Living the perfect life is the dream of almost all young women. There are those who crave perfection in terms of personality, while others seek perfection in terms of appearance. Unfortunately, it's impossible for humans to achieve perfection, but you can use various tips to perfect yourself to the fullest! As you progress to becoming a perfect person, remember that everyone is unique and is free to choose how to care for themselves to maintain physical and mental health.
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Method 1 of 3: Wearing Charming Dresses
Step 1. Prepare a classy dress
One of the right ways to always look elegant and charming is to wear clothes that make your appearance look perfect. For that, complete the clothing collection in the wardrobe according to the following instructions:
- Buy a few different styles of jeans, such as straight and boot cut models that fit the body. This fashion style makes you look charming while living your daily life.
- Buy a shirt, a sweater with an interesting pattern, a plain cardigan, and a few blouses to wear to various activities. These clothes can be mixed and matched to create a variety of charming fashion styles.
- Be selective when choosing a dress model. Instead of being influenced by fashion, consider carefully when buying clothes because they won't necessarily be worn again next year.
Step 2. Prepare a simple jewelry collection
As a guide, you should remove 1 piece of jewelry before leaving the house so that the appearance remains attractive and not excessive. Wear diamond earrings, a silver or gold necklace with a pendant, and a simple bracelet.
Flashy jewelry makes an otherwise mundane look more appealing. If you want to wear a long necklace, big earrings, or a thick bracelet, choose one
Step 3. Buy an elegant black dress
For young women, black dresses are favorite clothes that make them look great, but not just any black dress. Make sure you wear a special black dress. Use these guidelines when buying the perfect black dress:
Look for a black dress that has the skirt slightly below the knee and is uniquely embellished. Dresses can be worn for several years on various occasions if they are a bit long and the embellishments make the appearance more attractive. Decorations on the collar or sleeves make clothes more charming
Step 4. Prepare stockings
Perfection is not realistic, but your appearance is almost perfect if you wear stockings as a complement to a dress or bottom skirt because it makes the legs look slimmer and disguises veins or spots on the skin of the legs if any. If you are active in cold places, wear thick stockings to keep your feet warm.
Step 5. Wear good shoes
Teenage girls who want to look perfect must have classic shoes that can be worn anytime. When buying shoes, choose a simple model and a neutral color to match all clothes colors. Consider the following suggestions when buying shoes:
- Prepare several pairs of flat shoes (similar to ballet shoes) that are comfortable to wear. In addition to your favorite colors, make sure you have black and beige flat shoes.
- If you live in a 4 season country, prepare black and brown boots for autumn.
Method 2 of 3: Taking Care of Yourself the Best You Can
Step 1. Keep your body clean
So that you look attractive and confident, start the day by cleansing your body. When doing activities outside the home, the first thing that grabs the attention of others is body hygiene. Therefore, make sure you apply a healthy lifestyle according to the following instructions:
- Get used to bathing 2 times a day. You don't need to wash your hair every day, but you should shower twice a day to keep your body clean and fresh. Even though you have taken a shower in the morning, take a shower in the afternoon to clean your body from dust and sweat after activities since the morning so that your skin remains healthy and your body smells fresh.
- Use deodorant every morning after showering. Whatever your activity plan throughout the day, make time to use deodorant to prevent body odor.
- Brush your teeth for 2 minutes every morning and before going to bed at night. In addition to making a more attractive appearance, oral hygiene plays an important role in maintaining physical health. After brushing your teeth, take time to clean the oral cavity with dental floss and mouthwash. Bring dental floss when you travel so you can use it after every meal.
Step 2. Do skin care carefully
Healthy and glowing skin makes you look more attractive, but you have to take care of your skin in the right way because skin cells are very smooth and soft. In addition, the skin must be cleaned regularly to keep it healthy. Apply the following instructions to maintain healthy skin:
- Be careful when treating very thin skin, such as the eyelids. Don't rub your eyes with your hands.
- Use a good quality facial moisturizer to keep the skin elastic. Before using a moisturizer, wet your face with slightly warm water and then clean it with facial soap (to open the skin pores so that the vitamins in the soap seep into the skin). Then, rinse your face with cold water (to close the pores to prevent bacteria from entering). After washing your face, immediately apply facial moisturizer to retain skin moisture. Use a moisturizer in the form of a lotion every morning and use a moisturizer in the form of a cream before going to bed at night.
- Protect your skin with sunscreen so it doesn't dry out and get burnt due to exposure to the sun. Facial moisturizers usually contain sunscreen. So, you just need to use 1 product to moisturize and protect your skin from the sun.
- Get in the habit of washing your face every morning and before going to bed at night to keep your skin healthy and free of acne. After washing your face with soap, gently pat your face with a soft towel. Do not rub your face with a towel. To treat acne, use a face wash that contains salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide. If the skin is problematic, see a dermatologist for therapy.
- Do not squeeze or pick pimples, boils, or blackheads because they can trigger facial scars so that more pores are clogged.
Step 3. Keep your hair healthy
Make sure the condition of your hair shows that you take care of your health and take care of your hair every day. After bathing or shampooing, trim your hair with a wide-toothed comb. Let your hair dry on its own or run cool air through your hair. Do not brush hair that is still wet because it can damage the hair.
