Finding out that your boyfriend is cheating on you can be a very painful bitter experience. Maybe you want to scream out of anger that is running high because the man you love betrayed you, but wait! There's still a better way to get back at him. Apply the strategies and tips in this article so that he will regret being bad to you.
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Method 1 of 10: Pretend you don't care when he's proven to be cheating on you
Step 1. Dealing with an cheating boyfriend by acting nonchalantly makes him feel disappointed
Cheaters are usually very narcissistic. It could be that he expects you to throw a tantrum when he's caught cheating on you. So, draft the best scenario calmly and with a cool head.
- Don't let him find loopholes to make you sound mean when his affair is exposed.
- If you see him having an affair with your own eyes, don't rage. Pack your luggage, then just walk away.
Method 2 of 10: Be cool with him
Step 1. Maybe he will try to convince you that he is sorry
If you want to forgive him, let him know that it's not as easy as turning the palm of your hand. Do not interact or meet with him until he has successfully restored your trust and respect for him indefinitely. If he really wants to restore the relationship, he must meet all of your requirements.
Depending on the situation, don't do what you don't like out of necessity. If you want to give a second chance, of course you can
Method 3 of 10: Let him know that you feel sad and disappointed
Step 1. Make him feel guilty for what he did
Tell him how you feel because he cheated on you. Be honest and assertive when you say you love him, but his actions are ruining the relationship. Who knows, he may regret his actions.
- For example, say to him, "I can't believe you would do something like this. It hurts so much, even though I really love you."
- Another example, ask him: "Why do you have the heart to lie to me?"
Method 4 of 10: Disconnect
Step 1. Break up immediately as soon as you find out he's cheating on you
If you don't want to continue the relationship, just leave this guy! Tell him in clear and straightforward sentences that it's over, then disconnect. It could be that he was devastated when he realized that he lost you.
- You need to do this step so that he understands the consequences of his actions.
- For example, say to him, "We broke up. I don't want to see you again."
Method 5 of 10: Return his belongings in a cardboard box
Step 1. Leave a cardboard box on the terrace of his house or send it via courier without telling
If you still have his belongings in your house, collect them and put them in a cardboard box. Put it on the terrace of his house for him to see. A bitter experience that forced you to throw him out without saying a word to him must be very painful.
If your belongings are still at his house, message him. Have him pack it in a cardboard box and place it on your patio
Method 6 of 10: Tell everyone what you're going through
Step 1. Cheaters don't want their actions to be known to others
You don't have to protect the cheater. Tell him honestly that he's having an affair if someone asks what happened between the two of you, why you broke up or ignored him. You can explain what's next, but there's no need to cover up the truth.
Even if you want to forgive him, share this with the other person so that he feels guilty for cheating and regrets what he did
Method 7 of 10: Change your appearance
Step 1. Let him regret when he sees you look more attractive
Put on new clothes and have time to do your hair at the salon. Change your appearance by choosing clothes and accessories that make you look more beautiful and elegant. If you want to get back at him, choose a way that makes you feel better and more confident. As the saying goes: while diving drink water!
- You can wear tight clothes that have not been worn everyday. Make him think why he had the heart to waste you.
- Makeup can be a useful therapeutic tool to relieve anger.
Method 8 out of 10: Do activities with other people to make them feel jealous
Step 1. Invite a male friend to accompany you to lunch or spend time together
He will be very sorry after realizing that what he did made you leave him and start a relationship with someone else. Choose a good man who is willing to accompany you on activities or just have fun spending time together without making a commitment. Who knows you may find the right person to replace him!
When he hears how happy you are with other people, he realizes that his actions are making you suffer
Method 9 out of 10: Never interact with him again
Step 1. Delete his mobile number, unfriend him on social media, and don't respond to him at all
Let him suffer the consequences of his actions without giving any relief. Cut off communication by deleting his cell phone number and ignoring if he calls or texts. Delete or block his account on social media so he can't see your uploads and vice versa. Deny his request to communicate with you. This step frustrates him and you don't have to go through the stress of dealing with him again.
- Change your phone number so he can't call you.
- Delete all photos during activities together that are still on social media so that it seems as if they never existed in your life.
- Block his account if he continues to monitor you on social media.
- Ask friends and family members to block his account to get him to give up because he shouldn't come near you anymore.
Method 10 out of 10: Do fun activities
Step 1. The best way to get revenge is to be the best version of yourself
Don't let his actions bring you down. Do fun activities that keep you healthy and happy to show him how much better your life is now. He will regret that he treated you badly after seeing how good your life was after your separation.
- Adopt a healthy diet and set aside time for regular exercise. In addition to improving your appearance, this step can improve your mood so it is very useful for dealing with feelings of sadness and disappointment due to a broken heart.
- Start doing new activities that have been pending, such as practicing yoga, hiking, or taking cooking classes. You are free to do any activity, as long as it's a happy one!
Tips
- If the mistress doesn't know that she already has a boyfriend, try contacting her to let her know. This move could be a good opportunity for revenge.
- If you're willing to forgive him and move on, find a therapist who has the expertise to help conflicted couples. He can help you find the best solution.
