, stick a piece of paper with loving words on his bathroom window, car window, or school locker door. Send him a letter, visually describe your feelings, or write a sweet poem for him. Tell her that you love her, that she is an amazing woman, or that you are thinking about her. Again, what matters in this method is not “what you write” or “where you write it”, but “your willingness to show concern through the actions you choose”.
If your boyfriend is having a bad day, write up encouraging and motivating words like, "You must have done well on today's exam!" or "I know you can. Do your best and good luck!"
Step 4. Give a romantic and meaningful gift
Buy your boyfriend flowers, a box of chocolates, or a book he's been wanting to buy for a long time. You can also give your handmade gifts, cakes you baked yourself, or something you found by accident. Remember, there's no reason to give a meaningful gift to a loved one.
- Meaningful gifts don't have to be expensive. You can give him a very simple gift, like his favorite snack or drink. It is your sincerity that will make him smile happily.
- Ask her what her favorite flower is. Not all women like flowers also have a favorite type of flower. If your boyfriend loves flowers, you can use this knowledge to surprise him on special days. Want to give something different? Surprise him with a different type of flower than usual and tell him that it reminds you of him.
- Consider giving away something you've made yourself. Give him your song, painting, or origami. Trust me, he'll really appreciate the time you're willing to spend making it.
Method 3 of 3: Making Time for Your Boyfriend
Step 1. Make him laugh
Use your sense of humor to seduce him! It's important to have serious conversations with your boyfriend; but over time, a relationship that is too serious can become barren and obsolete. Once in a while, there's nothing wrong with relaxing and having fun with the people you care about. Don't be afraid to act stupid and be yourself in front of him!
Step 2. Show that you are there for him
Put away your cell phone or laptop when you are nearby. If you're always busy with other things when you're with your boyfriend, he's likely to feel left out. Listen to your boyfriend and show that your attention is completely on him. This is one of the easiest ways to make your boyfriend – or anyone else – feel valued and not ignored.
- Keep that perspective. Don't worry, your phone isn't going anywhere. The person who calls you will always be able to call you back. Want to show a simple but romantic posture? Show that you notice your phone is ringing (or vibrating), turn it off without hesitation, and get it out of your sight immediately.
- If you absolutely must take a call or reply to someone's text, simply explain to your boyfriend, “Sorry, I was busy holding my phone while we were having dinner. I just need to send a short text to my sister so that after that I can give my full attention to you.”
Step 3. Ask your boyfriend out on a date
You can plan ahead, but don't be afraid to be spontaneous! Create new experiences with your boyfriend; Remind your boyfriend that his life is fun and not boring. Remember, a great date doesn't have to be expensive and troublesome. You can just take your girlfriend to watch the latest movie at the cinema or have dinner at a restaurant that you have never been to. If you have an adventurous spirit and unlimited spontaneity, take your girlfriend on a vacation out of town without careful planning beforehand. If you and your boyfriend keep doing the same things (or traveling to the same places), the risk of getting stuck in a boring routine increases. You've already managed to get it, but that doesn't mean you have to stop dating her, right?
- Take your girlfriend on a day trip or a weekend getaway. Do new and exciting things like camping, sunbathing on the beach, or driving to a neighboring town. For a moment, forget the routine patterns you have and observe the positive impact it has on your relationship!
- Do something you've never done before. Don't worry, the world is huge and has billions of unique features waiting to be explored! Choose activities that are both fun and enrich your relationship with your boyfriend.
Step 4. Surprise your girlfriend
Not all women like surprises. But if your boyfriend likes you, planning a surprise date or suddenly picking him up at work can be powerful ways to show him your love. Making him anticipate your next actions can also increase his sex drive and force him to think about you all the time.
Tips
- Seduce your girlfriend even if you are in the middle of a crowd. Don't be afraid to show his friends (and/or your friends) that the fire of love between you is still not extinguished!
- Don't ask for his permission, nor tell him that you're flirting with him. Seducing a boyfriend is a natural attraction reflex once you and your boyfriend have agreed to a romantic relationship. Don't hesitate to show your boyfriend that you like him and care for him!
