Kissing your boyfriend is easy, and it can be even more difficult if you add a hug to him. If you're sitting alone with your boyfriend on the couch and he puts his arm around your shoulder, what should you do next? If you want to know, keep reading this article.
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Part 1 of 2: A Casual Cuddle with Your Girlfriend
Step 1. Lean on her body
If both of you are sitting on the sofa, don't sit far apart, because it will make this dear man feel lonely. If the distance between the two of you is wide enough that it looks as if a flowing river can pass, this is a mistake. When sitting alone on the sofa, move closer to him so that your bodies are almost touching each other. If his arms are placed behind his back on the back of the sofa, this is a strong sign that he wants you to move into his arms.
If you're watching television, this step becomes a little easier. Your sneaky approach to him won't seem too conspicuous
Step 2. Let your boyfriend put his arm around your shoulder
Once you're in his arms, make sure he sees that you feel his touch and moves closer to him, until your head rests on his chest or even snuggles under his neck. You can even look up for a moment and smile at him, to let him know how much you enjoy cuddling with him. That way, your boyfriend will be more confident to put his arm around your shoulder.
You can also lean down slightly and hold her hand. Gently caress her palm or fingers to send the right message of love to her
Step 3. Do a relaxing hug while lying down
If you're tired of cuddling while sitting face-to-face with your boyfriend, you can try lying down. Just put your arm around your boyfriend's shoulders, keeping some distance until he picks up on your signal and understands that he needs to stretch out a bit. Then, you can move into his arms, while keeping your back to him with his arms wrapped around you.
- Another alternative is to lie on your stomach facing your boyfriend. This method will trigger both of you to kiss immediately. When the two of you are facing each other at such a close distance, it's really hard to stop yourself from stealing kisses.
- Your two bodies shouldn't really be on top of each other. Even though you may be lying on top of your boyfriend's body, position your legs slightly to the side.
Step 4. Do the “spoon” hug style
In this classic cuddle style, you and your boyfriend need to sit with your arms wrapped around each other, but your legs should be folded and facing your boyfriend directly on his lap, his legs under you, on the floor.
Step 5. Do the “spoon” hug in the “Mama Bear” style
It's one of the classic "spoon" hug styles, too. To do this, you'll need to arch your boyfriend's back and wrap your arms around him. You both need to lie on your side for this stylish hug.
Step 6. Do a “spoon” hug in a “Papa Bear” style
This is a true “spoon” hug style. Lie on your side with your back to your boyfriend, so that his chest is against your back. Both of you should be in a position like the letter C and facing the same direction, then your boyfriend wraps his arms around you. He can even rest his chin on your shoulder, bringing your faces closer together.
Step 7. Avoid the bad relaxed hug style
Maybe you think that a casual hug will definitely bring you and your boyfriend closer. Of course, this often proves to be true, but there are actually some styles of casual hugs that are so uncomfortable that your intimate moments will be disrupted. Don't worry, these common mistakes do happen to both experts and beginners. However, if you know what to avoid, you will be one step ahead in this game. So, here are the things to avoid:
- Tingling arms. Arm tingling is the most uncomfortable position in the art of casual cuddling. This happens if the two of you are in a relaxed hug while lying down or sitting down, and your boyfriend's arm is pinched behind your back. This causes the blood flow to the boyfriend's arm to be blocked, as well as turning off his desire to make out.
- "Bound knot". This very uncomfortable position occurs when you and your boyfriend's bodies are wrapped around each other so that it is very difficult for both of you to find the location of each other's left leg or right hand. If you can't get your limbs off your boyfriend's body, this means trouble.
- The notorious face-to-face hug. Unless you're ready to kiss right away, you should really avoid hugging each other while looking at each other.
- Hugs too tight. You certainly don't want your boyfriend to completely suffocate you. Therefore, avoid hugging so tightly that you have trouble breathing. If this happens, gently ask your boyfriend to loosen his grip a little.
Part 2 of 2: Kissing Your Girlfriend
Step 1. Make eye contact
Making eye contact is the first step to a successful kiss. After you've both hugged for a while, or even if you don't hug but want to kiss right away, the first step is to make eye contact. Eye contact will send a message to your boyfriend that you want to kiss his lips. Once your faces are facing each other and your arms are embracing each other, it's time to continue the action by kissing.
You can also lightly lick your lips to make them softer, but do so without being too flashy. This will draw his attention to your mouth
Step 2. Caress her face
Now, move closer to your boyfriend and place your hand on his cheek or face. Pull her body closer to you and maintain eye contact as you prepare to land a kiss.
Step 3. Give her a passionate kiss on the lips
Do not immediately try to do a French kiss (French kiss) on your boyfriend. First, give her a soft yet passionate kiss on her lips. Just lean in towards him to kiss his lips, hold your lips against his for a second, then back away while maintaining eye contact.
Step 4. Give him a French kiss
Once you're both used to a soft, sweet kiss, you can start French kissing if that's a comfortable choice. Slowly move your tongue into your boyfriend's mouth while he does the same. Then, move your tongue in a slow, circular motion inside his mouth, or move your tongue up and down gently in a position against his tongue.
Step 5. Kiss the rest of the face and neck
If you want to express your affection for your boyfriend, just kiss his neck, ears, or even the sides of his jaw. This will be a new added touch, which changes the rhythm of this kissing game, and makes him want to kiss you again and again.
Step 6. Keep the hug
Kissing doesn't mean letting go of your arms and doing nothing. That's not the case. You have to keep your hands busy while kissing, so that you and your boyfriend feel more intimate with each other. You can also "take a break" in the middle of a kiss to cuddle. Here are a few things you can do to keep your boyfriend's touch while cuddling:
- Wrap your arms around his neck
- Playing with her hair
- Put your hand on his chest
- Sit on his lap and put your hand on his shoulder
Step 7. Show your boyfriend how much you enjoy kissing and cuddling with him
When you're done kissing and cuddling with him, give him a big smile and a quick kiss to show that he's made you happy and that you want to kiss him again. Stroll her hair, tell her that you like her, or do other little things to show how happy you are after making out with her. Don't be shy about telling him how you really feel.
Tips
- Make sure that your breath and body smell good, because hugging and kissing are very intimate moments between the two of you, which of course don't fall apart because of bad smells.
- Make sure that not only you, but your boyfriend is also comfortable.
- If during the kiss you don't know what to do next, just follow the lead and watch what happens.
- Your boyfriend may caress and touch you, but you have the right to refuse if his touch lands on sensitive parts of your body.
- Have fun with her, and make her feel like the most important person in the place. Men also really enjoy this kind of feeling, just like women.:)
- Make sure that your lips are soft and smooth. "Vaseline" can help you to achieve this goal.
- To show him that you want to cuddle, try leaning your shoulder against him, with your head tilted to the other side. If he wants to cuddle too, he'll put his arm around your shoulders and pull you into his arms.
Warning
- If this will be your first kiss, choose a place away from crowds or other people's distractions.
- If your boyfriend stays away, don't force him. Maybe he's just not ready. Everyone has their own time of readiness. Good luck!
- Just relax, and be yourself. Remember, have fun and just enjoy!
