All men are different, but men under the Cancer sign usually have traits and fall in love in the same way. Be the type of woman a Cancer man dreams of if you want him to fall in love with you. Pay attention and understand the sensitive side.
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Part 1 of 3: Improving Yourself
Step 1. Have a stable life
Cancer men usually have an established life, and more or less he expects the same from you. Your achievements don't have to be exactly the same, but your life should show some degree of stability.
Show that you can take care of yourself without him. You must have direction in life and be able to meet basic needs
Step 2. Resist the urge to depend on him materially
While most Cancer men are able to support a woman materially, it's best to avoid this situation. If he has reason to suspect that you are after his money, chances are he will distance himself emotionally.
- Each date, you have to pay in turn or occasionally a joint venture, unless he offers to pay.
- Don't ask him to buy gifts or anything. If he really enjoys pampering you with material gifts, you should also give him lots of gifts. Your gift doesn't have to be expensive, but it should show just as much affection.
Step 3. Defend your opinion
You may worry that the notoriously sensitive Cancer guy will get angry if you argue with him, but a healthy argument can actually increase the appreciation he has for you.
The key is to make sure your argument is fair and sound. Don't get angry, attack their weaknesses, or make unfair accusations. When it comes to making up, don't hold back
Step 4. Pay attention to appearance
In general, Cancer men sometimes value outward appearances. You don't have to be a beauty queen, but an occasional makeover for her will go a long way.
- You don't need to go to extremes, but in general pay attention to personal hygiene, wear minimal makeup, and choose clothes that suit you.
- Body odor can also be a weapon. Look for perfumes, body washes, or shampoos that are floral and feminine. Make the scent a signature and lead him to associate the scent with you.
Step 5. Show graceful manners
Since Cancer men are sensitive creatures, they can appreciate inner beauty as much as outer beauty. Try to be calm and graceful.
An occasional loss of self-control is normal and not a problem, but it should be the exception and not your everyday behavior
Part 2 of 3: Making Relationships on an Emotional Level
Step 1. Show empathy
You have to be good at judging his moods and emotions. Cancer men are one of several men from other zodiacs who tend to be emotional and sensitive. If you master the ability to interpret his moods and act accordingly, you will be able to find your way to his heart in no time.
- When he's feeling down, ask him what's wrong. If he's in doubt, let him open up on his own, but say that you're willing and ready to listen.
- When he seems unhappy, make him laugh. Cancer men usually like to laugh so a woman who can keep him smiling will seem very attractive.
Step 2. Lean on him for emotional support
Let go of your defenses and let him see your weak side. Most Cancer men are very capable of supporting women emotionally and really appreciate the opportunity to do so.
Tell me your secret. Call him when you're having a bad day. He craves sympathy from the people he cares about, and is eager to reciprocate it
Step 3. Appreciate the side of him who is very caring
You must appreciate his concern for you, and you must also accept and encourage him to take care of others. While most Cancer men are loyal, there are times when he prioritizes helping others over spending time with you.
Don't be surprised if he immediately goes to the side of a friend who is sick or offers to help a neighbor with a difficult job even if it means canceling the date with you. The call of duty sometimes takes over at the worst of times, and you have to learn to tolerate that
Step 4. Refine your words
Healthy arguments are helpful, but not with angry words or cruel insults. If you attack his weakness with words, he may build a barrier between you and his heart.
He may be more sensitive to criticism than most people so disparaging comments will only make him withdraw. You can give constructive criticism or concern if necessary, but avoid criticism that does nothing but insult
Step 5. Give something to show concern
When a Cancer man can sense how much you love him, he's more likely to love you back too. Do something fun for no particular reason. Small kindness at the right time can make a big difference.
- When you say "I love you," say it earnestly, passionately, and sincerely. Don't say love without any charge.
- Gifts that remind him of your relationship can be very effective. Consider giving him a photo album, a love poem, and a trip to a significant place, such as the first place you met.
- Gestures that convey attention are also good. So, try cooking something up or giving yourself a crochet scarf.
Step 6. Don't try to make him jealous
It may be tempting to make a Cancer man jealous by flirting with other men, but that will only hurt you. Most Cancer men tend to have a possessive side so they get jealous quickly and can't control their emotions well.
Step 7. Resolve emotional problems as soon as possible
Whoever is feeling sick-you or him-sat down and straighten out the emotional issue as quickly as possible. The negative feelings in his heart may not go away on their own, and he may expect your negative feelings to remain until the problem is resolved.
- When he's hurt, he may pull away from you until you sincerely apologize.
- On the other hand, if you're the one pulling away, he's going to stick around and demand. The only way to calm him down is to open his heart again and make amends.
Step 8. Look for signs of affection
Since the Cancer guy tends to be sentimental, you'll probably know when he's in love with you before he says he loves you. Notice the change in his demeanor. If he treats you with more affection, his heart may already be yours.
- Increased affection and attention is a good sign. If he hugs you a lot, asks how your day was, and senses your mood, he's probably already in love.
- Similarly, if he withdraws or gets hurt when you make him angry, it may mean he's emotionally attached to you.
Part 3 of 3: Caring for and Taking Care of It
Step 1. Give him time
Cancer men usually know very well that he is sensitive. So, he knew he would get hurt if he got involved with the wrong people. It may take him some time to open up to you, but if you are consistent enough with your affection, his defenses will eventually break down.
His need for emotional security is so strong that he needs to feel your emotions before allowing himself to feel the same way. Once he's sure of your feelings, he's more likely to be open and honest with his own feelings
Step 2. Talk about family
If he is a typical Cancer man, then he is a family-oriented man. Talk about your family and encourage him to talk about his family too. If he feels the same respect you have for his family, his feelings may blossom.
- His view of family may be broader than yours, and may involve aunts, uncles, cousins, and distant relatives.
- Some Cancer men may put their family first and pamper them more than they should. However, if he can fit into your family, he will love them as much as his own family.
Step 3. Create a comfortable atmosphere
Because of his love for family, the Cancer man thrives in a warm and comfortable environment. The comfortable atmosphere pampers his soul and opens his heart. Creating the same atmosphere can encourage him to open his heart to you.
Welcome him into your home and show an interest in being part of his family. Spend time with him at home and enjoy lots of alone time together
Step 4. Enjoy time in the great outdoors
One interest that most Cancer men share is an appreciation for nature. Whether you're with him day or night, consider going somewhere where you can both appreciate the beautiful nature. Taking him to a place he will like shows how much you care.
- Camping on the weekends would probably mean more to him than visiting the big city.
- Parks and other locations with great views are great options for a quick date.
Step 5. Plan for the future
Don't be afraid to talk about the future with him. Cancer men achieve success because they are able to think ahead so they usually admire women who also think the same.
- Talk about your dreams and goals.
- Since most Cancer men have no problem with commitment, discussions about the future are usually safe too.
Step 6. Make a full commitment
When a Cancer man gives his heart, he will love with all his heart. You should be prepared to do the same. Before you make him fall in love, make sure that you too can fall and still love him.
Step 7. Watch him as an individual
Remember that every man is different, and the ideas presented here are only a guide.
