While kissing at the movies isn't the most romantic thing in the world, if you're a middle school student, sometimes the cinema can be your best chance to steal a kiss. But, if you want to kiss a girl while a movie is going on, you have to do it right. If you want to know how to kiss a girl at the movies without looking too much, check out Step 1 to get started.
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Part 1 of 2: Preparing for the Situation
Step 1. Make sure you're both ready
Although many people kiss for the first time in middle school, there are also those who are not ready to kiss at an early age. If you're in middle school, you have to make sure you're ready and that the girl is ready to be kissed. If you're new to dating and he's signaling that he wants to kiss you or respond favorably to your attention, then you're on the right track, but you need to be as sure as you can before you start.
Ideally, you should kiss the girl before the movie starts so the kiss doesn't feel awkward. Kissing a girl in a dark place can be quite difficult to do
Step 2. Choose the right film
You have to choose the appropriate film for kissing. Choose a romantic movie or a heartwarming movie, so he won't feel weird kissing you in the middle of the movie. Just make sure you don't pick a movie that he really wants to see or is too exciting to be bothered by a kiss. You should also try to choose movies that you don't watch too much; choose a movie that's been in theaters for at least a month, so theaters won't be overcrowded. If you are surrounded by family or other children, it will be more difficult to initiate kissing.
Let your crush choose a movie to make her feel special. Ask him if there's a movie he'd like to see. However, if he says “whatever”, you can choose him
Step 3. Make sure you look presentable
Take a shower before a date. Brush your teeth well. Use deodorant and wear fashionable clothes. You can also bring mint candy. You don't have to dress neatly, but let him see that you've made an effort to look presentable. If you dress as you normally would, he won't feel special.
Step 4. Don't buy too many snacks
While you can buy popcorn or chocolate if you both want, make sure that you don't have a hard time trying to kiss them. You'll feel uncomfortable kissing a girl if your fingers are covered in chocolate or popcorn. If he wants popcorn, you should definitely order it so he doesn't seem stingy, but if he says "whatever," you don't have to buy a snack and focus on the main attraction.
Step 5. Find a quiet seat
Even though the cinema is a public place, you should try to find a place to sit that is not surrounded by many people. While it can be difficult to find privacy in the cinema, you should try your best to stay away from noisy groups. Try sitting on the edge near the cinema wall so you don't disturb other people when you try to kiss the girl you love.
Don't be too obvious about your purpose in choosing a seat. If he asks why you're being picky, just say that you like sitting on the sidelines
Part 2 of 2: Get Into Action
Step 1. Hug your crush girl
Relax and be confident. You don't have to do clichés like pretend to yawn and put your arm around his shoulder. Relax. You can be confident by putting your arm in the girl's chair before she sits down, or do it when the movie starts. Don't assume too much and make the girl uncomfortable by trying too fast. Watch his attitude. If he responds well to your touch and attention, and you've hugged him before, hugging him at the movies shouldn't be a problem.
You can even ask if he's cold; chances are he will feel cold because the cinema is always cold. This could be a reason for you to hug him
Step 2. Bring your body closer to him
When the movie starts, you have to get closer to it. Take it slow when the timing is right, or when a scary or romantic scene is taking place. After you hug him, bring your body close so that your heads are almost touching. You can caress his arm with your arm around him, or you can put your hand on his knee. Find ways to make him feel comfortable and close to you.
This is where snacks can become a problem. Make sure you don't accidentally spill your drink or other snack. If he really wants a snack, you should wait until he has eaten all of his treats so he will feel comfortable when you approach him
Step 3. Look for signs that he wants to kiss you
If he keeps looking at your lips, he may want to kiss you. If he seems a little nervous but responds well to your touch, he may also want to kiss you. If he keeps moving away when you try to get close to him, he may not be ready to kiss yet. Remember that you are still in middle school, and many girls have never been kissed and would feel uncomfortable doing it at such a young age. Don't push her too hard because she will feel uncomfortable.
If he turns to you for a little comment or when he wants to laugh, it's a sign that he wants your faces close together
Step 4. Start trying to kiss her
When the time is right, kiss your idol girl. You can make eye contact, touch his cheek, then turn his face towards you and bring your face closer until your lips are together. The lips should be interlocked, but not too tight. You can kiss him for a second or two before ending. Most middle school girls aren't ready for a “Frech kiss”, so don't use your tongue unless you're absolutely sure the girl is ready to. Otherwise, both of you will have an unpleasant "surprise". After a few seconds, you can try kissing him again, or enjoy the movie until you get another chance to kiss him.
Even after you walk away, continue to be friendly with him. Keep your arms wrapped around his shoulders or stroking his knees so he feels like you're really paying attention
Step 5. Close the date in a good way
After the movie is over, squeeze her hand and let her know that you are happy and can't wait to see her again. Make sure the girl knows that you prefer to hang out with her and not just because of the kiss. Even though at your age kissing is still something new and fun to try, getting to know the girl you love more is just as much fun. If you kiss him well without being pushy, it won't be long before you can buy a movie ticket and kiss him again.
Tips
- Don't say "I love you" just because you want to kiss him. The speech will seem less special and he will be able to catch your wits. Say when you mean what you say. Don't be too hasty. You are still in middle school.
- Make sure this action has been approved by your parents and their parents. You are young and your parents probably have rules about kissing.
