Most behavior is shown by temperament. Behaving well in school doesn't include things like throwing paper when your teacher is turning their back on you, good behavior has its advantages. Good behavior makes a good impression on teachers and administration and they will tend to crown you as a good person when you are not naughty. A clean record of your behavior can also improve your prospects for college and may even help you find a job in the future. To start building a good reputation in school, please read this article!
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Method 1 of 3: Behave in class
Step 1. Always listen to your teacher
This is the easiest and most basic step to good behavior in school. When teachers, principals or other school staff are talking, make sure to listen carefully or they will ask you back. Listen to them even when they are not talking to you directly (for example, during a ceremony). The teacher's day is spent trying to get the attention of children who prefer to read books, not talk to friends (but listen to topics), and ignore their cell phones and other such things during class. If you listen to the teacher well, he will recognize you and start thinking that you are a good student.
- Avoid asking your teacher to re-explain things they have explained in great detail just for fun or to get attention. If you do, you will frustrate them or get angry. You're better off waiting a while and you can ask privately and say "Sorry, I think I need more help understanding how to do this."
- If you have something that is making it difficult for you to concentrate, remember to try to deal with it when you wake up in the morning (such as taking medicine when you are sick) so that you can concentrate fully during your study.
Step 2. Follow the teacher's directions
Your teachers will feel happy when their students respect them. If you follow their directions well, they will give you even more freedom because they think you can be trusted. In addition to following directions verbally, read your teacher's lesson plan carefully and follow the directions you can find in it. Many students forget to study the lesson plan - step ahead of other students by paying more attention to it.
- If your teacher gives directions to students not to come to class before the teacher comes, wait outside even though for example some of your friends have already entered. If you are the only student who follows directions exactly, then you will be remembered by the teacher as an obedient student.
- Some teachers sometimes give clever directions to test which students are really listening and which are not. If he says something mysterious like, "don't forget to study this weekend," take note - they may be planning a quiz/test on Monday. You will make a very good impression if you are the only student ready.
Step 3. Strive to get good grades
Every student has different academic abilities and weaknesses - you don't have to worry if you don't get perfect results or grades. It's more important when you show your teacher that you're still trying to be the best. Ask smart and thoughtful questions during class. If you have things that are difficult to understand, see your teacher after the lesson ends.
- Your desire to ask for help will show your teacher that you take their class seriously. A student who is clearly involved in the material will tend to be selected when they give assignments, tests, etc.
- If you are trying to understand various subjects, don't be afraid to ask your teacher for advice. Seeking help when you need it is a sign of maturity which most teachers admire and prefer.
Step 4. Participate in class
Many classes adopt the discussion method. Learning in this kind of classroom is through dialogue between students and students. Try to answer the questions the teacher asks in class. Even when your answer is not quite right, you will show your teacher that you are directly involved in the material. If you don't participate, your teacher will think you're not listening or don't care about the material.
Raise your hand first when you have something to say in class. Don't answer questions when they haven't been asked! Most teachers will feel annoyed when a student answers a question before being instructed
Step 5. Silence
Don't talk to your friends or interrupt class, especially when you're your teacher's favorite student. Repeated distractions can anger your teacher or even get you kicked out of class. Respect your teacher. You need to know when your teacher wants students not to talk. If you're not sure, try to speak a little in silence or wait for a student to speak first, and see how your teacher reacts.
When your teacher is leaving the room, you can talk to your friends as needed. However, be quiet immediately when your teacher comes into the room. never ever talk when your teacher leaves the room during an exam - other students may tell the teacher that you are trying to interrupt or cheat in class.
Step 6. Try to keep a clean behavior record
Not all students who read these tips have perfect behavioral records. If you've done bad things in the past, start making a good impression as soon as possible. Apologize to the teacher, student or administrative employee whom you have disrespected. If you've done something really bad, give your teacher a simple treat for the upcoming holidays. Pay more attention to your schoolwork. Pay more attention in class. Live your day with good activities, then follow the steps described above.
Method 2 of 3: Behave outside the classroom
Step 1. Don't waste your time in the hallway
It will be very natural for you to greet friends between classes. This is very grateful for good students. However, don't allow yourself to talk too much or joke around. Keep track of your time and make sure you have enough time to get to class before the bell rings. Teachers hate their students who come late. If you are repeatedly late, you may even be subject to detention or other disciplinary action.
If you have a timer app on your watch or phone, use it. Set a certain amount of time - for example, three minutes - for you to chat with your friends. When the time is up, quickly finish what you are doing and get to class
Step 2. Remain a good student in the eyes of school officials
Head of Department, dean, and chancellor: they aren't your teachers, but that's not an excuse that you can forget about them and the school staff around them. Everyone who works in an office at a school may have a relationship with the principal or other person who can discipline you. Be respectful to these people - having a good reputation among the school's employees will help you when you have a real problem.
Here is an example: many schools have secretaries in their school offices which you need to talk to if you are late for school for some reason. Sometimes, these people are annoying, and, because they don't have the power to discipline you, you will be tempted to put them down. Do not do it. They probably talk to the principal every day. Even if they don't report you to the principal, they will make life difficult for you the next time you have a bad record before the principal.