- Clean your hair regularly. Depending on your hair type, you may need to wash it every 2-3 days. Pay attention to the condition of the hair; wash your hair with shampoo if it looks greasy, then apply conditioner to the hair shaft.
- Use shampoos and conditioners whose ingredients match your hair type. For example, hair care products for thick, thin, curly, straight, or bouncy hair are made with different ingredients in order to provide the nutrients needed for your hair type.
- Avoid split ends by cutting the ends of the hair every 6-8 weeks.
Step 4. Perform nail care
Don't neglect the care of your fingernails and toenails because the condition of your nails reveals whether or not you are good at maintaining body hygiene. Take the time to trim or file your nails regularly. If you want to paint your nails, make sure the entire nail is covered with nail polish. If the nail polish starts to peel off, smooth it out by applying nail polish or removing the nail polish with acetone.
Step 5. Apply a healthy diet by eating a balanced diet.
Eating nutritious food is one way to maintain your appearance and increase self-confidence. For that, consume fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and fat-free protein sources to maintain physical and mental health. In addition, the intake of foods high in nutrients keeps the skin healthy and glowing.
- In general, women should consume 300 grams of fruit and 200 grams of vegetables every day.
- Also, eat 100-150 grams of whole grains every day.
- Meet nutritional needs by consuming protein sources of about 50 grams per day.
Step 6. Don't smoke
Different types of cigarettes cause a long list of very dangerous diseases. Smoking also makes the skin dry, wrinkled, and prematurely aging. If you want to live a perfect life, apply a healthy lifestyle by not smoking.
Method 3 of 3: Behave Well
Step 1. Show respect for everyone
Make sure you're polite to other people, whether it's family members, teachers, friends, or anyone you interact with. Even if you disagree with your sibling or don't like your friend's behavior, be nice to them by not judging or being hostile towards them. Accepting different perspectives is a way of showing maturity. Show others that you are a person who respects yourself in a dignified way so that others will repay you by respecting you. For that, apply the following tips:
- Get in the habit of saying "please" and "thank you".
- Don't gossip about other people.
- Treat others as you would like to be treated by others.
Step 2. Learn to respect yourself
Remember that all people have flaws and sometimes make mistakes, feel disappointed, or experience embarrassing events. Making mistakes is a human thing. Instead of self-deprecating or feeling inferior, use bad experiences as opportunities to learn and improve. Self-deprecation should not be part of the daily routine. You give other people a chance to say bad things to you if you tell them about yourself.
Step 3. Live life according to the virtues that you believe in
Virtue values are principles that make you live with dignity and prevent making wrong decisions that affect your reputation and become the basis for others to give opinions about your character. Building a good reputation and character is a lifelong process, but both can be destroyed in an instant due to the wrong decisions.
- Listen carefully when your parents, grandparents, or older and wiser people give advice and share life experiences. They can teach you how to avoid adversity and make the best decisions.
- Hold on to the value of virtue whenever you face pressure from others or have difficulty making decisions. Don't give in and make the wrong decision so you regret it later.
Step 4. Be a mature person
Responsibility and problem-solving skills play an important role as you strive for perfection. This doesn't mean you can't relax and have fun. Okay, but don't do stupid things. Follow these tips to show maturity:
- Don't complain or grumble when you're disappointed. Remember that life is not always fun and you need a lot of patience.
- Be personally responsible to your parents and friends at home or at school. Mature individuals are aware of their responsibilities and try to fulfill them as best they can, for example by helping parents at home, being nice to friends, and doing well in school.
Step 5. Appreciate educational opportunities
One of the important aspects of being a dignified person is having intelligence. For that, you have to focus on following lessons, apply good study patterns, make weekly study schedules, and study seriously the knowledge that can be obtained because of the good opportunities that are open to you.
- Try not to give up when facing challenges at school. Even if you don't win the class, try to achieve your best with strong determination and optimism.
- Don't forget to be grateful because you have the opportunity to learn. Maybe you have difficulty learning a certain subject and feel bored because you have to study every day, but knowledge is an important capital needed to achieve your goals.
Step 6. Show confidence
Perfect girls are very confident girls. Others will see your ability to respect yourself and think that your life is perfect. Apply these tips to feel confident:
- Get in the habit of sitting or standing straight while pulling your shoulders back and holding your head up. Body language can say a lot about you. Good body language shows that you are a capable and responsible person.
- Smile and laugh as often as possible at appropriate times. Smiling is a way of showing that you accept yourself as you are and are always grateful. You spread joy to those around you when you laugh. Other people will feel jealous because you are humorous.
- Be an optimistic person by taking lessons when facing difficulties.
Step 7. Be humble
Even though you are close to achieving perfection, a cocky girl is unattractive. You can be proud of your success, but don't show it off to others. This behavior is considered bad, embarrassing, and disrespectful. Say thank you when you are praised. You don't need to cover up the results of your hard work, but do this to be grateful and give appreciation.
- For example, if you scored the most points in a basketball game, you can feel proud and receive compliments from your friends, but don't tell everyone that the team won because of your talent. This is an example of an arrogant person.
- Give praise to the other person, instead of wanting to compete with him. When you hear about someone else's success or accomplishments, give them a heartfelt compliment to make them feel appreciated. This attitude shows that you have good character and are not intimidated by other people's success.
