You like this man, but don't dare to say it. Maybe your friends or family are worried your friendship will end if things don't go as expected. Maybe you're the traditional type of woman and want her to take the initiative first.
Step
Step 1. Try flirting with her
Gestures are a great way to convey how you feel. If you believe you want more than just friendship, try to have something in common with them. If you have something in common, take advantage of it. There's no doubt that flirting is the key to opening the door to a new relationship. Of course you have to make sure not to overdo it, but you also have to make an effort to get him to understand what you mean.
- When he says something funny, laugh! Make sure you only laugh if the joke is funny to you to let him know who you really are. However, if the joke isn't that funny, at least try to smile. Men love to see you smile. Don't overdo it if you can't control yourself. Always be yourself!
- Tease him from time to time. But don't do it too harshly. You can try grinning and jokingly saying that what he tries will fail. If in fact he often did this well, it was fine to tease him like that. But if he's trying hard and still not getting the results he wants, you shouldn't try this trick.
- Message him or tuck a message in his backpack. Write down small things like "How was your day at school?" or "What are you doing this holiday?" Sending a message like this will make him feel special.
- If you find this trick to be effective, try waving to him. Don't be discouraged if he doesn't wave back. If he smiles at you, you know your stunt worked.
- If that doesn't make him notice you, try to wink at him. Blinking is a universal sign that we like someone. Make sure you only close one eye when you blink, because if you don't, it might just be a blink.
Step 2. Find a way to make physical contact
We all take good care of our personal space, but we are happy to open it up to someone special. Gently touching her in social situations can make her realize that you don't just want to be friends.
- Ask him for help if you're confused about a math problem and touch his shoulder with yours. Try to stay close to him if he doesn't walk away from you.
- Touch his arm or shoulder when you talk to him. Don't grip it firmly, but try to gently touch it or place a few fingers on the point for a moment in a relaxed manner.
- If he's wearing glasses and you notice them dropping slightly, try to slowly and gently walk up to him and push them away. Then take a moment to touch his cheek a little before pulling your hand and smiling. Do it gently! If he smiles, it means he enjoys it. If he pulls away, it means he's not interested or you're doing it too harshly.
- If you get used to playing with him, you'll be able to have more physical contact. Try having him carry you on his back (but not while you're wearing a skirt!) or try to tickle him when he's off guard.
Step 3. Smile, smile and smile
Try to look happy when you look at him, and try to project that happiness as much as possible. Looking happy is attractive, and smiling is a surefire way to show the world that you're happy.
- Don't hide your real smile. Do you remember when you laughed so hard you couldn't smile? You remember that smile that kept on your face after that? Show me that smile! Your confidence can rub off on him.
- You can tell if he's interested if he smiles back at you and tries to keep eye contact with you longer than normal friends do. This means that he feels good about looking at you.
- Try to smile at him as you stroke your hair. This will draw attention to your smile and beautiful hair.
Step 4. Try to be in the same place as him
This isn't easy to do, but it can provide plenty of opportunities for you to talk to her. The more often you are around him, the more likely he is to notice your presence.
- In class, if you are free to choose your seat, try to sit next to him often. Sit next to him at lunch if the opportunity presents itself.
- Follow the school he is attending, unless the school is for boys. Try to find a club that you both like so you can do fun activities together and enjoy yourself.
- If he enjoys playing sports or other similar activities, make time to watch his game or performance. He must be very happy when he scores points while being watched by a cute girl like you.
- Don't be around him too much. You definitely don't want to be seen as stalking him, so don't be around him too much and try to make it seem like you just happen to be in the same place. Plus, make him miss you when you're not around.
Step 5. Try to exchange glances in class
If you are in the same class, try to look at him from your seat and when he looks back at you, try to look away and look embarrassed. This sends him a non-verbal message that you are happy to see him.
- Don't look at him too deeply. You want to let him know that you are interested in him, not obsessed. Try to look at him every now and then and if he doesn't respond, don't think too much about it. Try texting him or talking to him and see if he'll look back at you after that.
- If he looks at you, look him in the eye and smile. Remember, if he catches you staring at him, he's staring at you which probably means he likes you!
- Always maintain good eye contact when talking to him even if he is shy. Show him how beautiful your eyes are and how your eyes sparkle because of him. Maintaining good eye contact shows him that you have your full attention and makes him realize that you are a confident woman.
Step 6. Try to praise
When praising, make sure you do it with sincerity and don't make it sound nutty. The best compliment is when we praise someone's character.
- For example, if he just got his hair cut, you can ask him where he cut it. If you tell him you like his haircut, you're indirectly conveying that you like his style and that you'll keep an eye on him until you notice this new change.
- Try to compliment aspects of his personality. Tell him he's a good friend for not talking about his friends, or compliment him on his sweetness for sharing lunch. By praising more than just his physical appearance, he will also feel important.
- Try to turn this compliment into a longer conversation. If you simply say, "I like your shoes," he probably doesn't know how to react. Find a way to talk about shoes in general, and slowly let him know that you like his shoes more than his friend's unflattering shoes.
Step 7. Give him a gift
' Give him a masculine and meaningful gift. It might feel weird to give a gift, but you can pretend that you're giving it to your best friend.
- Anyway, make sure you don't make it a big deal by saying something like: "I saw this thing yesterday and it reminded me of you."
- Don't buy anything too fancy or expensive. Buy something small enough that he doesn't feel like he has to repay you by buying you something.
- Buy him a candy or a drink he always buys during breaks. Maybe you can buy him a book or a pen, especially if he always forgets to bring it.