Step 3. Avoid fighting
Sometimes, this one thing is very difficult to do, but it is always very important. Many schools have zero tolerance for fighting students - when you hit, you can easily get suspended or expelled. Keep a record of your behavior from the threat of black ink. Don't get yourself into an argument unless it's absolutely necessary to protect yourself. Even in cases that require you to fight, you will run the risk of getting into big trouble. The teacher and the other employees didn't want to know who started the fight. If your statement contradicts the statement of the person fighting with you, then you and your friend will both be punished. The best principle is to avoid fighting altogether. Here are some tips:
- Understand how to deal with bullies. Bullies are usually weak, inferior people who hurt you in order to feel better about themselves. Try to thwart their attempts without fighting.
- Ignore your attackers. Sometimes, people fight for attention or because they are bored or have unfulfilled satisfaction. Ignore these people to make them look like idiots. Headphones can be a great tool to ignore - turn up the volume of your music.
- Notify the teacher or administrative officer. If you feel you are being bullied, tell the school staff, especially if you are concerned about the bully getting into a fight. If they do, you can say that you have tried to warn them of the danger beforehand.
- Never start a fight. No matter how disrespectful someone is to you, you will bear the blame if you start a fight. If you feel irritated with another student, do whatever activity can control your emotions - for starters, you can listen to soothing songs, eat a lot, or do sports activities.
Step 4. Don't talk bad about other people
Gossip, especially exaggeration, can spread easily, but you should avoid gossiping like that. Words can spread around the classroom quickly, and if someone overhears you talking bad things about themselves behind their backs, you'll earn a reputation for being untrustworthy. The consequences multiply will happen when talking about teachers and other employees. Malicious rumors about employees can jeopardize their jobs. If you are caught starting a rumor about one of the school employees, your punishment will be severe.
Needless to say, spreading gossip is also a bad thing to do. Before you say something unkind about someone, think about whether the statement is true or just a rumor. If the statement is true, think about how they would feel when they heard the statement
Method 3 of 3: Further More
Step 1. Get involved in extracurricular activities
Good behavior doesn't always have to start and end in class - most schools have a selection of extracurricular activities you can take part in. By participating in extracurricular activities, you will have the opportunity to enlarge your circle of friends (both in terms of students and faculty member) and develop a reputation as a hard worker. Here are some of the extracurricular activities that the school offers:
- sports
- Music Group or Band
- Vocal group
- Musical drama
- Special interest clubs (debate, cooking, robotics, etc.)
Step 2. Show a "good" appearance
Many teachers and students are shallow, pathetic but true - they will judge you based on your appearance. If you truly If you want to get a reputation for being well-groomed, try to dress and groom yourself so that you will look presentable. Avoid wearing ripped jeans, baggy pants or t-shirts. Do not use piercings on the face or body. Always smile - don't try to appear arrogant or threatening. Unfortunately, changing your surface appearance will cause some people to see you differently.
- Boys should be neatly shaved, with short and simple haircuts. Wear a neat and clean shirt, well-fitting pants or trousers. Not wearing earrings.
- Girls should avoid wearing flashy makeup, revealing clothing (bare belly, low-cut shirts, etc.), and excessive jewelry.
Step 3. Reach out to unpopular people
One good way to earn a good reputation is by being friendly and welcoming to unpopular students. Volunteer to show new kids around the school. If you see someone sitting alone at lunch, sit next to them. Survive bullying. You can even take these people to dance classes. Most importantly, be a friend to people who have no friends. You will be recognized immediately. Plus, it's a lot of fun to do.
Step 4. Be a leader
By finding a leadership role, you'll have more potential to do good (and a larger audience to notice your good deeds.) Get involved in student organizations, start your extracurricular club, or become the captain of an inter-school sports team. Whatever you do, leading by example, well-behaved leaders can quickly gain the respect and admiration of students and teachers.
Step 5. Behave well outside of school
Word spreads fast in school - things you do outside of school can affect how people judge you at school. Be an active volunteer at a homeless shelter or charity. Participate in community programs. Spend time on your Saturdays doing meaningful activities like building cheap housing through programs like Habitat for Humanity. Become a tutor for at-risk youths. Encourage your friends to do the same. All of this will count towards your goal of making a good impression at the school.
Step 6. Ignore the haters
It's almost undeniable that some people are jealous of you because you try to be a good person at school. Ignore any temptation or humiliation that may come your way. In this way, you can display maturity and self-control. In addition, they will also appear immature. Don't let the haters tempt you - the benefits of being well behaved are not worth the satisfaction of retaliation.
Don't lower yourself to the level of your haters by returning their taunts. The best revenge is to live happily while continuing good behavior - this will eventually frustrate them
Tips
- Asking something is allowed.
- Remember, that everyone makes mistakes.
- Don't give up on good behavior.
Warning
- Good behavior means holding on to good things.
- If you have good manners and then screw it up, people will be very disappointed in you, they will think you are not serious, and wonder that what you are about to do is really what you wanted to do. Chances are your teacher will even suggest you do something else.
- Some teachers may enjoy joking, and when they say something weird, make sure they say, "Yeah, this is what we did today." and don't just laugh.
