Of course you can catch a girl friend's attention or make her laugh, but how do you make them crazy about you? Making a girl go crazy is a little tricky, because you have to make her curious and make her think you're attractive without having to show it. This takes a little preparation, subtlety, and confidence. If you want to make a girl go crazy over you, don't think about it too much, just relax. Before you know it, you can already drive him crazy. If you want to know how, see Step 1 to get started.
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Part 1 of 2: Be Interesting
Step 1. Let him see you having fun
There is nothing more a girl wants than to see a man who is enjoying and happy with his life. When you are with your friends, laugh and share stories. As you walk into class, think of anything that is fun and that makes you smile. When you see him, show that you are in a good mood, and not a gloomy person. You don't have to fake it, you have to make him see you as a person who enjoys life, so he wants to be in your life.
If he sees you happy, he will want to be a part of your life. If he thinks that you need someone to live a happy life, then he will think that you are not happy with your life
Step 2. Be a man
It's really hard to find a guy these days and if you are a guy the girls will take notice of you. You don't have to wear a suit or act too formal just to show it off. To be a man, serve women by showing respect, by opening doors, caring about how women feel when they are with them, and by not being too vulgar or burping or being rude in their presence.
Many of the men you know may not be well mannered and polite. Therefore, be a different person with good manners and behave well with the girl you like and the people around you
Step 3. Amaze him with your confidence
Girls like guys who are confident and will naturally be attracted. If you want a girl to be crazy about you, then you have to make her see how happy you are to be yourself. Be grateful for your life, enjoy the time you spend with your friend, let them see that you are someone who is happy and safe with yourself and that you don't care what other people think of you. Many guys feel insecure and girls don't like it; they don't want to spend time just constantly supporting you. If you are happy with yourself, then the girls will prefer to be around you.
- This doesn't mean that you are overconfident, but that you are aware of your flaws, change your flaws, and accept the unchangeable.
- You don't have to act too masculine and exaggerate how great you are, as this can turn girls off.
Step 4. Be independent
Even though girls want a guy who is always there for her, they don't want a guy who has nothing else to do but be with them. If you want girls to be crazy about you, then you have to attract her attention with your independence. You have to be happy with what you are doing, like playing the guitar or running in the park. If you are just a follower and do what everyone else is doing, then he will know for himself how independent you are. So, attract his attention with your abilities and be comfortable with yourself.
Girls want a guy who can be confident in a crowd, they don't want a guy who isn't even interested in him either
Step 5. Be a little mysterious
Don't be too open about everything you think about. It's slowly as you get to know him better, then you can open up a little bit about yourself, but the first time you don't tell him how much you love your dog, or how you fight with your best friend. Let him know for himself if it's worth getting to know you. If he thinks it's too easy to get to know you, then he won't feel challenged. That doesn't mean you have to lie or turn out to be mysterious, but you just don't have to tell everything all at once.
If you have to go, don't tell her that you have to see your mother. Let him be curious about your plans
Step 6. Master a skill
Nothing drives girls crazy more than a guy who can play the guitar, who has a beautiful voice, or who is really good at basketball. Skills are very interesting. If you want to attract a girl's attention, to be honest, if you master one thing it becomes easier. That doesn't mean you have to show off in front of him, but you have to master a skill and guide him so he can figure it out for himself.
Of course, you don't have to try to take part in an activity just to get the girls' attention, but because you want to do it yourself. Mastering a skill will also increase your self-esteem, and is great for attracting the attention of girls
Step 7. Don't show off too much
Stop thinking that a girl will go crazy over you because you show off your skills in various things. If you are really good at something, then he will know by himself; if you think you need to tell him, then you feel insecure and feel you have to convince others of how great you are. You can talk about things you like, but don't say things like, "I'm really good at …" or, "I just beat it when …" or the girl will feel disinterested.
If you always flaunt and talk about how great you are, then girls will see you as a social poison. No one wants to be next to a guy who always talks about himself
Step 8. Improve appearance
This doesn't mean you have to spend your free time at the gym. But you have to think about how you look once you step out of the house, make sure you're showered, smell good, dress the right size, and don't look messy (unless it's part of your appearance). If you look like you just woke up, the girl will rethink why spend time with you who can't even take care of yourself. You don't have to look like a model to show a girl that you're trying to look good.
If you're spending time with a girl, it's important to look presentable. Or, he will think you have no effort
Step 9. Treat others with respect
If you want a girl to be crazy about you, then you have to have a reputation for being fun. This doesn't mean that other people can misbehave or that you have to be kind to people who are mean to you, but that it's about how you should treat other people, from the marginalized person in your class to the teachers and girls who will be attracted to find you are someone who is kind.