- If you don't mind taking him out, buy him tickets to a movie or a sports game. Tell him, "Maybe we can go together."
- Try to find out what his interests are before buying him a gift. It's a good idea to buy him something he really likes, something that can show that you're thinking about him and that you like him for who he is.
Step 8. Contact him regularly
Don't call him every day and talk to him for hours, but don't be afraid to take the next step to get to know him. Calling him is a sign that you are serious about getting to know him better.
- When calling her, find an excuse to talk to her. Try asking him about homework, what time your schoolmate's party is having, or what he knows about the newest cell phones on the market. Try to be creative.
- Try talking about a strange incident at school, or something interesting from his life. Listen carefully and make sure to catch every little detail there is. Use these details to develop the conversation.
- Try to share information and perspectives. This is your chance to get to know him and his chance to get to know you. Guys can enjoy talking on the phone if they find it fun and funny, so make sure you laugh when he's joking and try to sound excited.
- If he's quiet a lot, make sure you ask him lots of questions. Ask him what his parents do, where he spent his childhood, what his dreams are, what his siblings are like, or where he wants to go on vacation. By asking questions like these, the conversation will flow and he will realize that you are interested in him.
- Don't call her too long because she might have to do something else. Always make yourself look a little mysterious. You want him to get to know you better, but you also want him to be curious about you.
Step 9. Tell her friends that you like her
It's risky because her friends may leak the matter or tease her, so you should be careful when choosing who you tell this matter to. What is clear, as time goes by, his friends will tell him and he will know what the situation is like.
- Use this trick as a last resort. If all the steps above don't work, just try to tell a friend. Again, you have no or little control over what his friends will tell him.
- Don't tell them that you want them to tell you. Just find a way to tell the problem to at least one of his friends. Chances are after that you just sit back and see what the game is like.
- If you really believe him, tell your friend to "accidentally" leak your feelings to him. This is not an easy trick so find someone who is really flexible to do it. If he doesn't do it casually, he might feel like you're demanding something from him. You want to make him feel flattered, not cornered.
Step 10. Try to be more daring
You can try to tease him in a subtle way, but this step may not be effective. Sometimes guys need you to make it clear.
- Ask him to walk with him after school is over. If he's unsure, try again and say, "So you can bear it if I walk alone?" If he says he can't, it means he's not interested. If he says he can, try to tease him while walking home together. If he says yes right away, it's obvious he's interested in you.
- If there's a dance, ask him to be your date to the party. If he agrees, try planning what clothes you will wear so that the colors of your clothes match.
- Ask him to carry your heavy backpack for a moment. You don't have to ask him to carry it all day but tell him your back is sore and he looks like he's strong enough to carry it. If he says yes, it's obvious he's attracted to you and is happy that you think he's manly enough.
Tips
- Always try to be friendly. Men want to be with women who make him feel comfortable.
- If you get a feeling that he likes you too, try to talk to him for a bit longer. Try asking him what he likes or what his plans are after school. This will let him know that you like him.
- Accept him for who he is if you really like you. There is an assumption that women can have a relationship with a man because they feel they can change the man but this almost never happens.
- If he looks at you a lot, chances are he likes you. Try to smile back and wink. He will get a sign that you like him.
- Don't overdo it when you're trying to be around him. He might think you're stalking him and turn away from you. Remember that you want to let him know that you like him, not want him to walk away from you!
- If he is very shy, DO NOT ask him if he likes you because he will most likely say no. If this happens, don't be sad! Chances are he likes you! You should try to signal to him that you like him or you should take the initiative to tell him you like him first. This will give him the confidence to convey his feelings to you.
- Make sure he's the right person for you. Don't let you date him and realize you don't really love him.
- Try to be careful. Flirting in a subtle way is more interesting than doing it visibly or looking obsessive. You have to let him know that you have a life outside of a relationship with him.
- Try celebrating his birthday by watching a movie with all your friends and inviting him over. Sitting next to him in the cinema. It's as if you're on a date and this is a very clear sign you can give him.
- Try to be polite no matter what your relationship is like. If he acts like an asshole to you, you don't have to continue to be friends with him. But try to be respectful even if he doesn't do the same.
- Try asking him "I think I like you, don't you like me?" after something good happened to him. If he just got a good grade and is feeling good, he's likely to say yes, but don't take it too seriously. Try to say it in between casual conversations.
- Never let a man make you feel inferior to him. If he treats you badly, he definitely doesn't deserve your attention.
Warning
- Don't be fake. Be yourself and don't change your personality when you start dating him. He likes you for who you are, not the person you created in front of him. If he wants you to change, forget about him. No man is so valuable that it deserves to make you change your personality. People should accept you for who you are, not for the "figure" you created because he or she expected him to be.
- Try not to make bad comments about him or what he does. The he can misperceive and become insecure. He may even dislike you for it.
- If you're going to use these steps, don't give the impression you're hard to get. This will make him very confused and he becomes even more unsure. In fact, don't play hard to get from the start. The kind of guy who likes hard-to-find girls isn't usually the kind of guy you want to be with. He doesn't like you, but just likes a challenge.
- Some guys don't like it when someone winks at him or gets called "the one" because it makes him feel awkward. If it makes him feel weird, try to act like it never happened and remember not to do it again.
- Don't stalk her, ask for her number from other people, or write her an anonymous message. These things can frighten him.
- Be careful when flirting with someone you think is shy. Grabbing a man's hand when he least expected it could frighten him.
