Sometimes being completely original is difficult and almost impossible because almost everything in this world has been done by someone else. But remember, you are a unique person, and that can be a starting point. The desire to be original is a phenomenon that has just emerged in this modern era. This guide will try to guide you to be original. But remember, this is just a guide, and you can still do your own exploration outside of this guide.
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Part 1 of 3: Be Original
Step 1. Recognize your own uniqueness
You as an individual have actually been original since birth. Even though in this world there will be people who look like you, wear the same clothes, read the same books, have the same point of view, and so on, there will be no one in this world who is exactly like you.
- Do things because you want to do them, not because you want to be seen as different. Some people in modern times sometimes make this mistake, doing something not because of their own desires, but just because they want to be considered original. There's nothing wrong with that kind of effort and wanting to be unique and stand out, but doing something with enthusiasm will make you stand out more than forcing yourself to do something you might not like.
- True originality in reality never existed. Everyone has done what you are doing or seeing, be it style, music, writing, and so on. But that's not wrong. Look for things that interest you and deepen those interests until you can build your identity.
Step 2. Look for things that interest you
Having enthusiasm for some of the things you love is more important than being unique, and this interest and enthusiasm will ultimately show how original you are.
- Don't let others undermine your interests and interests. Your interests are unique things that make you more attractive than ordinary people. Granted, not everyone has the same interests, but that's okay. Recognize and respect other people's interests and interests, even if you don't really understand them.
- Try exploring new music alongside well-known names and songs. You're likely to find a band you're unlikely to like and have a fairly significant fan community. Bands or singers that most people don't know also give you something to talk about when chatting with other people.
- The same goes for books and other artists. In this world there are many creators who are actually good but not very famous. Supporting and developing an interest in these kinds of things will make you seen as a unique person.
- Don't hide your interest. If you like dolls, show them openly. If you like horse riding, comics, football, writing, or whatever, don't be shy about showing it. But in addition to showing your interest, listen to other people's interests to find out what you might not know (and may be interested in too).
Step 3. Believe in yourself
Confidence is certainly the most attractive trait a person has and can help you when you are doing something out of the ordinary. People will sometimes react unusually when you do something out of the ordinary, and confidence is what you need to keep doing that and ignore what other people think.
- Being confident in what you do means not comparing yourself to others. What you do, who you are, and what you make is a form of your contribution to the world. Others may have opinions for or against you for various reasons. But anyway, keep doing what really reflects who you are.
- If other people laugh at your interests, ignore them as much as possible. Other people's words sometimes hurt. But usually the reason they laugh at you is because you're doing something they don't think is normal. If someone you know laughs at you, explain that you feel hurt by being laughed at and ask them to stop. If he still doesn't understand and laughs at you, maybe you should find someone else.
Part 2 of 3: Finding Originality
Step 1. Try something new
Look for new experiences that can introduce new perspectives and ideas, and change or shape you as an individual. You may not like some of the experiences you get, but all the experiences you get are a process of figuring out your interests and who you are.
- Take an art course you've never tried, or learn a new language. There are lots of new things out there that you can learn, and you can learn them in a variety of ways, from hands-on practice by taking courses or just reading on the internet.
- As mentioned earlier, the internet is one of the sources for all new knowledge and information.
- Learn new things that you find useful, such as cooking. In addition to giving you new experiences and knowledge, you will also use some of the skills you use in your daily life.
- No matter how small the benefits you get from your experience, at least you get an interesting or funny story that you can tell others and make you more unique.
Step 2. Use original clothes that you really like
Even fashion designers who have to constantly create quality new and original models often use old fashions and ideas as a foundation for creating new things. Find out what you like to wear, what kind of clothes make you feel comfortable. Look for references on fashion blogs or people around you, find fashion ideas that you think are suitable, then try them.
- If you shop in an unusual place, you're more likely to find clothes that people rarely wear. Head to a thrift store, vintage clothing store, flea market, or bazaar held in your neighborhood.
- If you like the clothes someone else is wearing, ask the person wearing it.
- You can also create or modify existing outfits to make them more unique. But remember you must have the necessary skills to make the clothes you make or modify look good.
Step 3. Experiment with new styles
Change your look many times to find out which one really suits you. Experiment with the clothes, hair, make-up, and accessories you use.
- Color or cut your hair. Dye it blue or cut it short, or try bangs, or braids, or whatever you think might work while keeping it in good condition. Your hair will grow back, so you shouldn't worry too much if you're trying to do an experiment.
- Try decorating your nails. Decorate your nails with unique nail polish or pictures and try different colors that you find suitable.
- Try different styles of make-up, or use no make-up at all. Experimenting with make-up will make you feel more confident and happy. Not using make-up can also make you confident in showing your true face.
- Try different accessories and knick-knacks. Maybe you prefer to carry a handbag, or maybe you carry a backpack because you want to carry all the things you think are important. Try all the possible styles and see which one looks the best and fits best.
Part 3 of 3: Creating Original Works
Step 1. Observe what you like about other people's work
Original works of art, fashion, or opinions do not just appear and must have ideas and backgrounds that shape them.
- If you intend to write a book, read the work of a variety of authors and find out what styles work and what doesn't suit your writing style. You can also use all the knowledge you have gained and use it as a reference to create something new.
- Don't be afraid to start by imitating others. Most artists begin their first work by imitating an artist they admire. With experience and practice, you will come up with new ideas and styles, and from there begin to develop your own.
- Salvador Dali, a famous Spanish painter, is considered a truly original artist. In fact, many of his skills and ideas came from his predecessors. But, from there he built his own imagination and point of view.
Step 2. Develop your own style
Don't stop practicing. Your original style will emerge and change over time. Keep reviewing your work and yourself. What can you improve on, and what is already satisfying?
- Ask for help from people you trust, especially those who know artists you admire. They will tell you which parts of you or your work are original and which parts are too imitative of works or artists you admire.
- Make something out of experience. This doesn't mean you have to tell everything that you feel you don't need to say. Find a story or life experience that is unique and not shared by most people. Work from that experience to create a piece that is truly unique to you.
Step 3. Think critically
Take a look at your work, and see what's good and what's not good about your work. Also compare your work with others and do the same. No matter how skilled you are in your work, your work will always have gaps and shortcomings that can be improved upon.
- Don't just accept other people's opinions without analyzing and seeing from various points of view. The same is true when you make an opinion. Being original means not just doing or thinking about what other people say.
- Respect others. Even if you disagree or question the other person, be polite. Listen and analyze their opinions deeply to understand them, even if you don't have to agree with them.
Tips
- Don't force yourself to do something different just because you want attention. Do what you really like.
- Don't worry too much and think about trying to be original. Just do what you love, and from there people will think you're original.
Warning
- When you make permanent changes to your appearance (plastic surgery or tattoos, for example), make sure that it's a change that you really want.
- Be yourself. If you really don't like rock concerts, or you just can't stand being in a crowd, don't go to a rock concert just because you want to try something new. Find something else you can do.