Contrary to what you might think, putting other people down and gossiping about them won't win girls' hearts. If you always behave badly towards other people, then the girls will feel like they can't trust you
Step 10. Don't take it too seriously
Girls like guys who can make them laugh, and who are comfortable with themselves so they can joke about their flaws. This doesn't mean you have to sound uncomfortable with yourself, but if you find an opportunity to joke about yourself and make her laugh, then do it. He'll think you're very attractive, not obsessing over constantly grabbing his attention or making him think you're perfect, and he'll start to open up to you and want to be around you more.
If you feel isolated or angry too easily when other people joke about you, you will come across as defensive and distrustful of yourself. Learn to accept jokes, and the girls will be blown away
Part 2 of 2: Winning Her Heart
Step 1. Listen to him
One of the biggest mistakes guys make is talking too much about themselves without noticing a girl standing in front of them. You may be making this mistake unknowingly by thinking too much about what you have to say in front of a girl to get them to notice you. However, stop that now. Take time to listen to him, let him finish and don't interrupt him, try to understand what he is talking about and don't connect it with yourself.
It is very difficult for girls to find good listeners. If you can be a good listener, then you will be seen as someone who cares about him
Step 2. Tease him
A little teasing can't hurt. If you want to get girls, then you have to know how to flirt without going overboard. Be interesting and funny, make funny jokes and tease him a bit, and keep the conversation going. Don't make comments that are overly sexual or insult a girl even if you're basically just teasing her; give him a nice compliment, even laugh about yourself to make him see that you like him and aren't seriously teasing him.
Of course, if you want a special girl, you have to give in more flirting than when you flirt with other people to make her attractive; You don't want him to think that you're just a master flirt who flirts with anyone and doesn't care about him
Step 3. Make his friends think you're cool
If you want the girl to be crazy about you, then it's great if you can also make her friends think that you are a cool person from the start. If you're only nice to the girl you like and mean to her friends, then she'll think you don't care about other people. But if you're nice to his friends without teasing him or giving him the wrong signals, then he'll think you're a nice guy and will, without a doubt, like you more.
When girls hear other girls about how cool a guy is, they can get jealous, and make them like the guy even more
Step 4. Make him feel special
If you want a girl to be crazy about you, then you have to make her feel special by recognizing her as a unique person. Tell him, “You are different from the average girl…” or “You are very different from your friends…” and make him see that he is different in your eyes. You can give him a specific compliment about his personality or mention what he's said in a previous chat, to show that you listen and care. Don't do this to every girl, or she may think you're just a flirt. Girls want to feel unique, and when they find a guy who makes her feel that way, they'll love it.
Take the time to really pay attention to the things that make this girl different from the rest, be it her confidence, the way she laughs, or her dancing skills. Let him know why he is so special
Step 5. Remember to always seem hard to come by
Even if you want to win her heart, you have to keep up the pursuit process. You don't want him to think he's in control of the game, but you have to get him to put in a bit of effort to win your heart too. These must be mutually exclusive. Let him know that you like him, but don't fill him with compliments. Go with him, but make sure you also have plans to go with your friends too, that you can't go when he asks you to go either. If he calls you, don't pick up immediately; You also have other things to do right? This will make the girl attracted to keep coming back to you.
That doesn't mean you have to go through this process in detail to win her heart. But you just have to keep things interesting so he doesn't have a boring time when he sees you. If you chase him too much, he'll be less crazy about how cool you are
Step 6. Look for him at any given moment
Don't be the possessive and obsessive guy that every girl fears, but don't be the Master of the Distance Guard either. Whether you're in a relationship with a girl or in the process, looking to her all the time to ask her how her day was or how her math test or soccer game was will show that you're overthinking her even when you're not together. This will make him think that you are a man worth keeping. Make sure you're not always the one who's constantly looking for him or maybe he's flat on you.
Don't text him continuously every day. You don't want him to think that you have nothing else to do besides being in touch with you
Step 7. Don't overthink it
The best way to win over a girl is to not rush and enjoy her time instead of constantly figuring out the 50 best ways to be a cool guy. Sounds sad doesn't it? In the end, you want the girl to like you, not because of your exaggeration, or a fake version of you, you have to focus on how to have a girl who knows the real you and you get to know her in the process.
If you spend time trying to get a girl's attention, work too hard to get it, or behave like you're not, then she can figure it out pretty quickly. So relax, grab his attention, and be prepared to see him crazy about you
Tips
- Believe in yourself
- Don't keep calling or texting her.
