Sometimes in a relationship, you become closer to your partner until the love starts to dim. The best way to rekindle the fire of love is to make him miss you and remember what made him fall in love with you. In addition, sometimes relationships also end prematurely. You can make your ex miss you and reminisce about the peak moments of your relationship. To make him miss you (regardless of the situation), keep him apart, control communication, and take advantage of small cues like scent, spontaneity, and purposefully "left behind" items to get him thinking about you when you're not around. Soon, he will miss you and want that intimacy again.
Read the segment When Should You Try This? to learn more about when is the right time to make him miss you.
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Method 1 of 4: Stopping Communication
Step 1. Stop calling or texting him
If you're always calling or texting him, he won't have the chance to think about or miss you. Refrain from contacting him for a day and wait for him to call or text first. When you stop calling or texting him, he will question why and this will make him start thinking about and missing you.
Step 2. Wait a while before answering the call or replying to the text
When we like someone, we generally immediately take the opportunity to answer a call or reply to a message because we are so excited. To get him to miss you, try to create a moment that makes him want your response.
- When he calls you, don't answer the call right away and let the message go to voicemail. Wait a few minutes, then call her back and let her know you didn't have time to answer because you were busy.
- After receiving a text message, wait 5-10 minutes before replying. With this move, he'll want your response and make him think what you're doing when you're not with him.
Step 3. Limit uploads on social media
If you frequently update your social media with various activities, try limiting the number of posts you upload. Social media posts are the easiest way for people to stay connected and feel “not missed” on any news about you. When you reduce posts on social media, he will miss hearing about you.
Limit communication with your partner on social media. If you use social media to talk to her when you're not together, pause this form of communication. Later, he wants to hear from you and hopes to chat when he misses you
Step 4. End the conversation first
Try ending a phone call or text message before he ends it, especially if you're usually the last person to say goodbye. By being the first person to end a chat, he will want and remember you more and more until he can talk to you again. His longing for more interaction will drive him crazy with his desire to talk to you.
Method 2 of 4: Making the Most of the Little Things
Step 1. Look for a unique fragrance
Try to find a perfume that is not overpowering to use before you meet him. In the future, he will associate the fragrance with you so that there is something else about you that he can miss. When not together, he will miss the fragrance and want to kiss it.
- Make sure you don't overdo it so that she doesn't feel embarrassed. Use enough perfume so that the fragrance can be smelled when someone is very close to your body.
- To create an "effect" like this, you have to use the same perfume every time you meet him.
- This can also be applied when you want to make your ex-girlfriend miss you. If you arrive at the meeting place and use the perfume you used to usually use, he will immediately associate it with the old times together.
Step 2. Be mysterious and surprising
If you show an open mind when you first meet him, nothing will surprise him. Therefore, try to tell one interesting fact about yourself every time you meet him. With this move, he wants to know more about you and looks forward to hearing what else he can find out. Show spontaneity when you're with him. If you usually go out to dinner on a date, take her on an adventure (eg try rock climbing). This kind of spontaneity leaves him second-guessing what you want to do next.
Step 3. Leave things in his car or house
If you leave an item in his house or car, it will always remind him of you. When he thinks of you, he will start thinking about and missing you. Personal small items that are not used every day can be the perfect object for a “covert” reminder.
- Comb
- Jewellery
- Makeup products
- Pen or notebook
- Small photo
Step 4. Let him crave you more
Every time you go out with him, you have to make him want you more and more. Whether it's a kiss, a laugh, a fun, or a chat, make him crave something even more. You can do this by taking your time and having clear boundaries regarding the time you spend together.
- Stop the chat because you have to be home at a certain time.
- Give him one sweet kiss at the end of the meeting so he wants more kisses from you.
- Have limits on your personal curfew. You may want to spend more time with him, but if you plan to say goodbye early, you can make him want to spend more time together.
Method 3 of 4: Become an Independent Person
Step 1. Put some distance between you and your partner
He can not feel longing if you are always there for him. The best way to make him miss you is to put some distance between the two of you. If you always spend weekends with him, start planning time to spend the weekend without him. Instead of going out with her, spend Saturday night alone at home or with friends. At first, he may feel comfortable with the moment of solitude, but if you do it regularly, he will miss your presence in his arms.
Step 2. Go out with friends and tell them about it
Try having a night out with friends instead of date night, and tell him about the fun you're having. He'll probably be happy, but he'll also be a little jealous that you can have fun without him. If you spend a few weekends with other friends, he'll be longing to be someone you can have fun with.
This can also be done for ex-lover. When he sees you having fun and enjoying life without him, he will miss being a part of your life
Step 3. Use social media to accentuate your own fun
Start uploading photos and status updates about the fun you're having on your own. This is the right step to take if you want to make your ex miss you. Show how much fun you can enjoy on your own. Soon enough, he'll be begging to spend some time with you because he misses you so much.
Don't pretend or be a “fake” person on social media. Just highlight the fun while having fun with friends and participating in your own activities
Step 4. Change your appearance and meet him
Indulge in new hairstyles and clothes to make you look and feel cool. Dress well, then meet him somewhere. He will be surprised by the new look and will want to see you more often.
If you want to make your ex miss you, go to the places he used to go with your new look. Walk towards it with a dazzling look and confidence. This makes him wish he was still in a relationship with you. He will also miss the moments when he was still a part of your life
Method 4 of 4: When Should You Try This?
Step 1. Try to make him miss you so he knows how special you are
Seducing the guy you like by dressing up and dressing well, using sweet perfume, showing him that you have a big social life, etc. can make him realize that you are attracted to him (and, of course, reflect that you are an attractive person). It doesn't matter if you're a little over-the-top as long as you don't get carried away when you get his attention.
Step 2. Switch to a more direct form of communication when you are ready for a more serious relationship
At first, he may want you more and more when you make him miss him, but eventually he will get bored if you have to wait a long time before replying to his messages (or avoid him long enough between meetings/dates). He may also understand your plans to make him miss you if you brag too much about how much fun it is without him. Instead of finding new ways to make him miss you, try telling him how you really feel.
Step 3. Don't miss him if you want to manipulate him
It's actually natural for you to want your ex to miss you after a breakup, especially if you were the one who dumped or dumped you. However, focusing too much on how to make him miss you might actually backfire on yourself. Instead of getting out of the relationship, you'll become completely obsessed with his thoughts. Give him time and yourself and try not to manipulate him after the relationship ends.
Tips
- It may take some time for him to start missing you. Don't be surprised if these steps don't work right away. Most guys enjoy some time to themselves at first and may start to miss you after a few days. However, keep in mind that this is not always the case.
- Combine small touches with other steps to keep him thinking about you. When you are with him, casually touch his body or stroke his hair when he is about to part / say goodbye.
- Believe in yourself. You need to be confident when you make room for yourself or meet your ex after the relationship ends to show that you are happy with being independent.
- Make him jealous! When you're with him, sit down and chat with another guy and act like he's not around.
Warning
- Every relationship is different, and every man is different. Some of the methods in this article may come across as irritating to some men, so make sure you show some sensitivity to their feelings. Your goal is to "spice" your relationship by making him miss you, not toying with his feelings.
- If you want to make your ex miss you, make sure he wants to see you anyway. This tactic is most effectively followed if both parties have previously agreed to cut ties. If the relationship ends badly, it's a good idea to take some time for yourself first.
- If you want to put some distance in your relationship, and he doesn't miss you right away, try talking to him to evaluate the relationship. Start communicating with him and find out how he feels when you try to distance yourself.
