Are you the type of person who prefers to show, rather than express, affection to your partner? If yes, then this article can help you! Love will be more easily felt by your partner when your care and sensitivity is not only heard, but also experienced.
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Step 1. Be confident around him
Most men like women who are able to lighten the mood and are good at carrying themselves in any situation. Your confident attitude will remind him (and everyone else around him) how lucky a man to be with you is. But remember, never pretend. If you're a shy person by nature, there's no need to force yourself to be friendly and open with everyone. Take it easy, self-confidence will usually radiate by itself if you believe he is the right partner for you.
Step 2. Be a woman you can count on
Men like women who are always there for them in any situation. You and your partner have different goals in life. If in the process of achieving your partner looks indecisive, confused, or doubtful, stay by his side and never leave him. Don't ignore his emotional needs and make sure that one day, all of his goals (or even those with you) will come true.
Step 3. Hug your partner and bury yourself in their warmth
Every chance you get, try to show your love for your partner. Take it easy. If he really loves you, he will never feel bored or uncomfortable with your attention. The good news is that he will most likely do the same to you!
Step 4. Take care of yourself inside and out and keep your body clean
Show him that you can take care of yourself and understand the slogan "Cleanliness is the Base of Beauty". He may or may not compliment you. But believe me, he will definitely appreciate your efforts.
Be an understanding partner. Understand the difference between "motivating" and "criticizing". If your partner always tries to be honest in everything, it's a sign that he wants the best for you. Therefore, if he suggests you improve on something, absorb and think carefully about his words. Don't react immediately offensively and yell at him, although it's natural to react if someone feels uncomfortable and attacked
Step 5. Tell us about your problem:
If there is a personal issue that is really bothering you (and may have an impact on your relationship with your partner), don't hesitate to share it with your partner. He'll probably just listen to you or give you advice that you don't find very useful (though trust me, he's probably trying to come up with the best possible solution). If the problem has been resolved, never bring it up again in the future if you don't want your relationship to feel boring.
Step 6. Get in the habit of talking about everything with your partner, regardless of whether it's important or not
In addition to getting to know your partner better (and vice versa), you also have the opportunity to get to know yourself better. Humans tend to be too busy thinking about what to do so they are reluctant to take the time to understand themselves. Chatting with your partner is the easiest and least boring way to open up to each other and create beautiful memories that can be cherished in the future.
Step 7. Try discussing serious matters with your partner
If your partner is the thinker type, you will look more attractive in his eyes because you don't just like to talk about superficial topics. Communicate everything honestly and openly.
Be a strong and sporty woman. If you feel the need to apologize, do so. Don't be shy about apologizing if you know you've hurt him. Say whatever is on your mind, don't get into the habit of harboring doubts or discomfort
Step 8. Trust your partner if he or she deserves to be trusted
Be honest with her (as well as with yourself). Never lie to your partner or keep secrets from them. Did you know that half-hearted honesty is also a form of lying?
Discuss any doubts and uncertain feelings you have. If any of his words or actions hurt you, tell him right away. He's likely aware of your discomfort, but is reluctant to talk about it first because he doesn't want to hurt you more. The habit of harboring feelings or discomfort will only worsen your relationship with your partner. Once the problem is resolved, you may find that you have nothing to apologize for. Especially when you realize that your love for him is much bigger than the little pebble you just managed to get rid of
Step 9. Support your partner in any circumstances
Bad days come unexpectedly, and sometimes you can learn a person's true nature when they are at their worst. Try to always be by his side whenever he needs you.
Step 10. Establish a relationship with his family
They are the people who know your partner best, love them, and want the best for their life. Love your girlfriend and her family too! Haven't had a chance to meet them yet? No need to worry and assume at length about their reaction when they see you. Believe me, good men are born from good families. Listen to whatever he has to say about his family and act accordingly. Every family has its own story. Understand and accept it as a part of your life. Your partner will appreciate you more if you are willing to accept him and his family, no matter what they are. If there is a conflict, your partner will also be willing to stand on the front lines to protect you.
Step 11. Don't make him doubt your commitment
Don't do or say things that make him feel that you are more worthy of being with the other person than with him.
Step 12. Hang out with his friends
They may also become your friends in the future. Show that you can blend in and will not 'take' your partner from his friends. Avoid thoughts like, “Si Ari looks better than Dion” or “I don't think Dion likes me”. Such thoughts will only take up your time and energy. Don't tease or seduce his friends or ignore your partner when you're together. In addition to risking damaging their friendship, doing so also risks damaging your partner's trust in you. It's okay to be friendly and cheerful, but do it naturally.
Do not force yourself to be accepted in society. Be yourself and act accordingly. There is no need to change yourself just to look more attractive in their eyes. Do simple things like say happy birthday or cook something to eat together. Also, don't hesitate to tell them if any of their actions make you feel uncomfortable
Step 13. Tell and show your partner how much you love him and that he is the only one in your heart
Do not praise others too often in front of your partner. He might pick up the wrong signal and think you're interested in the person. Of course there's nothing wrong with liking someone. But if you have decided to commit to your partner, stick to that commitment.
Step 14. Love comes with obligation
If you feel you have done something that is detrimental to your relationship with your partner (or if your partner did it), discuss it carefully and find a solution together. If your partner seems reluctant to listen, give him space and time to think. Return to each other's arms after you and your partner have finished self-introspection.
Step 15. When parting ways with him, make sure you kiss him (or hug him, whichever makes you comfortable)
Avoid being spoiled and cannot be separated from your partner. Apart from being unsightly, such an attitude can also irritate your partner.
Step 16. Give or make something to remind him of you
Step 17. If your partner needs your help, ask him or her to come to you and talk to you in person
Everyone needs a crutch. If he calls you when he's having a problem, help him as much as you can. Maybe he feels or knows that you can help him deal with the problem. But if you can't help him, convey your sincere regret and sorry. Show that even if you can't help him, you will accompany him through the problem. At least, he will not feel alone which can lead to depression. Stay by his side in difficult times. Always support your partner and never leave him when he is down. Be his stronghold even if you feel unable to do so.
Step 18. Instead of buying at the store, try making something to show your love for your partner
Although it takes more time and effort, this is an effective way to show your sincerity to him. Do you like cooking? Try once in a while to cook something for your partner. If you want to make something that can last a long time, try crocheting a scarf or sweater for her. Can't cook or knit? Do not worry. An act as simple as cleaning his desk will warm his heart.
Step 19. Value your partner the way you want to be respected
Don't do anything that can hurt him or her physically.
Step 20. Appreciate the self-maturation phase in your relationship with your partner
In this phase, usually you and your partner really trust each other; no more doubts, no more insignificant petty squabbles. Appreciate these times. Forget the bad things and various difficulties that have happened in the past. Focus on building a better future with your partner.
Step 21. Take time for yourself
Set aside some time to do your hobbies and pursue your dreams. Don't sacrifice all your time for your partner. Show your partner that you are an independent person who is able to respect himself.
Tips
- Try to be there whenever needed. No matter how simple the reason, he will respect your decision to stay by his side.
- Tell people things you can't tell other people. Show that you trust him.
- Laugh a lot when around your partner. Remember, do it sincerely and don't pretend.
- Don't give something you're not ready to give; if your partner really loves you, he will not push and wait until you are ready to give it.
- Don't talk about something that doesn't seem to interest him.
- Don't be afraid to meet her without makeup. If you really love her, the joy you feel when you see her will radiate natural beauty.
- Spend as much time as possible with your partner. Make your partner aware that you are serious about this relationship. If you're really busy, don't be afraid to talk about it. Your relationship won't end just because of that. If it turns out that your relationship really ended after you told him about it, he may not be the right person for you.
- Don't be too careless, but don't worry too much either. You might be seen as distrusting your partner if you worry too much.
- Always ask how his family is and establish a good relationship with his parents.
- Send messages containing sweet and affectionate greetings to your partner, do it as often as possible. Be honest with your partner.
Warning
- Never forget how important he is in your life.
- Never cheat.
- Do not be selfish.
- Don't ignore or disrespect your partner's affection.
- Don't let lust control you when you're with him.
- Don't give yourself completely to someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings.
- Your relationship with your partner is a reciprocal relationship that (should) have a positive impact on both parties. Be careful, there are people who try to approach you just to get what they want.
- Maintaining a good relationship with your partner is important, but taking care of your own health and happiness is even more important. Don't put it second.
- You want to strive to build a better relationship with your partner? Go ahead. But remember, there is no need to desperately strive to achieve perfection. You and your partner are human beings who are full of limitations. Don't expect perfection if you don't want to get hurt.
- Don't make him think that your life won't be happy without him.
